Ngisanda kubamba iqhaza ekushintshaneni kwe-imeyili okufushane mayelana "nelungelo" futhi kungenze ngacabanga ukuthi ingxoxo ebanzi ingase ibonakale ibalulekile.
Ingabe ukusebenzisa igama lelungelo njengokuthi “ilungelo elimhlophe,” “ilungelo lowesilisa,” kanye “nelungelo lesigaba” kusiza ukuvimbela indlela esiqondana ngayo, ukuxhumana ngayo, futhi ekugcineni sisebenze ukunqoba ukucwasa, ukucwasa ngokobulili, nokucwasa ngokwezigaba?
Umqondo kufanele unikeze igama ezintweni ezibalulekile kanye nobudlelwano ukuze kuqashelwe futhi kube lula ukuxhumana okucacile ngalezo zinto nobudlelwano. Izishoshovu zifuna ukuqonda umhlaba ukuze uwuguqule. Ilungelo lomqondo kufanele likhombe ezehlakalweni ezidinga ukunakwa kwesishoshovu ngendlela esisiza ukuthi sixoxe ngalezo zenzakalo ngaphandle kokudideka.
Ukuze uthole ilungelo, lezi zigigaba zisuka kwesinye isifunda ziye kwesinye umehluko ocindezelayo esimweni, ukufinyelela, impahla, izinketho, njll. Yiziphi izinhlaka ezizisebenzisayo? Kungani abantu benqaba, besekela, noma bangazinaki lezo zakhiwo? Uma labo abanezimo ezingcono kufanele balahlekelwe yizo? Uma labo abanezimo ezimbi kufanele bazuze kangcono? Uma izakhiwo eziphoqelela ukuhlukana okunjalo kufanele zishintshwe futhi, uma kunjalo, ngani? Futhi izishoshovu zenhlangano zingasebenza kanjani ngokusebenziseka kalula ukuze zifinyelele iziphetho ezifunwayo ngokukhuluma ngokwakhayo nalabo abajabulela okuhle noma abahlupheka ngezimo ezimbi?
Kulungile, imuphi umehluko ibinzana elithi ilungelo elimhlophe, ilungelo lomuntu wesilisa, noma ilungelo lekilasi eliwugqamisayo futhi ukubiza lowo mehluko ngamalungelo kuyithuthukisa kanjani imizamo yethu yokubhekana nakho ngezindlela eziletha izinguquko ezengeziwe?
Isibonelo, ngiyazibuza, sekukonke, kuyasiza ukusho ukuthi, ukuthi ukungaqapheli kakhulu eduze kwamaphoyisa noma ukungabhekani nezithiyo lapho uzama ukubolekwa imali, njll., kuyilungelo labamhlophe, noma ukungadlwengulwa noma ukuthweswa umthwalo. nemithwalo yemfanelo yasendlini eyeqile, njll., amalungelo amadoda, noma ukuthi ungakhathazeki ngokuhlangabezana nezikweletu noma ukulalela abaphathi, njll., ingabe amalungelo ekilasi?
Kusho ukuthini lokhu kusetshenziswa kwelungelo futhi kucasule? Ucabanga ukuthi kusho ukuthini umlaleli ozwa isimemo sokuba alahle ilungelo lakhe? Ingabe kuwukuthi nabo kufanele babhekane nokulinganiselwa okuhlukahlukene kunokuba kungabikho muntu okufanele babhekane nakho? Ngicabanga ukuthi akekho osebenzisa lokho, kodwa ingabe abantu bayakuzwa lokho? Futhi ingabe izingcingo zokuchitha amalungelo amhlophe, owesilisa, noma wesigaba, okubonakala kuyisinyathelo somuntu siqu, ngezinye izikhathi, ngezinye izikhathi zivimbezela izingcingo esikhundleni sezikhungo eziphoqelela incindezelo yobuhlanga, ubulili, nezigaba?
