[Part 1, 2, 3, (4 ikubwera posachedwa…)]

Azimayi asanu ndi atatu omwe anathawira ku Hina Jilani ku Lahore anafera m'manja mwa mabanja awo. M’chigawo chachiŵiri cha kufufuza kwathu, loyayo anafotokoza mmene akuluakulu aboma anachitira.

 

"Pakadali pano, azimayi asanu ndi atatu adataya kunyumba yanga," akutero Hina Jilani. "Mmodzi anapita kukagwira ntchito m'tauni, anachoka mnyumba yathu, nakwera basi - ndipo adamuwombera ndi mchimwene wake. Dzina lake linali Shagofta, anali ndi zaka pafupifupi 20. Anali atakwatiwa kale ndi mwamuna yemwe amamukonda koma Mchimwene wake anatsika basi ndipo anapita ku polisi ndipo anadzipereka yekha koma bambo ake a Shagofta anamukhululukira.

 

Mayi Jilani ndi loya wolimba mtima komanso wolimba mtima ndipo amalongosola mwankhanza za "kupha mwaulemu" - kupha - kwa atsikana. Ayenera kukhala wolimba mtima, chifukwa cha ziwopsezo zakupha zomwe amalandila kuchokera kwa Asilamu aku Pakistan. Amalankhula monyoza mabanja omwe amapha akazi awo - ndi kunyoza kwambiri apolisi ndi oweruza omwe amalola ophawo kuti atuluke. Pakistan ili ndi mbiri yochititsa manyazi kukhala imodzi mwamayiko otsogola "opha ulemu" padziko lonse lapansi.

 

Mayi Jilani anati: “Azimayi ena a m’nyumba yathu ya Dastak ku Lahore anatisiya atatsimikiziridwa ndi mabanja awo kuti sadzavulazidwa. "Nthawi zonse timawauza amayi kuti asavomereze zitsimikizirozi. M'Khoti Lalikulu la Lahore, ndinali nditakhala komweko pamene woweruza ankaumirira kuti mkazi wochokera m'nyumba yathu abwerere kwa makolo ake. Pamene woweruzayo amalimbikira, mkaziyo amawonjezereka. Anamukaniza. Anamukhazika m'zipinda zake kenako m'bwalo lamilandu, ndipo adamuwombera.

 

Asanatuluke mu 2008, Purezidenti Pervez Musharraf adafunsidwa chifukwa chake palibe chomwe chidachitika kuti achepetse mavuto omwe amayi aku Pakistani amakumana nawo. Panalibe ndalama, General adatero. Koma Pakistan idayenera kugwiritsa ntchito ndalama pa zida za nyukiliya ndi zida wamba "kuti akhale ndi moyo wolemekezeka". Ulemu wadziko, umawoneka wofunika kwambiri kuposa moyo ndi ulemu wa azimayi aku Pakistan.

 

Kuofesi ya Mayi Jilani ku Lahore, komwe mafani amawotcha kutentha m'zipinda zing'onozing'ono zodzaza ndi mafayilo ovomerezeka, zikalata zowonongeka ndi mafoni a trilling, mlonda wokhala ndi zida amakhala pakhomo. "Azimayi asanu ndi atatu a m'nyumba yathu omwe anaphedwa - ichi chakhala chochititsa manyazi kwambiri," akutero Mayi Jilani, mawu ake akukwera pamene mkwiyo wake ukuyambiranso. “M’dziko muno muli lamulo – nthawi zonse banja limapanga chiwembu chophana, ndiye ngati bambo kapena m’bale wapha, banja limamukhululukira ndipo palibe mlandu uliwonse. Umboni ukubwera kukhoti.

 

Mayi Jilani adapita kupolisi Shagofta ataphedwa ndi mchimwene wake m'basi ya Lahore. "Tidawafunsa zomwe akuchita. Iwo adati banjalo lamukhululukira m'baleyo. "Tilibe mphamvu tsopano zofufuza," adatero. Ndinatumiza izi ku Commission on Status of Women - ndipo adatengera nkhaniyi. Inspector General waku Punjab mpaka pano, sipanakhalepo kuyankha kwa IG ndekha mtsikanayo anaphedwa, monga amati, 'mumtima wa banja'."

 

Mayi Jilani amausa moyo nthawi zambiri. Nditakhala pampando moyang'anizana ndi desiki yake kumapeto kwa ofesi yake, ndikumvetsera kukwiya kwake koopsa, ndimakhala ndi chidwi - ndithudi, ndili ndi kukhudzika kotheratu - kuti amayang'anizana ndi malamulo a Chisilamu kubwerera ku nthawi ya wolamulira wina wankhanza, Zia al-Haq, zomwe zikuwononga moyo wa loya wake nthawi zonse.

