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Lapha e-United States, lapho kubikwa ukuthi kudlwengulwe njalo ngemva kwemizuzu engu-6.2, futhi owesifazane oyedwa kwabahlanu uzodlwengulwa empilweni yakhe, ukudlwengulwa nokubulawa ngesihluku kowesifazane osemusha ebhasini eNew Delhi ngoDisemba 16 kuthathwe njengokudlwengulwa. isigameko esingavamile. Indaba yezinsolo zokudlwengulwa kwengane equlekile ngamalungu eqembu lebhola laseSteubenville High School yayisaqhubeka, futhi ukudlwengulwa kweqembu akuyona into engavamile nalapha. Khetha: amanye amadoda angu-20 adlwengula ingane eneminyaka engu-11 ubudala eCleveland, eTexas, agwetshwa ngoNovemba, kanti umgqugquzeli wecala lokudlwengula ingane eneminyaka engu-16 ubudala eRichmond, eCalifornia, wagwetshwa. ngo-Okthoba, namadoda amane adlwengula ingane eneminyaka engu-15 ubudala eduze ne-New Orleans ngesigebengu bagwetshwa ngo-Ephreli, nakuba amadoda ayisithupha adlwengula ingane eneminyaka engu-14 ubudala e-Chicago ekwindla edlule namanje asagcwele amathafa. Hhayi ukuthi ngiphumile ngifuna izigameko: zikuyo yonke indawo ezindabeni, noma kungekho ozingezayo futhi okhombisa ukuthi kungenzeka kube khona iphethini.
Kukhona, nokho, iphethini yodlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane olubanzi futhi olujulile futhi olushaqisayo futhi olunganakwa ngokungapheli. Kwesinye isikhathi, icala elithinta usaziwayo noma imininingwane ewubukhazikhazi ecaleni elithile lithola ukunakwa okukhulu emithonjeni yezindaba, kodwa amacala anjalo athathwa njengezixakaxaka, kuyilapho ukuchichima kwezindaba eziphathelene nokuhlukunyezwa kwabesifazane kuleli zwe, kwamanye amazwe, kuwo wonke amazwekazi okuhlanganisa ne-Antarctica, akha uhlobo lwesithombe sangemuva sangemuva sezindaba.
Uma uncamela ukukhuluma ngokudlwengulwa kwamabhasi kunokudlwengulwa yiqembu lezigelekeqe, kukhona ukudlwengulwa kowesifazane okhubazekile ebhasini lase-Los Angeles ngoNovemba kanye nokuthunjwa kwengane eneminyaka engu-16 ubudala ene-autistic ohlelweni lwesitimela sesifunda e-Oakland, Californiaโ udlwengulwe ephindelela umthumbi wakhe ezinsukwini ezimbili kulobu busika-futhi kube neqembu lokudlwengula abesifazane abaningi ebhasini eMexico City, muva nje. Ngenkathi ngibhala lokhu, ngafunda ukuthi omunye umgibeli webhasi wesifazane uthunjwe eNdiya futhi wadlwengulwa yiqembu lezigelekeqe ubusuku bonke umshayeli webhasi nabangane bakhe abahlanu okungenzeka ukuthi bacabanga ukuthi okwenzeka eNew Delhi kwakumangalisa.
Sinensada yokudlwengulwa kanye nodlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane kuleli zwe nakulo Mhlaba, nakuba kungakaze kuthathwe njengendaba yamalungelo abantu noma amalungelo abantu, noma inkinga, noma iphethini. Udlame alunalo uhlanga, isigaba, inkolo, noma ubuzwe, kodwa lunabo ubulili.
Lapha ngifuna ukusho into eyodwa: nakuba cishe bonke abenzi bobugebengu obunjalo kungamadoda, lokho akusho ukuthi wonke amadoda anobudlova. Abaningi abanjalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, amadoda ngokusobala nawo abhekana nobudlova, ikakhulukazi ezandleni zamanye amadoda, futhi konke ukufa okunobudlova, konke ukuhlaselwa kubi. Kodwa isihloko lapha wubhubhane lodlame olwenziwa amadoda kwabesifazane, kokubili udlame olusondelene nodlame olungaziwa.
