Tenor ane mukurumbira Enrico Caruso akatongwa muna 1906 nechiitiko paimba yetsoko muCentral Park. Akapomerwa mhosva yekurova Hannah Graham ane makore makumi matatu. Caruso zvakare akapomerwa imwe tsoko yekudzvanya musana wemufi. Dzimwe mhosva dzekushungurudza pabonde dzakabuda mudare. Mapepanhau akadana muimbi "muItaly munyengeri." Akawanikwa aine mhosva ndokubhadhariswa faindi ye$10.
Paive nerunyerekupe rwekuti chiitiko cheMonkey House chaive chakarongwa, zvakanyanya nekuti mupurisa aisunga naAmai Graham vaizivana. Asi handiyo yaivewo nyaya yese. New Yorker munyori AJ Liebling zvinhu coda: "Makore makumi matatu gare gare ndaizoziva kuti kwaive kunyengera kwemumiririri wekudhinda, akaiswa kuti akwezve kutaridzika kwemutambi mune imwe nzvimbo itsva, Rodolfo mu. La Bohรจme. "
Kunyangwe zvizvarwa zvakati kuti zvakapatsanura varume vaviri ava, hazvina kunetsa kudhirowa mutsetse unobatanidza Caruso naDonald Trump, vese vari varaidzi, vese vachitenda kuti kapfungwa kekushungurudzwa pabonde kanowedzera mukurumbira wavo. Caruso akarega vamwe vachiita basa rakasviba Trump achinyepedzera kuve mumiririri wake wenhau uye akazowedzera kudada kwake paHoward Stern show. Zvinoshamisa - uye zvinoshatirisa - kuti huchenjeri hweimba iyi hwakapona nekukwira kwechikadzi, kushandurwa kwenzvimbo yebasa, nekugadziridzwa kwetsika.
Ipapo kwakauya Famba Hollywood tepi, umo Donald Trump akaburitsa pfungwa dzake dzeViking kugamuchira Billy Bush. Hurukuro iyi yakaitika muna 2005, asi haina kuburitswa kusvika Gumiguru 7, 2016. Maitiro aTrump kune vakadzi haana kushambadzwa panguva iyoyo, kunyangwe 1997 sutu yekushungurudzwa kwepabonde kusiri kwechisimba, mhosva yekubatwa chibharo (yakazodzoserwa) neyaimbova. mudzimai Ivana Trump, uye akadzama Nyaya yeNew York Times chirimo chapfuura. Nhau dzetepi dzakapararira kumativi ose enyika. Yaifanira kunge iri mbambo yekupedzisira mubhokisi resarudzo raTrump.
Pane kudaro, VaTrump vakanyepa, vakakumbira ruregerero, uye vakabvongodza nzira yavo kuburikidza nedambudziko. Akakunda musarudzo, nenhamba inoshamisa yevanhu vachipa mukwikwidzi wacho kupasa nekuda kwekudarika kwake kwakawanda. Zvaiita sekunge Trump, saCaruso makore anopfuura zana apfuura, akabuda kubva mukunyomba asina kukuvadzwa uye, mumeso evamwe vanhu, akasimba nekuda kwayo.
Ah, asi kwete chaizvo.
Hunhu hwaTrump hunotyisa hwakakurudzira 19 vakadzi kuti vaende mberi votaura nyaya dzavo dzezvavakaitirwa namuzvinabhizimusi uyu. Kufora kwevakadzi, kutsunga kwevakadzi vakawanda kuti vakwikwidze zvigaro zvezvematongerwo enyika, nhaurirano yakapararira yekushungurudzwa kwepabonde: zvese izvi zvakatevera kukunda kwaTrump. Yakapera gore rimwe chete mushure mekunge tepi yakabuda nekudonha kwaHarvey Weinstein uye kudururwa kwenyaya kubva kuvakadzi (uye varume vashomanana) vakasangana nekushungurudzwa pabonde kana zvakanyanya.
