โYintoni ephosakeleyo kwilizwe apho kuzukiswa imfazwe nokulwela uxolo kubugwala?โ
-UMonica Benderman
Xa ndabona iindaba zamva nje malunga nomkhosi wase-US usiya ekusetyenzisweni kwamajoni erobhothi, andikhange ndikwazi ukumelana nempendulo ecacileyo: Ngaba bekungenjalo kakade? NoHenry Kissinger onegunya lokubulala abantu abaninzi wakha wathi: โAmajoni azizidenge, zizilwanyana eziziziyatha ezinokusetyenziswa njengeentsila zolawulo lwamazwe angaphandle.โ Ukuthenga kwesi simo sengqondo, nangona kunjalo, kukucima naluphi na umanyano olunokwenzeka nabasebenzi basemkhosini baseMelikaโฆnjengomzekelo, uSgt. Kevin Benderman.
UBenderman, igqala lemfazwe yase-Iraq ehonjisiweyo enenkonzo yeminyaka eli-10 kuMkhosi wase-US, umi eFt. Stewart, GA, kunye ne-3rd Infantry Division. Uqale wangena emkhosini ngowe-1987 xa wayeneminyaka engama-22 ubudala.
Umfazi kaBenderman, uMonica wandixelela. โUKevin waziva enembopheleleko yokukhonza ngenxa yeli lifa. Wawushiya umkhosi ngo-1991 waza waqhuba ishishini lakhe le-sub-contracting / flooring iminyaka eyi-8. Ngo-2000, emva kokuqhubeka neencoko noyise, owayeligqala leWWII, waziva engalufezanga uxanduva lwakhe enkonzweni, waphinda wabhalisa.โ Usebenze ukhenketho olunye lokulwa eIraq, ukusukela ngoMatshi ka-2003 ukuya kuSeptemba 2003โฆ njengenxalenye ye-1-10 Calvary 4th Infantry Division ukusuka eFt. Hood, eTexas.
Lilonke, ayililo ibali elingaqhelekanga lejoni laseMelika, akunjalo?
Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule, qwalasela enye into: Sgt. Benderman, indoda ekholelwa ukuba โImfazwe iphanga ubuntu bakho. Kwenza abantu benze izinto ezimasikizi ebebengenakuze bazenze,โ yafaka isicelo sokuba abantu bangavumiyo ngenxa yesazela ngoDisemba 2004.
UMonica uthi: โIsicelo sakhe saba ngumphumo wonyaka wokuzigocagoca ngenxa yoko wakubonayo ebudeni bohambo lwakhe lokulwa nezinye izinto ezamncedayo ekuchazeni ngokutsha iinkolelo zakhe.
Umkhosi wase-US awuzange uchukumiseke. Okokuqala, umphathi wakhe ngelo xesha akazange asamkele eso sicelo. UMonica uthi: โImigudu yakhe yokuqhagamshelana nomfundisi waseBatalion ukuze afumane uncedo yaba lilize. "Akukho namnye kuluhlu lwakhe lomyalelo oye wanikela naluphi na uncedo malunga nesicelo sakhe, esaphula imimiselo yoMkhosi."
Sgt. UBenderman wayekhathazekile ngokuqondakalayo. Uthi: โAndizi kuzibaleka iinkolelo zam. โNdikholelwa ukuba le nto ndiyenzayo ilungile, nokuba ithini na imiphumo.โ Wayengafuni kubuya aze abe yinxalenye yoko wayekubonile. โUngaqeqesha yonke into oyifunayo kwaye ubukele iividiyo zoqeqesho, kodwa awunakukwazi ukuba kunjani ukulwa de ube unamava,โ utshilo uKevin. โAwunako ukutshisa ingalo yentombazana encinci xa uqeqeshwa, okanye izinja zitye amathambo abantu, okanye amajoni adubule abulale abantu bokwenyaniโฆ besigibisela ngamatye.โ
โU-Kevin uphose ukuthunyelwa ngenxa yeentlanganiso ne-CSM (uMyalelo Sgt.