Esingakukhulumisi Uma Singakhulumi Ngobulili
Kuningi kwakho. Singakhuluma ngokushaywa nokudlwengulwa kwengane eneminyaka engu-73 ubudala e-Manhattan's Central Park ngo-September odlule, noma ukudlwengulwa kwakamuva kwengane eneminyaka emine kanye neneminyaka engu-83 ubudala eLouisiana, noma iphoyisa laseNew York City elake lashona. waboshwa ngo-Okthoba ngalokho okwakubonakala kuyizinhlelo ezingathi sรญna zokuthumba, ukudlwengula, ukupheka, nokudla owesifazane, noma yimuphi owesifazane, ngoba inzondo yayingeyona eyomuntu siqu (yize mhlawumbe kwakungenxa yendoda yaseSan Diego eyabulala futhi yapheka umkakhe. ngoNovemba kanye nomlisa waseNew Orleans owabulala, wahlahlela, futhi wapheka intombi yakhe ngo-2005).
Lawo wonke amacala angavamile, kodwa singaphinde sikhulume ngokuhlaselwa kwamanani aphansi, ngoba nakuba ukudlwengulwa kubikwa njalo ngemva kwemizuzu engu-6.2 kuleli zwe, isamba esilinganisiwe mhlawumbe siphezulu ngokuphindwe kahlanu. Okusho ukuthi kungase kucishe kube nokudlwengulwa ngomzuzu e-US Konke kuhlanganisa amashumi ezigidi zezisulu zokudlwengulwa.
Singase sikhulume ngokudlwengulwa kwabasubathi basesikoleni samabanga aphakeme nabasekolishi, noma ukudlwengulwa emakhempasini, lapho iziphathimandla zenyuvesi bezingenasithakazelo ngokushaqisayo ekuphenduleni ezimweni eziningi, kuhlanganise naleso sikole samabanga aphezulu eSteubenville, eNyuvesi yaseNotre Dame, e-Amherst College, nezinye eziningi. Singakhuluma ngobhubhane olukhulayo lokudlwengulwa, ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi, kanye nokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi embuthweni wamasosha aseMelika, lapho uNobhala Wezokuvikela uLeon Panetta elinganisela ukuthi kube nezigameko zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi eziyi-19,000 kumasosha akanye nawo ngo-2010 kuphela nokuthi iningi labahlaseli labaleka. nakuba ujenene wezinkanyezi ezine uJeffrey Sinclair ebekwe icala ngoSepthemba โngamacala amaningi ocansi olubhekiswe kwabesifazane.โ
Unganaki udlame lwasemsebenzini, asigoduke. Amadoda amaningi abulala ophathina bawo kanye nalabo ababengabalingani bawo kangangoba siba nezigameko zokubulawa zalolo hlobo ezingaphezu kuka-1,000 ngonyakaโokusho ukuthi njalo ngemva kweminyaka emithathu inani labafayo lidlula inani labafa ngo-9/11, nakuba kungekho omemezela impi ngalobu buphekula. (Enye indlela yokukubeka: izidumbu ezingaphezu kuka-11,766 ezivela ekubulaweni kobudlova basekhaya kusukela ngo-9/11 zidlula inani lokufa kwezisulu ngalolo suku nawo wonke amasosha aseMelika abulawa โempini yamaphekula.โ) Uma sikhuluma ngobugebengu njengalezi nokuthi kungani zivame kangaka, kungadingeka sikhulume ngokuthi hlobo luni loshintsho olujulile lo mphakathi, noma lesi sizwe, noma cishe zonke izizwe ezidingayo. Uma sikhuluma ngakho, ngabe sikhuluma ngobudoda, noma izindima zesilisa, noma mhlawumbe ubudoda, futhi asikhulumi kakhulu ngalokho.
Kunalokho, sizwa ukuthi amadoda aseMelika ayazibulalaโokungenani cishe abayi-12 ngesontoโngoba umnotho mubi, nakuba futhi ekwenza lapho umnotho umuhle; noma ukuthi lawo madoda eNdiya abulala umgibeli webhasi ngoba abampofu becasukela abacebile, kuyilapho okunye ukudlwengula eNdiya kuchazwa ngendlela abacebile abaxhaphaza ngayo abampofu; bese kuba nalezo zincazelo ezihlala zidumile: izinkinga ezingokwengqondo nezidakwaโkanye namahlaya, ukulimala ekhanda. I-spin yakamuva ukuthi ukuchayeka komthofu kube yimbangela yodlame lwethu oluningi, ngaphandle kokuthi bobabili ubulili budalulwa futhi oyedwa wenza udlame oluningi. Ubhubhane lodlame luhlala luchazwa njenganoma yini ngaphandle kobulili, noma yini ngaphandle kwalokho okungabonakala kuyiphethini echazayo kunawo wonke.
