Chikamu chechitatu chenhevedzano yedu chinoputsa chirevo chepamutemo chekuti Egypt, uko murimi akagura musoro wemwanasikana wake, haina 'rukudzo' kuuraya.
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Kune mugero wetsvina kunze kwehofisi yeAzza Suleiman, gomba rinopisa umo tsvina yeimwe yezvitangwena zvakaipisisa zveCairo yakaderedzwa kuita duva rinofamba zvishoma nezvishoma remvura nhema. Mhute yebhuruu yehutsi hunobuditsa uye huruva inofamba ichidzika mumikoto yakakora nevakadzi vane machira, varume vakapfeka nguwo chena, vatengesi vekofi, ngoro dzemadhongi nevakomana vemarara, vane makore mashanu nematanhatu ekuberekwa vanoburuka kubva kumakomo eMokkatam kuzounganidza muCairo. marara mangwanani oga oga. Imwe yacho inodyisa mbudzi dzavo uye - hongu - nguruve dzakaberekerwa munzvimbo dziri kuora. Chifukidziro chehutsi chiri pamusoro penhamo iyi. Asi chidzitiro cherumwe rudzi chakarara pamusoro peEgipita, chifukidziro icho Azza Suleiman akatsunga kubvarura.
Pamutemo, Egypt haina "rukudzo" kuuraya. Vakadzi vaduku vangazviuraya, hongu, asi havambopondwa. Uyu ndiwo mutsetse wehurumende - uye zvechokwadi, inhema. Mafaira ari muhofisi yeAzza Suleiman's Center for Egypt Women's Legal Assistance office - uye mune mamwe maNGOs muCairo - anotaura chokwadi. Muna Chivabvu 2007, mumwe murimi kumaodzanyemba kweEgypt akadimbura musoro mwanasikana wake mushure mekunge aona kuti aive nemukomana. Muna Kurume 2008, mumwe murume akangonzi "Mursi" akabatwa nemagetsi ndokurova kusvika afa mwanasikana wake ane makore 17 okukura nekuti akange afonerwa nemukomana wake. "Mursi", murimi wekuKafr el-Sheikh muNile Delta, akabvuma kuti "akamurova netsvimbo huru" asati apedza kumurova nemagetsi; humhondi hwakazoonekwa apo chitunha chakasvika kuchipatara cheko.
Basa raAzza Suleiman rinopa zvinhu zvakasviba zvakanyanya. Makunakuna idambudziko guru iro hapana anozotaura nezvazvo, anodaro. Munguva ichangopfuura, mumwe murume wokuIjipiti akabvuma kuti akanga auraya mwanasikana wake nokuti aiva nepamuviri. Asi akanga ari baba vomwana akanga asati aberekwa womwanasikana wavo. Yaiva nyaya yemakunakuna. Asi akamuuraya kuti adzivirire "kukudzwa" kwemhuri. Vamwe vakadzi vana vachangopondwa nemhuri dzavo nekuti vakabatwa chibharo. Nharaunda yeChristian Coptic - pamwe 10 muzana yevagari vekuEgypt - vakazvivhara kubva kune chero "rukudzo" rwekuuraya ongororo kunyangwe vasikana vechiKristu vakapondwa nekuti vaida kuroora varume vechiMuslim. "MaKristu haagone kutaura nezvazvo kunze kwechechi," Azza Suleiman anonyunyuta. “Takaedza kuvhura nzvimbo dzokuvanda, asi hurumende haisi kuzozvibvumira. Vanoti: ‘Ndapota, hapana kutaura nezvemakunakuna. Uye 'kukudza' mhosva dzinowanzoenderana nenhaka."
KuEgypt, sekureva kwaAmal Abdelhadi weNew Woman Organisation, hapana nhamba dzemhosva dze“kukudza” kana makunakuna nekuti nyaya dzakadai hadzimbosviki kumatare. “Munogona kutaura zviri nyore zvekubatwa chibharo muwanano muno,” anodaro. "Ndave ndiri mudzimba umo mhuri dzose dzinogara mukamuri rimwe - vanasekuru, vana, hafu yemhuri inorara pasi pemubhedha usiku uye vanonzwa zvose. Iri pedyo. Yakanyanya. Uye vakadzi vose vaduku mumhuri vanofanira kuroorwa.Saka kana mumwe achifungidzirwa kuti akaita zvakaipa anogona kuuraiwa – zvikasadaro hapana mumwe wevasikana achakwanisa kuroorwa.Kuuraya mumwe chete kunovazarurira nzira.Izvi zvichaenderera mberi kana vakadzi vanoonekwa sezvinhu zvebonde kwete vanhu vane njere."
Vatongi veEgypt vanozivikanwa nekutyora mutemo - kana kusauteerera zvachose - kana vatarisana nemhondi dzemhuri. "Pane murume akatongerwa mwedzi mitanhatu - mwedzi mitanhatu chete - nekuuraya hanzvadzi yake," Amal Abdelhadi anodaro. "Asi mutongi akasarudza kuti sezvo murume uyu achifanira kurarama hupenyu hwake hwose aine mhosva yekuuraya hanzvadzi yake isina mhosva, haafaniri kuenda kujeri!"
