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Mutu 1:
Moyo Wambali Zambiri

“Funso limene munthu amadzifunsa yekha limayamba, pomalizira pake, kuunikira dziko lapansi, ndi kukhala makiyi ake a zimene ena akumana nazo. Munthu akhoza kungoyang'ana mwa ena zomwe angakumane nazo mwa iyemwini. Pakulimbana kumeneku kumadalira mlingo wa nzeru zathu ndi chifundo chathu.”
- James Baldwin

Moyo Wambali Zambiri

“Ndinaphunzira msanga kusiyana pakati pa kudziwa
dzina la chinachake ndi kudziwa chinachake.”
- Richard Feynman

Nthawi zambiri, timabadwa, kuleredwa ngati ana, kuphunzira, kuyanjana, ndikukula.

Timagwira ntchito kuti tipeze ndalama zathu. Timakondwerera zobadwa zathu ndi zikhulupiriro zathu. Timagwira ntchito ngati nzika pamodzi ndi nzika zina. Timakonda zibwenzi ndikupanga mabanja. Ndipo pamapeto pake, zonse zimachitikanso, kuganiza kuti nkhondo, umphawi, ndi masoka ena sizikusokoneza.

Nthawi zambiri, magulu ali ndi zinthu zofunika zomwe zimathandiza kapena kulepheretsa ntchito zazikulu zamagulu monga kubadwa, kuphunzitsidwa, ndi kuyanjana; kuthandizira pazogulitsa zamagulu ndikudya kuchokera ku izo; kuphunzira ndi kusangalala chinenero, cholowa, ndi chikhalidwe; kugwira ntchito mogwirizana ndi ena kudzera m'malamulo, kuweruza, ndi ntchito zogawana; kusangalala kapena kuvutika ndi chilengedwe; ndi kusangalala kapena kuzunzika pa ubale ndi anthu ena.

Zoonadi, m’pomveka kukhulupirira kuti kuthandiza anthu kuchita ntchito zosiyanasiyana zimenezi n’chifukwa cha anthu ndiponso kuti kumvetsa madera amene tikukhalamo, ngakhale pamlingo waukulu kwambiri, tiyenera kumvetsetsa ntchito zosiyanasiyanazi ndi mmene kuzikwaniritsa kumakhudzira. zosankha zathu m'moyo.

Palibe kukana kuti momwe anthu amathandizira kapena kutsekereza njira zomwe masiku athu ndi usiku zimakhudzira zosangalatsa zathu ndi zowawa zimathandiza kudziwa kuti ndife ndani ndi zomwe tingachite, komanso zomwe zidzachitikire kwa ife.

Pokhala pachiwopsezo chokhala ongongoganiza pang'ono, titha kunena mwachidule zofunikira zapakati pagulu monga kuphatikiza ntchito zinayi ndi zochitika ziwiri.

Ntchito zinayi zosinthika ndi:

1. Kubereka, kulera, kucheza, ndi kugonana pakati pa amuna ndi akazi, achibale, achichepere ndi achikulire. Magulu amaphatikizapo mibadwo yatsopano yomwe imabadwa, kuphunzitsidwa, ndi kucheza. Sitikanatha kukhala popanda chibale.
2. Kukulitsa, kuphunzira ndi kugwiritsa ntchito chinenero, kupanga ndi kukondwerera mitundu, mafuko, zipembedzo, ndi zikhalidwe zina. Magulu amaphatikiza anthu omwe ali ndi zikhalidwe zogawana. Tingakhale ocheperapo kusiyana ndi anthu opanda dera.
3. Kupanga, kugawa, ndi kugwiritsa ntchito zinthu zamagulu ndi anthu ogwira ntchito ndi ogula. Magulu amaphatikiza katundu ndi ntchito zomwe zimapangidwa, kusuntha, ndi kudyedwa. Tikhoza kufa ndi njala popanda chuma.
4. Kukhazikitsa malamulo, kuweruza, ndi kukhazikitsa mapulogalamu ogawana ndi akuluakulu ndi nzika. Magulu amaphatikiza njira zolandirira zisankho za anthu osiyanasiyana, kuphatikiza kuletsa zochita zosiyanasiyana ndikuthandizira ena, kuthetsa mikangano, ndikuthandizira ntchito zamagulu. Sitikanakhala ndi chiyanjano choyenera ndi chothandiza popanda ndale.

Ndipo mikangano iwiri ndi:

1. Chilengedwe ndi maubale athu kwa izo. Palibe anthu amene amathawa zachilengedwe.
2. Magulu ena padziko lapansi ndi maubale athu kwa iwo. Palibe anthu amene amathawa maubale a mayiko.