Kukhona obhale isiqeshana ngokuthi amadoda amhlophe abukeka sengathi yibo ababulala abantu abaningi e-US futhi abaphawula (iningi labo abanobutha) babonakala bebona ingxenye emhlophe. Akuvamile ukuba noma ubani asho lokho okushiwo yilolu cwaningo lwezokwelapha, ngisho noma ngendlela eyome kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka: โUkuba wesilisa kuye kwaphawulwa njengesici esiyingozi sokuziphatha kobugebengu obunobudlova ekuhloleni okuningana, njengoba kuye kwachayeka entuthuni kagwayi ngaphambi kokuzalwa, ukuba nabazali abangahlalisani kahle nabanye abantu. nokuba yingxenye yomndeni ompofu.โ
Noma kunjalo, iphethini isobala njengosuku. Singakhuluma ngalokhu njengenkinga yomhlaba wonke, sibheka ubhubhane lokuhlaselwa, ukuhlukunyezwa, nokudlwengulwa kwabesifazane eTahrir Square eCairo osekuthathele inkululeko ababeyigubha ngesikhathi se-Arab Springโfuthi kwaholela amadoda athile lapho ukuthi akhe amaqembu okuvikela ukusiza ukulwa nakhoโnoma ukushushiswa kwabesifazane esidlangalaleni nangasese e-India kusukela โku-Eve-teasingโ kuya ekushisweni ngomakoti, noma โukubulala ngenhloniphoโ eNingizimu ye-Asia naseMpumalanga Ephakathi, noma indlela iNingizimu Afrika esiphenduke ngayo ukudlwengulwa komhlaba wonke. inhloko-dolobha, ngokudlwengulwa okulinganiselwa ku-600,000 ngonyaka odlule, noma indlela ukudlwengula okuye kwasetshenziswa ngayo njengeqhinga โnesikhaliโ sempi eMali, eSudan naseCongo, njengoba kwakunjalo ezweni elaliyiYugoslavia, noma ukwanda kokudlwengulwa nokuhlukunyezwa I-Mexico kanye nokubulawa kwabesifazane eJuarez, noma ukwenqatshwa kwamalungelo ayisisekelo kwabesifazane eSaudi Arabia kanye nenqwaba yokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi kwabasebenzi basezindlini abayizifiki lapho, noma indlela icala likaDominique Strauss-Kahn e-United States eladalula ngayo ukuthi yena nabanye babenakho ukungajeziswa. eFrance, futhi kungenxa yokuntuleka kwendawo kuphela ngishiya iBrithani neCanada ne-Italy (nondunankulu wayo wangaphambili owaziwa ngokuxokozela nabancane), i-Argentina ne-Australia kanye namanye amazwe amaningi.
Ubani Onelungelo Lokubulala?
Kodwa mhlawumbe ukhathele izibalo, ngakho-ke ake sikhulume ngesigameko esisodwa esenzeke edolobheni lami emasontweni ambalwa edlule, esinye sezigameko eziningi zasendaweni lapho amadoda ashaya khona abesifazane esenze amaphepha endawo kule nyanga:
"Owesifazane ugwazwe ngemuva kokuthi enqabele indoda efuna ukuya naye ocansini ngesikhathi ezihambela endaweni yaseTenderloin eSan Francisco ngoMsombuluko ebusuku, kusho okhulumela amaphoyisa namhlanje. Isisulu esineminyaka engu-33 ubudala besihamba emgwaqeni ngesikhathi kufika umuntu esingamazi esicela ukuthi sicele umshado kwaso, kusho okhulumela amaphoyisa u-Albie Esparza. Ngesikhathi emala, owesilisa wacasuka kakhulu wabe esesika isisulu ebusweni wasigwaza engalweni, kusho u-Esparza.โ
Le ndoda, ngamanye amazwi, yafaka lesi simo njengesisulu lapho isisulu sakhe esikhethiwe singenamalungelo nenkululeko, kuyilapho sinelungelo lokulawula nokumjezisa. Lokhu kufanele kusikhumbuze ukuthi udlame kuqala luwubushiqela. Iqala ngalesi sisekelo: Nginelungelo lokukulawula.
Ukubulala inguqulo eyeqisayo yalokho kugunyazwa, lapho umbulali ethi unelungelo lokunquma ukuthi uyaphila noma uyafa, indlela yokugcina yokulawula othile. Lokhu kungase kube yiqiniso ngisho noma โulalela,โ ngoba isifiso sokulawula siphuma entukuthelweni ukulalela okungenakukunqanda. Noma ngabe yikuphi ukwesaba, noma imuphi umuzwa wokuba sengcupheni ongase ube ngaphansi kokuziphatha okunjalo, nakho kuphuma elungelweni, ilungelo lokufaka ukuhlupheka ngisho nokufa kwabanye abantu. Kuzala usizi kumenzi wobubi nabahlukunyezwayo.