Ngicabanga ukuthi inhloso yokusebenzisa igama elithi ilungelo ukugqamisa nokunaka amandla adala abantu abamhlophe, abesilisa, kanye/noma amalungu ezigaba azizwe emelene nokucwasa ngokwebala, abesifazane, futhi avuna ukungabi bikho kwezigaba noma kunjalo. ababoni zonke izindlela lezi zicindezelo ezibonisa ngazo ngisho nasekuziphatheni noma ezinkolelweni zabo. Nokho, naphezu kwaleyo nhloso, ingabe ukusetshenziswa kwamanje kunemiphumela elimazayo noma kuhlale kugqamisa ukuthi yiziphi izidingo ezigqanyiswa ngendlela esiza ukubhekana nokudinga ukunakwa?
Ngisho nokumane uvume ukungezwani ukuze ungalwi, kuwukuyalela umuntu ukuthi alahle ilungelo lakhe elimhlophe, owesilisa, noma lesigaba ngendlela engcono kakhulu yokubenza bavume ukuthi labo abahlushwa ukucwasa, ukucwasa ngokobulili, kanye nokuhlukaniswa ngokwezigaba banqatshelwe zonke izinhlobo zezinto labo abangahlushwa ukucwasa ngokobuhlanga, ukucwasa ngokobulili, nokucwasa bayakujabulela? Futhi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, yini abanelungelo okufanele bayidele ukuze balahle ilungelo? Ngaleso sizathu, ingabe ufuna futhi ubize izishoshovu zelungelo ukuze zibone lokho okudingeka ukukubona nokwenza okufanele kwenziwe?
Yebo sonke sinomthwalo, kodwa abantu abaningi ababoni yini kakade ukuthi kunomehluko omkhulu ongalungile ezimweni—noma mhlawumbe bazi ukuthi kukhona ukungezwani okungenabulungisa kodwa bazizwa bengenathemba ngokuthinta bona mathupha—noma mhlawumbe bazi ukuthi kunomehluko kodwa bathi kufanele?
Kungenzeka ukuthi angazi ukuthi igama elithi ilungelo lisho ukuthini, kodwa ingabe labo abatshelwa ukuthi banenhlanhla bayayazi into abayitshelwayo? Ingabe into enhle iyilungelo uma umuntu enayo kodwa abanye bengenakho? Noma uma isifunda esithile sinayo leyo nto kodwa esinye isifunda singenayo? Kunoma ikuphi, nokho, akukhona lokho okudingeka kudluliselwe abaningi lokho abanye abangenakho okufanele bonke babe nakho, kungani kunjalo, futhi ikakhulukazi indlela yokufuna okungcono?
Uma nginomsebenzi wena ungenawo. Ingabe mina nginelungelo? Kungani kuhle ukusebenzisa igama elithi ilungelo elimhlophe, ukusho, njengendlela yokwenza abantu abamhlophe babone umehluko ocindezelayo ongadingekile lapho usebenzisa lo mqondo futhi kwenza abanye abantu bazizwe betshelwa ukuthi akufanele babe nalawa "malungelo" okuthi Eqinisweni wonke umuntu kufanele abe, noma ngaphezulu kwalokho, ukuthi inkinga ngokuyinhloko izimo zengqondo zomuntu hhayi izingcindezi zesikhungo?
Uma abasebenzi benyunyana bengateleki ukuze bathole imali eyengeziwe kuyilapho bezama ukuqhubekisela phambili bonke abasebenza nabo, kanye nabo bonke abanye abasebenzi, futhi noma ubani ohlushwa yinoma yikuphi ukuphikwa ngokwengcindezelo ngoba ukuze abasebenzi abanyunyana bathole okwengeziwe kungabashiya benenhlanhla eyengeziwe. ? Ngicabanga ukuthi labo abasebenzisa ilungelo lomqondo abachazi lokho, kodwa ingabe abakwenzayo baqonde ukudlulela—futhi ingabe kugxile kukho konke okudinga ukunakwa? Uma kwenzeka, kuhle kakhulu. Kodwa uma kungenjalo, akuyona yini inkinga leyo?