Major),โ utshilo uMonica.
NgoJanuwari 7, i-CSM kaKevin yamkhulula ukuba abuyele ekhaya ukuze asebenze ngokulandelelana kweziganeko ezikhokelela kwisigqibo sakhe sokufaka isicelo se-CO. Kwiintsuku ezintathu kamva, u-Benderman wabika kumyalelo weSebe eliNgasemva njengoko wayeyalelwe apho wayexelelwe ukuba uya kunikwa yonke imbeko kunye nemisebenzi efanelekileyo kuye njengeNCO.
โNgoJanuwari 16,โ wandixelela uMonica, โumkhosi wase-US watyhola uKevin ngenqaku
I-85 ye-UCMJ, Ukulahla ngenjongo yokuphepha umsebenzi onobungozi, kunye neSiqendu 87 se-UCMJ, i-Missing Movement. Ezi zityholo zimbini zinesohlwayo esikhulu seminyaka esi-7 evalelweyo ngokuphulukana nesikhundla, ukuphulukana nezibonelelo, kunye nokukhutshwa ngokungenambeko.โ
Sgt. UBenderman usebenza namagqwetha ukuzithethelela kwezi zityholo. Yena noMonica bazise iinkcukacha zebali labo eluntwini ngewebhusayithi: www.BendermanDefense.org. Inkxaso efunyenweyo iye yawuvuselela umoya wabo.
UMonica uthi: โSivile ngamajoni amaninzi axhasa uKevin. โNdikholelwa ukuba amajoni adiniwe yiloo nto ayiceliweyo, kwaye ngokokuva kwam kumalungu osapho, uninzi lwamajoni abuyileyo ngoku asazama ukulinganisa into athe adibana nayo ngexesha lokulwa. Asinakuthetha ngendlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngezenzo zabo, okanye oko bafuna ukuzenzela bona. Siyazi ngamajoni angama-20 ngoku asebenza e-Iraq afake isicelo se-CO, kunye nabaninzi e-US. Sivile nokuba kukho amajoni aseMelika angama-5000 ngoku ahlala eCanada, kodwa akanakuqinisekisa elo nani. โ
Inkxaso ikwavela kwabaninzi abangaphandle komkhosiโฆngaphezu kokuba uKevin noMonica bebekhe baphupha. Kodwa uMonica uyasiqonda isidingo sokuzisa ibali kubantu abaninzi kwaye aligcine liphila phambi koluntu. โSivakalelwa kukuba kubalulekile ukugcina iziganeko zeli tyala kwiqonga likawonke-wonke,โ utsho, โkungekuphela nje kwityala likaKevin, kodwa nakwabanye abacinga ngekhondo elifanayo, noluntu ngokubanzi ukuba luyiqonde. inyaniso kwinto eyenzekayo emkhosini.โ
Okwangoku, i-Benderman iya kuqhubeka isusa uKevin kuzo zonke iintlawulo ngelixa ikhonza njengemizekelo yezinto ezinokwenzeka.
โAsinanto yimbi esinokuyenza,โ uqukumbela ngelithi uMonica. โNantsi into ekufuneka siyenze, bendisoloko ndibaxelela abantwana bam ukuba eyona nto ilungileyo yeyona nto ibalulekileyo, kwaye ukuyenza kuphela kwento ekuvumela ukuba ugcine ingqibelelo yakho, nokuba ithini imiphumoโฆInye indoda iyekile ukubulala. . Enye indoda ikhethe ukukhangela indlela engeyiyo imfazwe. Umntu omnye uthabathe indlela elungileyo, ekuphela kwendlela esa ezingqondweni, esa eluxolweni.โ
Ukufunda ngakumbi malunga neli tyala kunye nokubonelela ngenkxaso yalo naluphi na uhlobo, nceda
undwendwelo: www.BendermanDefense.org.
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