 

"Kuno kunali mtsikana ndipo ankafuna kukwatiwa motsutsana ndi zofuna za makolo ake. Choncho mchimwene wake anapha mwamuna wake woyembekezera. Anapita kundende ataweruzidwa zaka 14. Ankafuna kuthamangitsa mtsikanayo, mlongo wake. Iye anafuna pobisala pano ndi ife a m’banja lake chifukwa chakuti mchimwene wake ali m’ndende.

 

"Kufikira lero sitikudziwa choti tichite ndi mtsikanayu, pano akugwira ntchito ya ulembi kuno kuofesi yathu. Ali ndi ufulu wodziyimira pawokha pazachuma. Koma banja la bwenzi lake silikumumvera chisoni chifukwa mwana wawo anamwalira. chitetezo chake ndi ntchito ya boma - osati yanga. Wakhala ali muno muofesi kwa zaka ziwiri tsopano.

 

Imodzi mwankhanza kwambiri pakupha "ulemu" idachitika muofesi momwe tidakhalamo. Zaka khumi zapitazo, zidabweretsa kutchuka padziko lonse lapansi ndikupangitsa mkwiyo wapadziko lonse lapansi - zomwe sizinaphule kanthu ngakhale pang'ono. Kuphedwa kwa Samia Sarwar kumawavutitsabe Mayi Jalani. “Anawomberedwa pomwe mwakhala,” adatero. "Ndinawona mabowo m'mutu mwake. Ubongo wake unali pakhoma kumbuyo kwako."

 

Milandu yambiri ya "ulemu" imachitidwa ndi osauka ndi olandidwa. Koma Samia wazaka 29 anali mwana wamkazi wa Haj Ghulam Sarwar, munthu wolemera komanso wamkulu wa chipinda chazamalonda cha Peshawar ku North West Frontier Province ku Pakistan. Mayi ake anali dokotala. Samia anakwatiwa ndi mwana wa aunt ake. Banjali linali ndi ana awiri, mkulu wa zaka zisanu ndi zinayi.

 

Ananena kuti mwamuna wake amamumenya mosalekeza ndipo amafuna kuchoka panyumba, ndipo bambo ake anamuitana kuti abwerere kunyumba kwawo - pokhapokha ngati asakwatiwenso. Koma Samia anayamba kukondana ndi mkulu wa asilikali, Nadir, ndipo anauza makolo ake za iyeyo ndipo anawapempha kuti athetse banja lawo.

 

A Sarwar adakana, chifukwa izi zitha kugawa banja. Kenako Samia analankhula ndi Nadir. Atawopsezedwa ndi abambo ake, adathawira ku Lahore - komanso kumalo achitetezo a Mayi Jilani. Pansi pa malamulo a nyumba ya Dastak, amayi a Samia anauzidwa kuti mwana wawo wamkazi ali ku Lahore.

 

"Poyamba, mkulu wina anabwera kudzandiona kuchokera ku North West Frontier Province," akutero Mayi Jilani. "Anali chitsiru. Analamula kuti Samia abwerere kubanja lake. Ine ndinati, 'Ndilo lingaliro lake.' Ndipo apa Mayi Jalani akugwirana chanza pa desiki lawo. Adandiuza kuti, Madam, andipha, andipha. Mumaphunzira kukhulupirira zomwe amayiwa akunena ndimawakhulupirira nthawi zonse ndimawauza anzanga: musaganize kuti mayiyo akukokomeza mantha ake.

 

Makolo ake a Samia anasankha mmodzi mwa anzake a zamalamulo a Mayi Jilani kuti awayimire kuti adzawapemphe kuti akumane ndi mwana wawo wamkazi. Samia anakana. Kenako amayi ake anayimba foni, ndikumuuza kuti amupatse zikalata zachisudzulo kuti akwatiwe ndi Nadir. Samia - mowopsa, monga momwe zidakhalira - adakhulupirira mawu a amayi ake. Malinga ndi Mayi Jilani, Samia adamuuza kuti: "Ndikawaona amayi anga - koma abwere okha. Ndidzakumana nawo pamaso panu." Msonkhanowo udachitika pakati pa masana kuofesi ya loya. Mlonda wokhala ndi zida adauzidwa kuti awonetsetse kuti palibe amene afika ndi chida.

 

"Ndidakhala pano ndipo adakhala pomwe inu muli, tikucheza zankhani yake. Ogwira ntchito kuofesiyo amachoka - nthawi ili cha m'ma 4 koloko masana - ndipo mwadzidzidzi chitseko chidatsegulidwa ndipo mayiyu adalowa ndi mwamuna. Sindinatero. Munthu wina wochokera ku ofesi yanga anawabweretsa onse awiri. Ndinayang'ana m'mwamba ndipo ndinati, 'Ukhoza kutumiza dalaivala wako tsopano - bwera ukhale pansi.'