The #Neniwo bato rakaita izvo makumi emakore emaoko akasununguka akatadza kuita: kudzinga nhamba yakanaka yevarume vane simba nekuda kwenhamo yavo (uye mune dzimwe nguva mhosva) kusazvibata: Matt Lauer, Kevin Spacey, Charlie Rose, Mario Batali, uye zvimwe zvakawanda.
Zvechokwadi, kwave kune miganhu kune kufamba. Zvinogona kunge zvakaitika makore gumi apfuura, apo mumiriri weAfrican American Tarana Burke akasika purojekiti imwechete ine zita rimwechete. Zvaigona adhiresi rudzi uye kirasi zvakanyanya. Inogona kumbundira yakakura uye yakawanda systemic critique. Asi zvakadaro, aya ndiwo matangiro anoita shanduko dzegungwa.
Shanduko yakadai haizoitike nehusiku humwe, uye kwete naDonald Trump achiri mutungamiri. Anototenda kuti anogona kukwikwidza musarudzo. Uye, hongu, haana chirevo pamusoro pekusarudza mumwe mumiririri wefrat culture, Brett Kavanaugh, kuDare Repamusorosoro.
Kana iyo Access Hollywood tepi yaimiririra kutanga kwemagumo eiyi frat tsika, pamwe iyi yekusimbisa hondo icharatidza kupera kwekutanga, chiratidzo chine simba chekuti #Neniwo kufamba kuri kuita shanduko chaiyo muhukama hwesimba munharaunda yeUS. Congress yakagutsurira musoro muna 1991 payakasimbisa Clarence Thomas kutsiva Thurgood Marshall paDare Repamusoro soro kunyangwe Anita Hill akapa hushingi. Nhasi, ine mukana wekuratidza kuti yamuka.
Asi, chokwadi, kuchinja kwegungwa hakusi kweUnited States chete.
#Neniwo Pasi rese
Zvinofadza apo kufamba kwevanhu muUnited States kwakapararira pasi rose uye kunopindirana nekuenzanisa kwekuratidzira kune dzimwe nyika. Izvi ndizvo zvave kuitika kusangano reUnited States rekodzero dzevanhu pamwe nesangano reBlack Lives Matter richangoburwa.
#Neniwo risingasviki gore, asi rapararira nokukurumidza zvikuru. Chokwadi, iyo hashtag yakagadzira yakaenzana mune mimwe mitauro yakati wandei mukati memaawa mashoma emutambi Alyssa Milano's tweet achikurudzira vakadzi kuti vataure nyaya dzavo. Iyo hashtag ikozvino yave kushandiswa mune zvishoma Nyika dze85. Mazhinji ehashtag ingori shanduro dze "iniwo," asi kune akati wandei misiyano inofadza: #exposeyourpig (France), #thetimethat (Italy), uye #whenthemusicquiets (Norway).
Zvikamu zvakawanda zvepamusoro-soro zvekutaura chokwadi zvakaitika. MuJapan, mutori wenhau Shiori Ito kwakaratidza nyaya yake pachake yekubatwa chibharo, izvo zviri kuita kuti zvikwanisike kuti vakadzi vekuJapan vapedze kurangana kwetsika dzekunyarara pamusoro pechisimba chinoitirwa vakadzi. MuUK, nhevedzano yekupomera yakasimudzira Westminster, uye zvemukati mushumo kutanga kwegore rino zvakaratidza kuti munhu mumwe chete pavanhu vashanu vanoshanda muhurumende akashungurudzwa pabonde mumwedzi gumi nemiviri yapfuura. MuBrazil, sangano rakatanga musoro apo shanduro yechiPutukezi ye #Myfirstharrassment yakadhirowa. kutariswa kukuru kwevezvenhau muna 2015 uye yakapararira muLatin America yose.