Mayelana naleso sigameko edolobheni lami, izinto ezifanayo zenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi. Izinguqulo eziningi zakho zenzeka kimi ngisemncane, ngezinye izikhathi zibandakanya izinsongo zokufa futhi ngokuvamile zibandakanya izifufula zamanyala: owesilisa uya kowesifazane ngakho kokubili isifiso nokulindela okuthukuthele ukuthi isifiso cishe sizochithwa. Ulaka nesifiso kuza ngephakeji, konke kusontekile ndawonye kwaba into ehlala isongela ukuguqula ama-eros abe ama-thanatos, uthando lube ukufa, kwesinye isikhathi ngokoqobo.
Iwuhlelo lokulawula. Kungakho izigameko eziningi zokubulawa kwabantu abasondelene nabo kube okwabesifazane abalokotha bahlukane nalabo abathandana nabo. Ngenxa yalokho, ibopha abantu besifazane abaningi, futhi nakuba ungasho ukuthi umhlaseli ngoJanuwari 7, noma umdlwenguli onesihluku eduze nomakhelwane wami ngoJanuwari 5, noma omunye umdlwenguli lapha ngoJanuwari 12, noma amaSan. UFrancisca owathungela intombi yakhe ngomlilo ngomhlaka-6 Januwari ngokwenqaba ukuyiwasha, noma umfana owayesanda kugwetshwa iminyaka engu-370 ngokudlwengula okunodlame ikakhulukazi eSan Francisco ngasekupheleni kuka-2011, babengabalingiswa abangekho emthethweni, abacebile, abadumile, nabanelungelo. kwenze, futhi.
Usekela-consul waseJapane eSan Francisco ubekwe amacala angu-12 okuhlukumeza umngane womshado kanye nokushaya ngesikhali esiyingozi ngo-September odlule, ngenyanga efanayo lapho, edolobheni elifanayo, owayeyintombi kaMason Mayer (umfowabo we-CEO ye-Yahoo uMarissa Mayer. ) wethula ubufakazi enkantolo: โWangikhumula amacici ami, wangikhumula izinkophe, ngenkathi engikhafulela ebusweni futhi engitshela indlela engingathandeki ngayoโฆ amadolo aqine emaceleni ami ukuze angibambe futhi angishaye ngempama.โ Ngokusho kwaleli phephandaba, uphinde wafakaza ukuthi โuMayer ushaye phansi ngekhanda ephindelela wabe esekhipha izinwele zakhe, emtshela ukuthi ukuphela kwendlela aphuma ngayo endlini ephila uma emhambisa eGolden Gate Bridge โlapho. ungagxuma noma ngizokuphusha.'โ UMason Mayer wavivinywa.
Kuleli hlobo, umyeni owayengahlali naye wephule umyalelo wokuvimbela umkakhe ngokumelene naye, wamdubula-nabanye abesifazane abayisithupha-emsebenzini wakhe we-spa edolobheni laseMilwaukee, kodwa njengoba kwakukhona izidumbu ezine kuphela ubugebengu abunakwanga kwabezindaba ngonyaka. ukubulawa kwabantu abaningi okumangalisayo kuleli zwe (futhi besingakakhulumi ngempela mayelana neqiniso lokuthi, ekudutshulweni kwabantu abaningi okungu-62 e-US emashumini amathathu eminyaka, eyodwa kuphela eyenziwa ngowesifazane, ngoba uma uthi ushayasibhamu eyedwa, wonke umuntu ukhuluma ngakho. izizungu nezibhamu kodwa hhayi ngabesilisaโfuthi nje, cishe izingxenye ezimbili kwezintathu zabo bonke abesifazane ababulawa izibhamu babulawa umlingani wabo noma owayethandana naye).