Uma sithi, ukucwasa ngokwebala kuchitha amathuba ngakho-ke kufanele sonke silwe nakho, okuhlanganisa nokungabi nobandlululo futhi ikakhulukazi singenzi ukuphoqelela ukucwasa futhi esikhundleni salokho sithathe isinyathelo sokukunqoba, kungani kungengcono kunalokho esibonakala sithi, hey, abelungu. , udinga ukuyeka ilungelo lakho elimhlophe lokuzizwa uphephile emgwaqeni ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda ngokufanele ukucwasa, ukuze usize ukukuqeda? Ingabe incazelo ehlosiwe icacile uma kubhekwa ukuthi izinto eziningi esizibiza ngelungelo yizinto okufanele wonke umuntu abe nazo, hhayi izinto okufanele umuntu abe nazo? Ingabe ukubiza amalungelo kusebenza njengesu lokunciphisa ukucindezelwa? Ingabe likhomba ezakhiweni ezicindezelayo? Yakha ubumbano?
Nansi imiphumela emibili elula yokusebenzisa ilungelo lomqondo engiwuthola unamandla wokubi, kanye nowesithathu ocashile, kodwa futhi ngicabanga ukuthi awulungile.
- Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, lapho izishoshovu zisebenzisa umqondo "ilungelo" ukukhuluma ngobudlelwane obucindezelayo, umqondo uvame ukugxila ezicini ezihlukahlukene zomuntu ngisho nangaphandle kokubhekana nezici zesikhungo. Lokhu-ke kuvame ukusho ukuthi inqubekelaphambili ikakhulukazi indaba yezici zomuntu, hhayi izinguquko zesikhungo.
- Naphezu kwezinhloso ezinhle zabantu abasebenzisa lo mbono, kimina futhi kubonakala sengathi abaningi abatshelwa ukuthi banelungelo lowesilisa, ilungelo labamhlophe, noma ilungelo lesigaba bazizwa bebizwa ngokuba nokuthile okungekho muntu okufanele abe nakho—futhi ngenxa yokuthi ukuthi, kungakhathaliseki izenzo nezinkolelo zabo, bangabasekeli abakhuthele bokucwasa ngokobuhlanga, ngokobulili, noma ngokwezigaba. Okwengeziwe lapho bethi cha, ngikholelwa ukuthi ukuhlola kwabo akukhona ngempela futhi mhlawumbe akukhona nje ukuzivikela, kodwa kunalokho kuwumbono ozwakalayo walokho amagama abawezwayo futhi ngezinye izikhathi nephimbo lokulalela lisho ukuthini. Khona-ke, lapho okuqukethwe okwengeziwe kunikezwa ukuze kuchazwe ukuthi ayini amalungelo abo nokuthi kungani ekhona, ngezinye izikhathi angenzeki nakancane, abantu abatshelwa ukuthi balahle izinto abacabanga ukuthi bona kanye nawo wonke umuntu kufanele babe namalungelo, banomuzwa wokuthi umqondo wokuzilahla. izinto ezinjalo azinangqondo. Ukuncenga ukwenza njalo kaningi ukudelela nokusabisa, kodwa akukhulumi.
- Ukwazi ukuthi ukuzivikela kuyinto engenzeka, futhi uzizwa kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola kanye “nokumemeza” ilungelo, bese futhi ukumelana nalokho okubonakala kuwukuvikela ilungelo, kubonakala kimi ukuthi ngokuvamile abantu basabela kumuntu ongavumelani nezidingo zabo. imibono mayelana nokuthile (isibonelo, mayelana nokuba usizo komqondo ilungelo) ngokuthatha ukuthi isizathu sokuba umuntu angavumelani akukhona ukuthi ophikisayo unokukhathazeka okuqotho, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi uvikela ilungelo elithile, noma okungenani ubonisa ukuchema okuvela emvuzweni . Futhi-ke, nakuba lokho kungase kube njalo, kungase kungabi njalo.
Lezi zinto ezintathu ezikhathazayo azisho lutho mayelana nezisusa zomuntu zokusebenzisa umqondo welungelo noma ukuqonda kwabo ingcindezelo. Alisho ukuthi wonke umuntu ofuna amalungelo uhlose ukugxeka noma ukwesabisa, noma ukungazinaki izikhungo, noma ukungezwa ukungaboni ngaso linye okuqotho. Kepha iphakamisa ukuthi lena kungaba yimiphumela evamisile eyakhelwe ekusebenziseni ilungelo lomqondo ezikhathini zamanje.