Mfundo ya mindandanda iyi ndi yakuti kuti anthu akhale okhazikika komanso ogwira mtima ayenera kukwaniritsa ntchito zinayi zosinthika izi - achibale, chikhalidwe, zachuma, ndi ndale. Kuonjezera apo, chilengedwe ndi zochitika zapadziko lonse zimapereka zochitika zozungulira zomwe zimakhudza zosankha ndi zotsatira. Choncho njira imodzi yowonera madera ndiyo kuunika momwe gulu lirilonse limakwaniritsira ntchito zinayi za chikhalidwe cha anthu ndi momwe limachitira ndi chilengedwe ndi madera ena.

Koma Bwanji Mumadzivutitsa?

"Chida champhamvu kwambiri m'manja mwa
wopondereza ndiye mtima wa oponderezedwa.”
– Steve Biko

Pokhala pachiwopsezo chopatuka pang'ono, owerenga ena angadabwe, chifukwa chiyani muyenera kuphunzira za anthu? Wofunsayo akhoza, mwachitsanzo, angakonde kugwiritsa ntchito nthawiyo kumenyera kusintha. Ndipo ngakhale titaphunzira za chikhalidwe cha anthu, nchifukwa ninji tiyenera kulabadira kwambiri mbali zisanu ndi imodzizi ndi kusalabadira mofananamo mbali zina zambiri zimene munthu angasankhe?

Pankhani ya funso loyamba, tiyenera kumvetsetsa anthu chifukwa tikufuna kusintha ndipo sitingathe kusintha chinthu chovuta popanda kumvetsetsa mbali zake zapakati.

Koma wina angatsatire mwa kukangana, ngati sitiyenera kusintha anthu, ndiye kuti sitiyenera kumvetsetsa. Tsono nchiyani chomwe chimatipangitsa kusintha? Chifukwa chiyani ndiyenera kupitiriza kuwerenga?

Sitima ndi yoyendera. Mwachiwonekere sitima yakale ikasiya kugwira ntchito yake timayikonza, kapena, ngati china chake chabwino chilipo pamtengo womwe sichimachotsera phindu, timapeza.

N'chimodzimodzinso ndi babu, nsapato, kapena burashi. Ngati sachitanso zomwe tikufuna kwa iwo, ndipo tingakwanitse, timawakonza, kapena timapeza zatsopano.

Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, kusinthaku ndizovuta kwambiri pazachuma, chikhalidwe, ndale, kapena dongosolo lachibale, komanso ngakhale magulu onse omwe amaganiziridwa pamodzi monga gulu lonse.

Gulu ndi mgwirizano womwe umathandizira nzika zake kusonkhana kuti zikwaniritse ntchito zazikulu zachibale, dera, zachuma, ndi ndale.

Ngati gulu linalake liri ndi njira zokwaniritsira ntchitozi zomwe zimalephera kugwira ntchito bwino, ndiye kuti ngati nyali yowunikira yomwe sikuperekanso kuwala kogwira mtima kapena nsapato za nsapato zomwe sizimaperekanso chithandizo cha masewera, zidzafunika kusinthidwa.

Ngati maubwenzi atsopano alipo omwe angagwire bwino ntchito zofunikira kuposa momwe anthu amakhalira kale, ndipo ngati ndalama zopezera maubwenzi atsopano sizingapitirire kapena kusokoneza ubwino, ndiye ngati kupeza nsapato zotsika mtengo kuti zilowe m'malo. nsapato zomwe zili ndi mabowo, tingafune kufunafuna maubwenzi atsopano m'malo mopitiriza kupirira zakale.

• Kodi ndife otsimikiza za zokhumba zathu?
• Kodi gulu lathu likulephera kukwaniritsa zofuna zathu?
• Kodi pali njira yabwinoko yokonzera moyo wamagulu omwe ungakwaniritse zokhumba zathu?
• Kodi kupeza njira yabwinoko kungatheke?

Ngati yankho lathu liri inde pa mafunso anayiwo, ndiye kuti thanzi lathu silimafuna kuti tithawe zolakwa zamasiku ano?

Tiyerekeze kuti tifunika kujambula khoma lalikulu. Tiyerekeze kuti burashi ya penti silingagwire bwino. Tiyerekeze kuti wopaka utoto amatha. Ndipo tiyerekeze kuti titha kupeza chopaka utoto pamtengo wotheka. Timatero.