Uthando luhlobene ngani nakho, kubuza uTina Turner, owayengumyeni wakhe u-Ike wake wathi, โYebo ngamshaya, kodwa angizange ngimshaye ngaphezu kokuba umfana ojwayelekile ehlula umkakhe.โ Owesifazane ushaywa njalo ngemizuzwana eyisishiyagalolunye kuleli. Ukucaca nje: hhayi imizuzu eyisishiyagalolunye, kodwa imizuzwana eyisishiyagalolunye. Yimbangela yokuqala yokulimala kwabesifazane baseMelika; kwezigidi ezimbili ezilimalayo minyaka yonke, ngaphezu kwengxenye yesigidi salabo abalimala badinga ukunakekelwa kwezokwelapha kuyilapho cishe i-145,000 idinga ukulaliswa esibhedlela ubusuku bonke, ngokusho kweSikhungo Sokulawulwa Kwezifo, futhi awufuni ukwazi mayelana nodokotela wamazinyo odingekayo ngemva kwalokho. Abashadile nabo bayimbangela ehamba phambili yokufa kwabesifazane abakhulelwe e-US
โAbesifazane emhlabeni wonke abaneminyaka engu-15 kuya kwengu-44 banamathuba amaningi okuthi bafe noma bagogeke ngenxa yobudlova bamadoda kunangenxa yomdlavuza, umalaleveva, impi nezingozi zomgwaqo kuhlangene,โ kubhala uNicholas D. Kristof, ongomunye wabantu abambalwa abavelele abangayilungisa le nkinga njalo. .
Umhosha Phakathi Kwemihlaba Yethu
Ukudlwengula nezinye izenzo zodlame, ezihlanganisa nokubulala, kanye nezinsongo zodlame, ziyizisulu zokuhlukumeza amadoda athile lapho ezama ukulawula abanye abantu besifazane, futhi ukwesaba ukuthi udlame kuvimbela iningi labesifazane ngezindlela abaye babhekana nazo. abajwayele ukuqaphelaโfuthi asikhulumi neze. Kukhona okuhlukile: ehlobo eledlule othile wangibhalela engichazela ngekilasi lasekolishi lapho abafundi babuzwa ukuthi benzani ukuze bahlale bephephile ekudlwengulweni. Abesifazane abasebasha bachaza izindlela eziyinkimbinkimbi ababehlala beqaphile ngazo, banciphisa ukufinyelela kwabo emhlabeni, bathatha izinyathelo zokuphepha, futhi empeleni bacabanga ngokudlwengula ngaso sonke isikhathi (ngenkathi izinsizwa ekilasini, wengeza, zigcwala ukumangala). Igebe phakathi kwemihlaba yabo lase libonakale isikhashana futhi kungazelelwe.
Nokho, kakhulukazi, asikhulumi ngakhoโnakuba isithombe besisabalele ku-inthanethi esibizwa ngokuthi Amathiphu Ayishumi Aphezulu Okuqeda Ukudlwengulwa, uhlobo lwento abesifazane abasebasha abavame ukuyithola ngokwanele, kodwa lena ibe nokusonteka okuvukelayo. Yanikeza iseluleko esinjengalesi: โFaka ikhwela! Uma ukhathazekile ungase uhlasele othile โngephuthaโ ungamnikeza umuntu onaye, ukuze akwazi ukucela usizo.โ Nakuba kuhlekisa, ucezu lukhomba into embi kakhulu: imihlahlandlela evamile ezimweni ezinjalo ibeka umthwalo ogcwele wokuvimbela kwabangase babe izisulu, iphathe ubudlova njengento enikeziwe. Uyangichazela ukuthi kungani amakolishi echitha isikhathi esiningi etshela abesifazane ukuthi bangasinda kanjani ezilwaneni ezidla ezinye kunokuba batshele enye ingxenye yabafundi babo ukuthi bangabi izilwane ezidla ezinye.