Nekuda kwekubatwa chibharo kwakapararira uye kutengesa pabonde, India ndiyo nzvimbo ine ngozi kwazvo pasi rose kuve mukadzi, maererano neyakaburitswa nguva pfupi yadarika. Thomson Reuters Foundation chinzvimbo. Kubatwa chibharo kwevana kwasvika pamwero wedenda, kuwirirana pakati pa2012 na2016. Asi vakadzi vanga vari kuronga nekuratidzira pamusoro peidzi mhosva pamwe chete nekunetswa mune zvepabonde kunoitwa pasi pezita rinotsausa rekuti "eve-teasing." Munyika umo chete chikamu chimwe muzvina chevanhu inoshandisa Indaneti, kufamba kwehashtag kunogona kungoenda kure.
Pave paine, zvisingadzivisiki, kumashure. Vamwe vakashora kuiswa kwemaitiro e "America". "Ndinoshuva kuti dai zvisina kutanga muUS," Anne Marie Goetz, purofesa wezvepasi rose paNew York University uye aimbove chipangamazano cheUnited Nations panyaya dzevakadzi, akaudza NBC. "Nzira inokurumidza kuzvidza kurwira kodzero dzevakadzi chero ipi zvayo kutaura kuti inobva kune imwe nzvimbo."
Haisi chete nzanga dzemafeudalistic dzinotungamirwa nevarume dzakasundidzira kumashure pakupararira kwe #Neniwo. MuFrance, zana revakadzi vane mukurumbira kusanganisira mutambi Catherine Deneuve vakaburitsa tsamba yakashama in Le Monde vachiti #Neniwo yakanga yaenda kure zvakanyanya, zvekuti yaimiririra hunhu hwepuritanical uye hwekushoropodza hwakafanana nevaAmerica.
Iko kune chokwadi chepuritanical uye censorious dhizaini mutsika dzeAmerica - rangarira, a chikamu chechina chevanhu iEvangelical Protestant - asi iyo #Neniwo kufamba hakusi kwebonde.
Zviri pamusoro pesimba.
Kugadzirisa Simba Imbalance
Zvakawanda zvachinja mumagariro evanhu, pasi rose, pamusoro peukama hwevarume nevakadzi. Kune kuenzana kukuru, asi kuchine mikaha. Somuenzaniso muUnited States, vakadzi vanotambira zvikamu makumi matatu nezvisere kubva muzana pane izvo varume vanowana mumabasa akafanana. Uye pachine mukaha wekuti ndiani ane zvinzvimbo zvine simba.
Ukatarisa girafu yehuwandu hwemadzimai muparamende pasi rose, museve unosimbisa musoro. kunze kwechati pakona ye90-degree. Pakave nekuvandudzwa kwakasimba kubva muna 1997 apo mwero wakamira pa11%. Muna 2017, nhamba iyi yakawedzera kusvika pa23%. Haisi kuenzana kwevakadzi, asi kufambira mberi.
Huwandu hwepasi rose zvakare hwakati nani pane zvakawanikwa nevakadzi muUnited States: 20 muzana yeCongress muna 2018. Pane mukana wakanaka kuti #Neniwo plus #NotMyPresident ichabatana kusimudza nhamba idzodzo kumusoro mushure mesarudzo dzepakati petemu kuitira kuti United States ive pakati nepakati pane kuita yakaderera.
Munyika mbiri chete pasi rose ndimo mune vanhukadzi vakawanda kudarika varume vari kushanda muparamende: Rwanda (61 percent) neBolivia (53 percent). Cuba neIceland vanoswedera pa49 muzana uye 48 muzana zvichiteerana. Pazvikamu zvitatu kubva muzana kana pasi, zvitsuwa zvePacific (Vanuatu, Micronesia, Solomon Islands) uye Gulf States (Qatar, Oman, Kuwait) vane nzira refu yekuenda.
Mukutonga, vakadzi vanoita zvirinani, kunyanya munyika dzakapfuma. Maererano neSangano reEconomic Cooperation uye Development mifananidzo, 54 muzana yevatongi vane hunyanzvi munyika dziri nhengo dzeOECD vakadzi, neSlovenia, Latvia, neGreece vachitungamira. Anenge mumwe chete pavatongi vatatu veDare Repamusorosoro vanhukadzi.