 

"Samia sanazindikire choopsa chilichonse, adauza mayi ake kuti 'Salaam aleikum'. Ndipo atangonena zimenezi, bamboyu adatulutsa mfuti - m'sekondi imodzi yokha, pamene Samia ankapereka moni kwa amayi ake - ndipo anawawombera. Ndidali chikhalire ndipo ndidamva chipolopolo chikudutsa kukhutu kwanga koyamba, kenako m'mimba. Mayi Jilani akuti adakomoka ndi mantha koma adakwanitsa kukanikiza alamu yachitetezo.

 

Ndinkangoona kuti Samia wamwalira ali ndi bowo m’mutu ndipo ubongo wake ukutuluka, antchito anga ena anabwera. munthu amene anali ndi mfuti anapita kuchitseko, ndipo ndinafuula kuti, 'Imbani apolisi.' Bamboyo anali atanyamula maloya anga wina atamuloza mfuti.

 

Mpaka lero, Mayi Jilani ali ndi nkhawa osati chifukwa cha kulephera kwa chitetezo mu ofesi yawo - mwina ndi mlonda wokhala ndi mfuti yemwe adalola amalume alowe - koma chikaiko chomwe chikukulirakulira kuti apolisi achitapo kanthu. Iye anati: “Nditamuyimbira foni Inspector General, anati abwera pakangotha ​​mphindi imodzi. Kenako patapita mphindi 10, mkulu wa apolisi uja anali ali kuno. Mayiyo anapita kaye ku hotelo ina ya m’deralo kenako n’kuthawirako. Peshawar Pasanathe ola limodzi, apolisi adadziwa kuti anali ndani - koma adamulola kuti achoke mumzindawo, ndipo apolisi yekhayo amene anayesa kufufuza izi adasamutsidwira ku mzinda wina.

 

Mayi Jilani adapita kukhothi - "mlandu woyenera kuimbidwa mlandu," adaganiza - koma zokambirana zidapitilira zaka ziwiri. Banja la Samia mpaka linanena kuti mayi Jilani adamubera mtsikanayo ndikumupha. Kenako apolisi adavomereza kuti amayi ake kulibe mu ofesi ya loya - zabodza zomveka. Pamapeto pake, mayi ndi bambo komanso mwamuna yemwe anali adakali mwamuna wake wa Samia, anakapereka chikalata cha “compromise” m’malo mwa ana awo onse, kukhululuka kuphedwako. Woweruzayo anavomereza kulolerako.

 

Pambuyo pake banjali lidatenga mtembo wa Samia kupolisi ndikupita nawo ku Peshawar kuti akauike m'manda. Patatha masiku awiri ataphedwa, gulu la Women's Action Group, lidati achita mapemphero a Samia, ngakhale atapanda thupi lake. "Ndinapempha Maulavi Farouq Mawdadi kuti apemphere," akukumbukira Ms Jilani, "ndipo panali amayi okwana 300, ndipo Mawdadi adachita mapemphero athu pa Lahore Mall. Panali apolisi ambiri omwe ankatiyang'ana - koma kenaka apolisi ena ndi amayi omwe adachita mapemphero athu. Apolisi angapo adagwirizana m'mapemphero athu.

 

"Ndiye chimachitika ndi chiyani? Khotilo linati pali vuto laukadaulo pa apilo yanga. Ndidapita ku Khoti Lalikulu koma adandiuza kuti ndine wodandaula. Iwo anati, 'Sindiwe waphwando.' Zinakhala vuto lalikulu. Panali chigamulo chomwe chinaperekedwa pamaso pa Senate ya Pakistani chodzudzula kuphana kwaulemu.

 

Ndiye chinachitika ndi chiyani? Lingaliro la Senator Syed Iqbal Haider, wa Pakistan People's Party, adathandizidwa ndi anzake 19. Koma ena onse a m’nyumbamo anatsutsa chigamulocho. Bambo Haider mwiniwakeyo adawopsezedwa ndipo Mayi Jilani adalandira ziwopsezo zambiri zakupha kuchokera kumagulu achisilamu.

 

Nadir, yemwe Samia ankafuna kukwatira, adachotsedwa m'gulu lankhondo la Pakistan chifukwa cha "kutsitsa mtima". Panopa ndi wokwatira ndipo ali ndi ana awiri ndipo amakhulupirira kuti amakhala ku Britain.

 

Mayi Jilani adauzidwa kuti mayi ake a Samia "apenga ndi chisoni komanso kudziimba mlandu". Nditapita ku Peshawar ndikufunsa kuti ndikaone manda a Samia, adandiuza kuti malo ake "sakudziwika".

 

 

 

 

 

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