Izinsongo zokuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi manje zibonakala zenzeka ku-inthanethi njalo. Ekupheleni kuka-2011, umlobi wephephandaba waseBrithani u-Laurie Penny wabhala, "Umbono, kubonakala sengathi, isiketi esifushane se-intanethi. Ukuba nenye futhi ubukisa ngayo ngandlela thize kuwukucela inqwaba yama-keyboard-bashers wesilisa cishe wonke ukuthi akutshele ukuthi angathanda ukukudlwengula, ukukubulala, nokukuchamela kanjani. Kuleli sonto, ngemuva kwezinsongo ezimbi kakhulu, nginqume ukwenza embalwa yaleyo miyalezo esidlangalaleni ku-Twitter, futhi impendulo engiyitholile yayimangalisa. Abaningi abazange bayikholelwe inzondo engangiyithola, futhi abaningi abengeziwe baqala ukuxoxa ngezindaba zabo zokuhlukunyezwa, ukwesatshiswa, nokuhlukunyezwa.โ
Abesifazane emphakathini wamageyimu aku-inthanethi baye bahlukunyezwa, basatshiswa, futhi baxoshwa. U-Anita Sarkeesian, umgxeki wezindaba olwela amalungelo abesifazane owabhala izigameko ezinjalo, wathola ukwesekwa ngomsebenzi wakhe, kodwa futhi, ngokwamazwi entatheli, โelinye igagasi elinolaka ngempela, uyazi, izinsongo zomuntu ezinobudlova, ama-akhawunti akhe azama ukugetshengwa. Futhi indoda eyodwa e-Ontario yathatha isinyathelo sokwenza igeyimu yevidiyo eku-inthanethi lapho wawungakwazi khona ukuchoboza isithombe sika-Anita esikrinini. Futhi uma uyishaya izikhathi eziningi, kuzovela imihuzuko nokusikeka esithombeni sakhe.โ Umehluko phakathi kwalaba badlali bamageyimu ku-inthanethi namadoda e-Taliban, ngo-Okthoba odlule, azama ukubulala uMalala Yousafzai oneminyaka engu-14 ubudala ngokukhuluma ilungelo labesifazane basePakistan lokuthola imfundo ungomunye weziqu. Bobabili bazama ukuthulisa nokujezisa abesifazane ngokufuna izwi, amandla, kanye nelungelo lokubamba iqhaza. Siyakwamukela e-Manistan.
Iqembu Lokuvikela Amalungelo Abadlwenguli
Akukhona nje esidlangalaleni, noma okuyimfihlo, noma ku-inthanethi futhi. Kuphinde kugxiliswe ohlelweni lwethu lwezombangazwe, kanye nesistimu yethu yezomthetho, leyo ngaphambi kokuthi abameli besifazane balwele thina, babengabuboni udlame lwasekhaya, noma ukuhlukunyezwa ngokocansi nokulandelana, noma ukudlwengulwa kwabantu abajwayelene nabo, noma ukudlwengulwa komshado, futhi ezimweni zokudlwengulwa. uvame ukuzama isisulu kunomdlwenguli, njengokungathi izintombi eziphelele kuphela ezingahlaselwaโnoma zikholwe.
Njengoba safunda emkhankasweni wokhetho luka-2012, lugxilile nasezingqondweni nasemilonyeni yosopolitiki bethu. Khumbula ukuthi izigameko zokudlwengulwa kwamadoda aseRepublican azisho ngehlobo eledlule nasekwindla, kuqale ngesimangalo sika-Todd Akin sokuthi owesifazane unezindlela zokuvimbela ukukhulelwa ezimeni zokudlwengulwa, isitatimende asenza ukuze anqabele ukuthi abesifazane balawule imizimba yabo. . Ngemuva kwalokho, uRichard Mourdock, owayengenele ukhetho eSenate, wathi ukukhulelwa kokudlwengula โkuyisipho esivela kuNkulunkulu,โ futhi kule nyanga nje, omunye wezombangazwe waseRiphabhulikhi wasukuma ukuze avikele ukuphawula kuka-Akin.
Ngokujabulisayo ama-Republican amahlanu asekela ukudlwengula esidlangalaleni emkhankasweni ka-2012 wonke alahlekelwa amabhidi awo okhetho. (UStephen Colbert wazama ukubaxwayisa ngokuthi abesifazane babethole ivoti ngo-1920.) Kodwa akuyona nje indaba kadoti abayishoyo (kanye nenani abalikhokhayo manje). Ngasekuqaleni kwenyanga, amalungu eCongress Republican anqabile ukugunyaza kabusha uMthetho Wokuhlukunyezwa Kwabesifazane, ngoba ephikisana nokuvikelwa okunikeza abokufika, abesifazane abashintsha ubulili, kanye nabesifazane bomdabu baseMelika. (Uma sikhuluma ngezifo eziwumshayabhuqe, oyedwa kwabesifazane abathathu boMdabu baseMelika uzodlwengulwa, futhi ngokungangabazeki amaphesenti angu-88 alokho kudlwengula kwenziwa amadoda angewona aboMdabu aziyo ukuthi ohulumeni bezizwe ngeke bawashushise.)
Futhi bazimisele ngokukhipha amalungelo okuzalaโukulawula ukuzalwa kanye nokukhipha isisu, njengoba bekwenze kahle ezifundazweni eziningi kule minyaka eyishumi nambili edlule. Okushiwo โngamalungelo okuzala,โ yiqiniso, ilungelo labesifazane lokulawula imizimba yabo. Angishongo yini phambilini ukuthi udlame olubhekiswe kwabesifazane luyinkinga?