Yebo, kufanele siqaphele ukuthi bonke abantu banezimo ezingcono noma ezimbi kakhulu emphakathini, kodwa ingabe lokho kusho ukuthi kufanele siye endaweni yokusebenza, enyuvesi, eSontweni, ekhaya, noma yini, sihlangane nabantu, futhi sibonakale sithi hey, wena lapho, pha phakamisa ilungelo lakho (abantu abangazi nokuthi banalo, noma ukuthi liyini), noma kusho ukuthi kufanele sisho ngokucacile ukuthi, sidinga indawo yokusebenza, inyuvesi, iBandla, ikhaya, nanoma yikuphi lapho wonke umuntu ene silandela izimo ezinhle bese siqhubeka sithi ukuze sifinyelele lokho sidinga ukuphikisa futhi sithathele indawo izikhungo nezinkolelo zokucwasa ngobulili, ukucwasa ngokwebala, kanye nezinkolelo-ze.
Kuvame ukufundiswa ukuthi amadoda amhlophe, isigaba somxhumanisi anesandla ekufuneni ukupoo-pooh ilungelo lomqondo, noma ngabe isigxobo singokwengqondo noma siphathekayo noma kokubili. Futhi yebo, lokho kungesinye isici esingacindezela umuntu ukuba ezwe ukukhathazeka okungenhla, futhi yebo, amathuba anjalo abalulekile ukuba wazi futhi uwaqonde. Isibonelo, kungakholakala ukuthi njengamanje ngenza i-poo-pooh ilungelo lomqondo ukuze nje ngivikele amalungelo ami amhlophe, owesilisa, noma esigaba, noma mhlawumbe ngokulunga kakhulu ngenxa yokungazi noma umkhuba obangelwa yilawo malungelo. Kodwa futhi kungenzeka ukuthi mina, nabanye, empeleni sinalezi zinto ezikhathazayo.
Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu oselesikhathi eside ongakwesobunxele, angase angavumelani ngokweqiniso mayelana nenani lelungelo lomqondo, kanjalo nomfana omhlophe wesigaba sabasebenzi, ngamunye hhayi ngenxa yobandlululo, ubulili, noma ukuzivikela, imikhuba, noma izinkolelo, kodwa ngenxa nje yokuthi cabanga ngobuqotho ukuthi lapho othile etshela omunye umuntu ukuthi unelungelo futhi kufanele alahle ilungelo lakhe, kuba nemiphumela emibi engagwenywa. Akufanele yini sifinyelele esiphethweni sokuthi ukuzivikela kuyasebenza lapho othile engavumelani nathi? Akufanele yini sicabange ngokucophelela ingqikithi yamazwi omuntu futhi singavele sicabange ukuthi amazwi akhe awasho nje ukuzivikela futhi ngaleyo ndlela angenasisekelo?
Ake sithi umgxeki wokusizakala komqondo akanakho ukuphila konke kokuzijwayeza okuphakamisa ukuthi kungase kube nezizathu ezizwakalayo futhi hhayi ikakhulukazi ukuzivikela noma umbono omncane emsebenzini. Noma kunjalo, akufanele yini sikucabangele ngokucophelela lokho okukhathaza lowo muntu futhi singakuxoshi ngenxa nje yokuthi ungowesilisa, umhlophe, noma umxhumanisi?
Ingabe ukufuna ilungelo lomuntu siqu nokuvikela ilungelo kukhuthaza ukulalela ngokucophelela noma kusenza singakunaki? Akuxhomekile ekuxhumaneni nokuthola imiphumela emihle akuncikile kuphela encazelweni ehlosiwe yokuthi amazwi omuntu afaneleka futhi ayasebenza, kodwa nokuthi uyafinyelela yini kulokho ahlose ukukudlulisela kumlingani wakhe engxoxweni, futhi, nakulabo abezwa izingxoxo. kusuka ngaphandle?
Uma ukudonswa kwemali engikubalulile kwenzeka, noma ngabe kuphambene nezinhloso zabasebenzi, akufanele yini sizame ukufeza izinhloso ezibalulekile zabantu abasebenzisa ilungelo lomqondo, kodwa ngaphandle kokubhekana nezindleko zokusebenzisa lo mqondo?