Zvakare, United States inoita zvisina kunaka, ine chete 36 muzana yevatongi padanho remubatanidzwa vari vakadzi. Iyo "gavel gap" padanho rehurumende yakada kufanana, ine chete 33 muzana yevatongi kuva vakadzi. Parizvino, Dare Repamusorosoro reUnited States rine zvikamu zvakafanana: vakadzi vatatu nevarume vatanhatu.
Hazvirevi kuti ndinofunga kuti vakadzi vanoita basa riri nani sevezvematongerwo enyika kana vatongi. Asi ini ndinofunga kuti kuenzana kwevakadzi kunovimbisa kuti vanhu vane masimba havarerutse zvinonetsa zvevakadzi. Uye, kana vakadzi vari vevakadzi, saka vanounza pamwe chete nemafungiro akasiyana emasimba - simba ne pane simba pamusoro. Uye izvo zvinogona kuunza shanduko-yakakura shanduko.
Alpha Varume
Ndakaenda kukoreji yakasununguka yeQuaker kumashure kuma1980. Yakanga yave sangano re-co-ed gore ndisati ndasvika. Ini ndakasarudza chikoro muchidimbu nekuti chaive chisina hama. Ndakanga ndisingazivi zvakakwana kuti nditende kuti kusavapo kwemafrats kwaireva kusavapo kwemaitiro e-frat-house.
Mukati megore iroro rokutanga redzidzo pamwe chete, mumwe mukadzi wechiduku akabatwa chibharo nechikwata muimba inorara. Vatungamiri vekoreji vakaita basa rakashata zvikuru rokubata nenhau yacho. Mukadzi wechidiki akadonha; vapari vemhosva vakarohwa maoko. Kojiji yakaedza kunyepedzera kuti chiitiko chacho hachina kumboitika. Mushure mezvose, chinhu chakadaro haafaniri zviitike panzvimbo yakasununguka, inoshivirira.
Mumakore makumi mashanu apfuura, bato revakadzi rakahwina zvakawanda, zvakawanda. Vakadzi vakawanda vakapinda mumayunivhesiti, mumabasa, uye mumahofisi ezvematongerwo enyika. Vakapaza nepakati pemagirazi akawanda. Makirabhu mashoma evakomana akavhurwa uye akaburitswa.
Varume vakawanda havana kunyatsochinjira kune idzi shanduko. Nzvimbo dzavo dzebasa hadzisisiri dzevarume vese, asi vakarambira nemafungiro avo epamba. Kazhinji varume vari pamusoro vanogadzira patani. Kungofanana nemhuka dzisiri dzevanhu, varume vanotora macues avo kubva kune alpha murume. Mitemo yakashanduka, mitemo iri pachena haisi yepabonde, asi mamwe maitiro akadzokera kumashure.
Ibasa remasangano kupa chirango maitiro edzimba, kumisa nzvimbo dzebasa dzakachengeteka uye dzine chiremerera, uye kutumira mamwe mameseji ekuti vanhu vane masimba vanofanira kuita sei. Koreji yangu yakatadza kuita izvozvo payakava coeducational. Zvakatora kupikisa kukuru uye kuronga nevadzidzi kuti vatendeuke izvozvo. Sekutyorwa kwekodzero dzevanhu pasi rose, zvaida kupiwa zita uye kunyadziswa.
Rudzi rwakafanana rwekuratidzira uye kuronga - ne #Neniwo nevamwe vazhinji - inodiwa ikozvino kuvharira murume we alpha muWhite House uye kuyedza kwake kudzosa mitemo yehukama pakati penzanga yeAmerica. Iye zvino ava murume mukuru pacampus, sezvakamboita Bill Cosby.
Asi munguva pfupi iri kutevera, ndinovimba kumuona achidzingwa uye kutorerwa rukudzo rwake. Uye iyo frat-imba mafungiro ayo achiri kunyura muhomwe dzakasiyana dzetsika dzeAmerica dzakaparadzwa zvachose.
ZNetwork inopihwa mari chete kuburikidza nerupo rwevaverengi vayo.
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