Futhi nakuba ukudlwengulwa kuvame ukuphenywa ngokunganakiโkunokusilela emuva kwezimpahla zokudlwengula ezingahloliwe ezingaba ngu-400,000 kuleli zweโabadlwenguli abakhulelisa izisulu zabo banamalungelo abazali ezifundazweni ezingu-31. Oh, kanye nalowo owayeyisekela likamongameli kanye nelungu lengqungquthela yamanje u-Paul Ryan (R-Manistan) wethula kabusha umthethosivivinywa ozonikeza izifundazwe ilungelo lokuvimbela ukukhishwa kwezisu futhi ongase uvumele ngisho nomdlwenguli ukuthi amangalele isisulu sakhe ngokuba naso.
Zonke Izinto Ezingasoleki
Yebo, abesifazane bayakwazi ukwenza zonke izinhlobo zokungajabulisi okukhulu, futhi kukhona ubugebengu obunobudlova obenziwa ngabesifazane, kodwa lokho okubizwa ngokuthi impi yobulili obuhlukile ngokungavamile uma kuziwa odlameni lwangempela. Ngokungafani nenhloko yokugcina (yesilisa) ye-International Monetary Fund, inhloko yamanje (yesifazane) ngeke ihlasele isisebenzi ehhotela eliwubukhazikhazi; izikhulu zesifazane ezisezikhundleni eziphezulu ebuthweni lezempi laseMelika, ngokungafani nozakwabo besilisa, azisolwa nganoma yikuphi ukuhlukumeza ngokocansi; nabasubathi besifazane abasebasha, ngokungafani nalaba badlali bebhola besilisa e-Steubenville, akulula ukuthi bachamele abafana abaqulekile, ingasaphathwa eyokubaphula futhi baziqhayise ngakho kumavidiyo e-YouTube nezifunzo ze-Twitter.
Abekho abagibeli bamabhasi besifazane e-India abaye bahlangana ukuze banukubeze ngokocansi owesilisa kabuhlungu waze washona ngenxa yokulimala kwakhe, futhi awekho abagibeli bamabhasi besifazane abahlukumeza amadoda eTahrir Square, eCairo, futhi abekho omama abalingana namaphesenti angu-11 okudlwengulwa okwenzeka ngesikhathi. obaba noma obaba. Kubantu ababoshiwe e-US, amaphesenti angama-93.5 akubona abesifazane, futhi yize iningi labo akufanele libe khona kwasekuqaleni, mhlawumbe abanye babo kufanele ngenxa yodlame, size sicabange indlela engcono yokubhekana nayo. yona, kanye nabo.
Asikho isihlabani somculo we-pop esikhulu esike saphephula ikhanda insizwa eyagoduka nayo, njengoba kwenza uPhil Spector. (Manje useyingxenye yalawo maphesenti angama-93.5 ngokubulawa kwesibhamu kukaLana Clarkson, ngokusobala ngenxa yokwenqaba intuthuko yakhe.) Akekho umlingisi wesifazane oyinkanyezi yefilimu obekwe icala lodlame lwasekhaya, ngoba u-Angelina Jolie akenzi nje lokho uMel Gibson noSteve. UMcQueen wenza kanjalo, futhi abekho abaqondisi bamafilimu besifazane abadumile abanikeze izidakamizwa ezineminyaka engu-13 ubudala ngaphambi kokuhlukumeza leyo ngane ngokocansi, kuyilapho yena elokhu ethi โcha,โ njengoba kwenza uRoman Polanski.
Esikhumbuzweni sikaJyoti Singh
Yini inkinga ngobudoda? Kunento ethinta indlela ubudoda obucatshangelwa ngayo, ngezinto ezituswayo nezikhuthazwayo, ngendlela udlame oludluliselwa ngayo kubafana okufanele kubhekwane nalo. Kunamadoda athandekayo futhi amangalisayo laphaya, futhi enye yezinto ezikhuthazayo kulo mzuliswano wempi yokulwa nabesifazane ukuthi bangaki amadoda esengibonile ukuthi ayitholayo, acabanga ukuthi yindaba yawo nawo, asimelayo futhi kithi empilweni yansuku zonke, ku-inthanethi kanye namamashi asuka eNew Delhi aya e-San Francisco kulobu busika.
Ayanda amadoda aba abangane abahleโfuthi bebelokhu bekhona. Umusa nobumnene akuzange kube nobulili, kanjalo nozwelo. Izibalo zodlame lwasekhaya zehle kakhulu kusukela emashumini eminyaka angaphambili (yize zisaphezulu ngendlela eshaqisayo), futhi amadoda amaningi asemsebenzini akha imibono emisha nemibono mayelana nobudoda namandla.