Ekushintshanisweni kwe-imeyili okwakhuthaza indaba, kwaphakanyiswa ukuthi ukuzama ukuthola izindlela ezinhle, eziphumelelayo zokuxhumana nabantu kuyiqiniso futhi kubalulekile. Kodwa isiphakamiso esengeziwe kwaba ukuthi ekuzameni ukuthola indlela engcono yokuxhumana mayelana nengcindezelo, okokuqala kufanele uvume ukuthi ilungelo lomqondo liwusizo, futhi ukwenza lokho kufanele uvume ukuthi isikhundla sethu siyazisa indlela esicabanga ngayo.
Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kusho ukuthi uma uzozama ukwenza kangcono kunokusebenzisa ilungelo lomqondo, okokuqala kufanele uvume ukuthi inhloso yokubona umehluko ocindezelayo kanye nemithombo yawo, ukuthola ukuthi yini ongayishintsha, nokufunda ukuthi ungayiphonsela inselelo kanjani ngempumelelo. kubalulekile. Futhi yebo, ngiyavuma. Ngakho-ke ngiyagcizelela ngokuqinisekile ukuthi izindima esizidlalayo kanye nezimo zomphakathi okufanele sizizuzise akusizi nje kuphela ukwazisa indlela esicabanga ngayo kodwa futhi sisize ukwazisa lokho esikuthakaselayo, imikhuba, ukuchema, nezinkolelo zethu. Kodwa-ke ngenxa yalokho kuqonda okubucayi, akufanele yini ngibheke ukuthi ilungelo lomqondo lisetshenziswa kanjani bese ngibuza ukuthi kuyindlela enhle yokuxhumana?
Abantu abasebenzisa leli lungelo ngokuyinhloko, ngiyazi, babike ukuthi kuyavela ukuqaphela ukuthi ngeke uthole izishoshovu eziningi ezimnyama, i-chicano, noma abesifazane abaphikisana nombono wesikhundla kanye nendlela okubumba ngokujulile ngayo indlela thina. ubone futhi uqonde umhlaba, kodwa ukuthi uzothola abantu abamhlophe abakwenzayo, abakubheka njengento enhle. Ngokuphambene, ngingabheja ngokuthi bambalwa kakhulu abelungu abangakwesokunxele abangavumelani nokuthi indima esiyidlalayo nezikhundla esinazo emphakathini azigcini nje ngokwazisa indlela esicabanga ngayo kodwa nezithakazelo zethu, imikhuba, ukuchema, njll. Futhi ngingaze ngibheje ukuthi abantu abaningi abangazicabangi izinto ezinjalo ngokuvamile bangavuma, lapho bezwa incazelo ecacile.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngingavuma futhi ukuthi abanye abantu abamhlophe, phakathi kwabanye, ababheki kahle ngokwanele ukuze babone izinto ezihlukahlukene zeqiniso ngobuhlanga, ubulili, noma isigaba, kuhlanganise nemibono yabo siqu. Futhi ngingavuma ukuthi nalokho kubalulekile ukukuqonda. Kodwa-ke ngizophakamisa futhi ngiyazibuza ukuthi abantu abajwayele futhi abavame ukusebenzisa ilungelo lomqondo bangavuma yini, ukuthi lokho kushiyeka kuyiqiniso nakwamanye amadoda aMnyama noma amaChicano mayelana nobulili, noma kwabanye besifazane abamhlophe mayelana nobuhlanga, noma kwabanye abamhlophe, abesifazane. , Abamnyama, noma abantu baseChicano abaphishekela noma abathatha izikhundla zekilasi lomxhumanisi mayelana nekilasi?
Ngalolo daba, ngiyazibuza, ngokuphikisana kakhulu, uma abantu abavame ukusebenzisa ilungelo lomqondo futhi bakholelwa ngokufanelekile izindima esizifezayo nezimo esihlangabezana nazo zithinta imibono nezinkolelo zethu, bayavuma ukuthi izimo ezinyantisayo nezikhundla abesifazane, abamnyama, amaChicanos, kanye abasebenzi abavame ukubekezela akubaqinisekisi ngokuzenzakalelayo ukuhlakanipha kwezombusazwe ngazo zonke izinto, nokuthi nokuba mhlophe, owesilisa, umxhumanisi, noma usonxiwankulu, noma bonke ndawonye akukuphiki ngokungenakugwenywa konke ukuhlakanipha.