Achifamba achitenderera nenyika neNissan 4 × 4 yake nhema, Azza Suleiman akaona kuti vatongi vekumusoro kweEgypt - munzvimbo dzine urombo uye dzisina kudzidza munyika - vanowanzove vakapfava kupfuura matare eCairo neAlexandria. Uye vafundisi vakuru vechiMuslim - vazhinji vavo vakashamiswa nezvavanoziva kuti idambudziko rakavanzwa muEgypt - vanowana mhosva yavo yekuuraya "rukudzo" ichiitwa nevatsigiri vavo. Mohamed Sayyid Tantawi, nyanzvi yeIslam ine simba aive Grand Mufti weEgypt uye Imam weAl-Azhar mosque uye akafa munaKurume wapfuura, akatarisana nemhosva dze "kukudza" nehushingi hukuru.
"Asi isu tine dambudziko guru pano nekuti Sheikh weAl-Azhar naMufti, havacharemekedzwa," Amai Suleiman vanodaro. "Havavimbike. Uye chikonzero ndechekuti vanhu vanoziva kuti vakagadzwa nehurumende yeHosni Mubarak, iyo ine huori. Tantawi aive munhu akavhenekerwa. Akataura zvakanaka nezvemhondi idzi. Asi iye nemufti vanomiririra hurongwa. uye vanhu vanovenga hurongwa, saka hapana kuvimbika mavari, uye saka pane maitiro matsva.Vanhu vanoenda kumasheikh emunharaunda yavo nevatungamiriri vemarudzi - uye vazhinji vavo vanotenda kuti 'kukudza' kuuraya itsika uye haina kukanganisa. ."
Ipapo kune matare eEgipita. "MuLebanon neJorodhani, vane zvinyorwa zviri mumutemo zvinonyanya kutaura nezvekuuraya kwe 'rukudzo.' Asi kuEgypt, mutongi anotenda kuti ane masimba uye chikamu chegumi nenomwe chemutemo chinobvumira vatongi kushandisa tsitsi kana vachida kuderedza mitongo - Kubva pamakore makumi maviri nemashanu, semuenzaniso, kusvika kumwedzi mitanhatu.Mamiriro echitendero uye echivanhu evatongi anobata navo.Vanogona kuti munhu akabatwa 'akaita zvinopesana netsika.' Vaurayi - baba kana mukoma - saka vanogona kuonekwa semunhu Izvi zvinoita kuti vapari vemhosva varerukirwe.Asi nhamba dzedu dzinoratidza kuti zvikamu makumi manomwe nepfumbamwe kubva muzana zvevasikana vakapara mhosva muno vakaurayiwa nefungidziro huru – nekuti vakanonoka kuuya kumba, kana kuti nevavakidzani vakati. vakanga vaona musikana achiseka kwazvo mumugwagwa.
MuSohag neAssiut (kumusoro kweEgypt), Azza Suleiman nevamwe vake vakasangana nevakuru vemapurisa. “Asi takaona kuti mumabhuku avo vanoendesa kuuraya kwe‘honour’ mukuzviuraya.Vanofunga kuti nekuita izvi vanenge vachibatsira mhuri yemushakabvu – kunyangwe mhuri iyi ndiyo ine mhosva yekuponda.Saka panyaya idzi mapurisa ane kuva shamwari dzemhondi."
Amai Suleiman havasi shamwari yemapurisa. “Dzimwe nguva tinenge tichiita nyaya nhatu kana ina dzemakunakuna tosangana nemapurisa. “Pandakaita zvidzidzo zvemutemo paCairo University, ndakasungwa nemapurisa nekuti ndaiva shamwari yevatsigiri vesangano reNasserist payunivhesiti. Pandakabvunzurudza vakadzi vechiIslam vakanga vasungwa, ndakaona kuti vakanga vatambudzwa. Ndataura izvi mubvunzurudzo paBBC. Saka mapurisa akandisunga zvakare. Vakati 'ndaisvibisa zita reEgypt'. Mapurisa emuno anogara akashatirwa - kunyanya kana achinge aita vanhu vanonzwisisa mutemo."
Sekureva kwaAzza Suleiman, maNGOs ekunze anorambwa mapurojekiti kana akataura zvisingatenderwe mune zvematongerwo enyika. Anoti mapurisa akapindira muzvirongwa zvake zvekugarisana nevamwe, kunyangwe zviya zvine chinangwa chekuvandudza hukama pakati pemadzimai echiKristu nemaMuslim. "Mapurisa akandiridzira runhare ndokuti: 'Tichakudzidzisa chidzidzo.' Saka ndakati mubvunzurudzo yepepanhau: 'Mapurisa akafanana nembwa dzomusango.' Ndipo pavakazomisa mapurojekiti edu.Mapurisa akandikumbira ruregerero, ndikabva ndaita.Ndakati: “Zvandataura ndakanganisa – imbwa dzakanaka kudarika mapurisa.
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