Amadoda angama-Gay abe ngabangane bami abahle cishe iminyaka engamashumi amane. (Ngokusobala umshado wobulili obufanayo ushaqisa abantu abalandela imithetho eqinile ngoba umshado phakathi kwabantu abalinganayo abangenazo izindima ezingenakugwenywa.) Inkululeko yabesifazane ivame ukuvezwa njengenhlangano ehlose ukungenela noma ukuthatha amandla nelungelo kude namadoda, njengokungathi emdlalweni othile ongemuhle we-zero-sum. , ubulili obubodwa kuphela ngesikhathi obungakhululeka futhi bube namandla. Kodwa sikhululekile ndawonye noma izigqila ndawonye.
Kukhona ezinye izinto engingathanda ukubhala ngazo, kodwa lokhu kuthinta konke okunye. Izimpilo zengxenye yesintu zisagcwele amandla, zicindezelwa, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ziqedwa yile nhlobonhlobo yobudlova edlangile. Cabanga ukuthi singakanani isikhathi namandla ebesingaba naso ukuze sigxile kwezinye izinto ezibalulekile ukube besingekho matasa kangako ngokusinda. Kubheke ngale ndlela: enye yezintatheli ezihamba phambili engizaziyo iyesaba ukuya ekhaya ebusuku endaweni yangakithi. Kufanele ayeke ukusebenza sekwephuzile? Bangaki abantu besifazane okuye kwadingeka bayeke ukwenza umsebenzi wabo, noma bamiswe ukuwenza, ngenxa yezizathu ezifanayo?
Enye yezinhlangano zezombusazwe ezintsha ezijabulisa kakhulu Emhlabeni inhlangano yamalungelo abantu bomdabu baseCanada, enemibono yabesifazane neyemvelo, ebizwa ngokuthi Idle No More. Ngomhla zingama-27 kuZibandlela, ngemva nje kokusuka kwenhlangano, owesifazane woMdabu wathunjwa, wadlwengulwa, washaywa, futhi washiywa kuthiwa ufile eThunder Bay, e-Ontario, ngamadoda lawo amazwi abeka ubugebengu njengokuziphindiselela ku-Idle No More. Ngemva kwalokho, wahamba amahora amane emakhazeni ashubisa umnkantsha futhi wasinda ukuze axoxele indaba yakhe. Abahlaseli bakhe, asebesabise ngokuphinda, basagcwele amathafa.
Ukudlwengulwa nokubulawa kukaJyoti Singh eNew Delhi, oneminyaka engu-23 ubudala owayefundela i-physiotherapy ukuze akwazi ukwenza ngcono lapho esiza abanye, kanye nokuhlaselwa komngane wakhe wesilisa (osindile) kubonakala sengathi kubangele ukusabela esinakho. edingekayo iminyaka eyikhulu, noma eyinkulungwane, noma eyizi-100 1,000. Kwangathi angaba kwabesifazaneโnabesilisaโemhlabeni wonke lokho u-Emmett Till, owabulawa abashisekeli abamhlophe ngo-5,000, kwaba kwabase-Afrika-baseMelika kanye nenhlangano yamalungelo abantu yase-US eyayisafufusa ngaleso sikhathi.
Sinezigameko zokudlwengulwa ezingaphezu kuka-87,000 kuleli zwe minyaka yonke, kodwa ngakunye kukhonjiswa njengesigameko esingasodwa. Sinamachashazi asondelene kakhulu angama-splatters ancibilika abe yibala, kodwa akekho owaxhumayo, noma amagama angcolisayo. ENdiya bakwenza. Bathe lolu wudaba lwamalungelo oluntu, ludaba lwamalungelo abantu, yinkinga yawo wonke umuntu, ayihlukanisiwe, futhi ngeke iphinde yemukeleke. Kufanele ishintshe. Kungumsebenzi wakho ukuwushintsha, nowami, nowethu.
U-Rebecca Solnit ubhale inguqulo yalesi sihloko izikhathi ezintathu kuze kube manje, kanye ngeminyaka yawo-1980 kumagazini we-punk. Inani eliphakeme kakhulu lama-Rock'n'Roll, kanye njengesahluko esikhuluma ngabesifazane futhi ehamba encwadini yakhe ka-2000 I-Wanderlust: Umlando Wokuhamba, futhi lapha. Angathanda ukuthi isihloko siphelelwe yisikhathi futhi singasebenzi futhi angaphinde asibhale.
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