Singavuma yini ukuthi le miphumela yohlobo iwukuthambekela okubaluleke kakhulu uma ubheka izifunda zonke, kodwa futhi akuyona into engenakugwenywa ngisho nasezifundeni zonke, ingasaphathwa eyomuntu ngamunye endaweni ethile? Ingabe singavuma ukuthi ukunquma izisusa zomuntu ngokuvamile kuyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu ukuba ungalawula ngokushesha neziphetho eziguquguqukayo?
Ngakho, yini eyakha iningi lezinto abantu abazibiza ngokuthi “amalungelo”? Ingabe ngokuvamile njengoba ngiphakamisa amalungelo nje ashiwo igama elisha eliphelele eliqukethe izincazelo ezengeziwe ezivame kakhulu ezingasizi? Lapho ngibheka imibhalo echaza noma ebala amalungelo noma lapho ngizwa ngekilasi, indawo yokusebenza, indlu, noma ukuhlela izingxoxo ezihilela ukumemeza amalungelo, kimina kubonakala sengathi izinto ezibizwa ngokuthi amalungelo ngokuvamile ziyizinto okufanele sonke sibe nazo hhayi izinto ezingenangqondo. umuntu kufanele abe nakho.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, abanye abantu abanazo futhi abanye abangenazo kubonakala sengathi, njengoba ngibuka lezi zinhlu, ikakhulukazi ngenxa yengcindezi yezikhungo hhayi ngenxa yabantu abaphishekela izinzuzo zabo futhi baziphike kwabanye. Ngaphezu kwalokho, okwenza iningi lethoni nokungeniswa kwezingxoxo mayelana nelungelo nakho kubonakala kuvame ukuqala noma kuthambekela ekutsheleni abantu ukuthi, uma sekunzima kakhulu, bathule ngoba bamhlophe, bengamadoda, ukuba umxhumanisi, noma yimuphi oyedwa noma bobathathu kubavimbela ekuqondeni izimo ngokwanele ukuba basho noma yini okufanele bayilalele baze balahle ilungelo labo (noma ngabe lokho kungase kusho ukuthini).
Ukuphendula ngokuthi akubona bonke abagqugquzeli bokusebenzisa leli lungelo abalisebenzisela ukuthula abantu, noma ngisho nalabo abameli abaningi bokusebenzisa leli lungelo abalifuni lokho, okungukuthi, ngicabanga, kuyiqiniso. Kodwa anginandaba nokusetshenziswa kahle kwalo mqondo, noma mayelana nezimangalo zawo ezinobufakazi, noma ngezinhloso zabantu zokuwusebenzisa. Ngikhathazeke kuphela ngokuthi ukusetshenziswa komqondo kudlala kanjani ezimeni ezingokoqobo. Ngakho-ke izinhloso ezinhle, izincazelo ezinhle, kanye nemikhuba emihle yabaningi noma bonke abasebenzisa ilungelo lomqondo endaweni eyodwa kuseduze nephuzu uma abasebenzisi abanele balo mqondo bezwakala sengathi bazama ukudlulisela kulabo abathi banelungelo. ukuthi bathule.
Ngakho-ke ingabe izinto ezibizwa ngamalungelo ngokuvamile ziyizinto okufanele sonke sibe nazo, futhi ngaleyo ndlela izinto ezingase zibizwe ngokuthi ngamalungelo, nakuba ukuze siqiniseke ukuthi abantu abaningi abanawo ngenxa yezinhlaka zesistimu okudingeka siziqede? Lapha, isibonelo, uhlu oluhlonishwa kakhulu lwamalungelo engiwatholile. Futhi ngiyazibuza ukuthi, esikhathini esiningi ingabe la malungelo akhomba izimo okungafanele abe nazo lapho umuntu engenawo, noma akhomba amalungelo okufanele wonke umuntu abe nawo?
- Ukuba Nobudlelwano Obuhle Namaphoyisa, Ngokuvamile
- Ukuthandwa Iziphathimandla Zesikole
- Ukuya Ezikoleni Ezihlukanisiwe Zokuceba
- Ukufunda Ngomjaho Wami Esikoleni
- Ukuthola Izincwadi Zezingane Eziwumele Kakhulu Uhlanga Lwami
- Ukucwiliswa Kwabezindaba Kucheme Ngokusobala Emjahweni Wami
- Ukubalekela Imibono Emihle Ehlobene Nohlanga Lwami
- Ukudlala Ikhadi Le-Colorblind, Ukusula I-Slate Ihlanzekile Emakhulwini Eminyaka Okucwasa Ubuhlanga
- Ukukhishwa Encwadini Yansuku zonke Yobandlululo
- Ukuphila Ngokungazi Ngesimo Esibi Sobandlululo Namuhla
Abantu abaningi abasebenzisa igama elithi amalungelo bakholelwa ukuthi ukucwasa ngokobulili kuyingxenye yombono wobudoda kanye nokuveza imibono engemihle yobudoda, kodwa futhi kwehlisa ukwehlukana kobulili kwemisebenzi kanye nezindima zesikhungo ezikhiqiza ubulili. Ngiyavuma impela, kodwa noma kunjalo ngiyazibuza ngokusebenza ngempumelelo komqondo ngokuyikho yonke indawo njengoba ususetshenziswa manje. Ingabe lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngivikela ukungabi nabulungisa, engivuma eqinisweni ukuthi kufanele kunqotshwe? Noma kungenxa yokuthi ngenkathi abasebenzisi bayo bevame ukucabanga ukuthi ukusetshenziswa okungokoqobo kwelungelo lomqondo kusiza ukuzuza abantu emsebenzini wokuhlehlisa ukungabi nabulungisa, ngikhathazekile ngokuthi ukusetshenziswa kwawo okungokoqobo kuvame ukwenza okuphambene? Ukuhlonza amalungelo kungasiza ngokusobala embuleni ikakhulukazi ukuthi abanye abantu baphila kangcono futhi ngandlela thile bazuza ezigabeni ezicindezelayo zenzuzo, ukuphenya ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka kanjani, kubonise ukuthi sithinteka kanjani sonke futhi ngezinga elithile sonke size sibe nokucabangela nemikhuba ephoqelela lokho esikwenzayo. delela. Kodwa ingabe konke lokho kungafezwa ngokugcwele kodwa ngaphandle kokuzifaka ezinkingeni engizibalulile ngokusebenzisa nje umqondo “ingcindezelo” esikhundleni selungelo futhi ngokugqamisa izakhiwo kuqala bese kuba lapho, lapho ziwusizo, izici zomuntu siqu?
Lahla ilungelo lakho-kahle, kulungile, kodwa umuntu ukwenza kanjani lokho lapho imbangela ihlelekile futhi amalungelo angamalungelo? Kimina kubonakala kuyiqiniso kodwa kungenangqondo ukusho ukuthi lokhu kudideka akuyona inhloso yommeli. Lapho betshelwa ukuthi kudingeka balahle ilungelo labo, ingasaphathwa eyokuthi kuze kube yilapho belahla ilungelo labo umbono wabo awukufanelekeli ukunakwa, ingabe kuyamangaza abantu ukuba babe nombono oyiphutha ngalokho okuhlosiwe?
Ngiyazi ukuthi abanye abafundi bangase bazizwe njengamanje, mayelana nale ndatshana, into efana nokuthi, Michael, awuvumi yini ukuthi kufanelekile ukucabangela ukuthi kungaba wusizo kangakanani kwabamhlophe, abesilisa, noma izishoshovu zesigaba somxhumanisi ukuzama ukudicilela phansi umsebenzi. izishoshovu ezilwela amalungelo abantu besifazane, ezimelene nokucwasa ngokwebala, kanye nezingakhethi ngokwezigaba ngokugxeka inkulumo yelungelo nencazelo yalo ethile nokusetshenziswa kwayo?
Yebo, ngiyavuma, kodwa ngiyamangala ukuthi awuvumi yini ukuthi ku-priori ucabanga ukuthi ukuzivikela kuyisizathu esenza ukuthi abanye abantu bangabaze ukuchazwa kwelungelo bese bechitha ukukhathazeka kwabo ukwenza into engiyiphakamisile Ilungelo lomqondo liholela abantu ekwenzeni—okuwukuphetha ngokuthi othile ongavumelani nabo kumelwe ukuba wenza lokho hhayi ngenxa yokuhlola okuqotho, kodwa esikhundleni salokho ngenxa yethonya lelungelo labo? Akukhona yini ukuphakamisa ukuthi ukubuza umbuzo ngelungelo kwenzeka ngoba kuwusizo ngokwecebo ukudicilela phansi umsebenzi wezishoshovu ezilwela amalungelo abantu besifazane kanye nobandlululo uhlobo lokugxuma okungadingekile engikushoyo kusetshenziswa umqondo welungelo ovame ukuholela kulo?
Ngiphinde ngilindele ukuthi abanye abezwa noma abafunda ucezu olufana nalolu bazocabanga ukuthi kuhamba elinye ibhungu elimhlophe elithi 'uyazi ukuthi laba besifazane kanye nabantu abamnyama abalutholi ubandlululo nobuhlanga.' Bese bezitshela ukuthi noma ngiyakuthanda noma cha, noma ngabe kulungile noma cha, ngokwesu lokuma kwami nakho akubukeki kahle. Futhi mhlawumbe ngisho nokucabanga ukuthi, 'Sihogo, Michael, ungathini uyeka ilungelo lakho lesigaba sabamhlophe, owesilisa, umxhumanisi ukuze unikeze abantu banamuhla abamelene nokucwasa, ababandlululi ngobulili, kanye nabaphikisana nezigaba inzuzo yokungabaza ukuthi bebenegalelo eliphusile lo msebenzi wokucindezelwa kwabo siqu?'
Awu, ngiyawuqonda ngempela lowomuzwa, futhi. Futhi ngiyavuma ukuthi uma amazwi ami enza abantu bangizwe ngithi, 'uyazi laba besifazane nabantu abamnyama abatholi nje ubulili nokucwasa,' yebo, yebo, kufanele ngithole ukuthi ngingawashintsha kanjani amagama ami ukuze adlulisele kangcono. lokho engikushoyo eqinisweni. Futhi-ke ngicabanga ukuthi kubantu besifazane nabaNsundu kanye nezinye izifunda ezicindezelwe ukudalula ikakhulukazi izimo zezikhungo kodwa futhi phakathi kwabantu kanye nokuguquguquka kokucindezelwa kwabo, futhi babone ngeso lengqondo lokho okufanele kube khona esikhundleni salokho, kanye nokuhlola ukuthi kufanele sifinyelele kanjani kulokho okufanele kube khona kubaluleke ngendlela engenakuqhathaniswa. izinto okumele uzenze. Kodwa njengoba ngicabanga futhi ukufeza konke lokho okwenziwa ngokungenhloso ngokusebenzisa ilungelo lomqondo, kuyilapho ngivuma ukuthi kufanele ngicabange ngokucophelela ukuthi amazwi ami ayengenza kanjani noma ubani afunde iminikelo yami njengensizwa endala emhlophe ethi 'uyabazi laba besifazane futhi abantu abamnyama nje musa uthole ubulili nokucwasa, 'ngasikhathi sinye, Ngingazizwa ngikhululekile uma angizange basikisela kukhona esinye isizathu okungenzeka kungani umuntu angase afinyelele isiphetho esinjalo esinzima emazwini ami. Okusho ukuthi, omunye angase abone amazwi ami njengalokho akushoyo empeleni angangeni ngisho nasebaleni elikude kakhulu lokulisho ngoba ukugcizelela ilungelo, ukubheka amalungelo, ukumba amalungelo, kanye nokusebenzela ukuhlehlisa ilungelo kunomkhuba wokuvame kakhulu ngokuqinisekile akuvimbeli ukuthambekela okuvamile kokucabanga ukuthi isizathu sokuba umuntu angavumelani nelungelo akukona ukuthi ophikisayo wehluka ngokwethembeka, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi ophikisayo uvikela ilungelo noma ukubonakalisa ukuchema okuvela ekulungeni mhlawumbe ngisho ukuze adicilele phansi amasu umsebenzi wabesifazane kanye izishoshovu ezimelene nokucwasa, nokuthi ngakho-ke asikho isidingo sokucabangela ukukhathazeka kwalowo muntu?
I-ZNetwork ixhaswa kuphela ngokuphana kwabafundi bayo.
Nikela