Fanizoli ndi lolimba. Chomwe chiri chovuta ndikuchisunga m'mitu yathu ndipo musaiwale kuti kulingalira kosavuta komweku kumagwiranso ntchito pa ziweruzo za kusintha kwa anthu monga ziweruzo za kusintha kwina. Zomwe zatsala ndikungowona ngati madera athu akulephera kukwaniritsa zofunika pazachuma, ndale, abale, ndi dera komanso zachilengedwe ndi mayiko m'njira yoyenera. Kenako (pambuyo pake Zokonda) tiyenera kufunsa ngati pali njira ina yabwinoko, yotsika mtengo komanso yotheka.

Chirichonse Chasweka

“Kuyambira pankhondo zolimbana ndi chipwirikiti,
ma siren usana ndi usiku,
kuchokera kumoto wa anthu opanda pokhala,
kuchokera phulusa la gay.”
—Leonard Cohen

Ndikukayikira kuti monga wowerenga bukhuli mwachiwonekere mukudziwa kale kuti gulu lanu likulephera momvetsa chisoni. Kuphatikiza apo, ndikukayikira pafupifupi nzika zonse pafupifupi m'madera onse amasiku ano, ngati sichoncho pamalingaliro awo, ndiye kuti m'maloto ndi maloto awo owopsa, dziwani kuti gulu lawo likulephera kwambiri.

Nazi zifukwa zochepa chabe zachidziwitso ichi.

Tonse tikudziwa kuti anthu mabiliyoni ambiri padziko lonse lapansi akukhala muumphawi wadzaoneni. Ndiko kuti magulu akulephera. Izo ziyenera kwenikweni kukhala zochuluka kuposa zokwanira. Simufunika kuwerengera ndendende. Simukusowa chithunzi changwiro cha ululu. Mabiliyoni ali ndi njala. Mlandu watsekedwa. Koma, palinso zifukwa zina.

Tonse tikudziwa kuti anthu ambiri alibe nthawi yaulere komanso malo athanzi kuti akhale ndi moyo mokwanira komanso wopindulitsa. Izinso zikuti madera akulephera.

Tonse tikudziwa kuti ngakhale komwe kuli chuma chochuluka ndipo moyo umakhala wautali komanso wocheperako, ulemu ndi zosatheka. Ndipo tikudziwa kuti kunama, kubera, kukulitsa, ngakhale kupha ndiye maziko a moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, panokha komanso, zoopsa kwambiri, palimodzi - makamaka komwe madera akutukuka kwambiri. Ndipo izi zikuwonetsanso kuti magulu akulephera.

Zomwe timakumana nazo kuyambira kubadwa mpaka imfa ndizosiyana kwenikweni ndi malangizo a ulemu, chilungamo, ndi chilungamo. Moyo monga momwe tikudziwira ukhoza kukhala wabwinoko. Njira zathu zokwaniritsira zachuma, ndale, dera, ndi mabanja, sizikuwonongeka pang'ono. Iwo amasokonezedwa kwambiri ndi zikhalidwe zawo zofunika kwambiri komanso m'njira zomwe zimaika mtengo wowopsa pa anthu. N’cifukwa ciani kupulumuka kuyenera kufunikila kudzicepetsa koopsa? Ngati izi sizikulephera, ndi chiyani?

Ulova ukuchulukirachulukira, olemera akulemera, ndipo achuma ndi eni ake amakondwerera. Ulova ukuchulukirachulukira, osauka akukulirakulira, ndipo akulira kapena kufa. Wall Street imawerengera phindu, imanyalanyaza zowawa, ndipo imalengeza kutembenuka. Iyi si njira yoyendetsera moyo wachuma. Zachuma zomwe zilipo zikulephera.

Mabomba amaphulika pa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Andale akupereka moni kwa zinyalala. Opanga zida zankhondo amakondwerera mapindu owopsa. Asilikali amakhala m'mabokosi imvi flannel kapena amakumana ndi moyo anatomically kapena opunduka m'maganizo, kuyesera kuyenda chisamaliro chaumoyo kuti amawachitira ngati dothi. Ubale wapadziko lonse walephera.

Nzika zathu zosuliza, ngakhale m'madandaulo awo omveka bwino, sizikhudza momwe zenizeni zilili zosagwirizana.

Opanga mankhwala, nyumba, chakudya, ndi china chilichonse kuyambira pa violin mpaka mfuti, amapeza phindu pang'ono pomwe akuchepetsa thanzi labwino komanso chitukuko cha onse. Nthawi zambiri anthu amafa chifukwa chosowa mankhwala kapena matenda.

Mabanki ndi makampani omanga amafunafuna phindu ndipo anthu ambiri alibe - kapena amakhala ndi nyumba kwakanthawi.

Unyolo wazakudya ndi minda yayikulu imateteza madalitso awo pomwe anthu ambiri alibe chakudya kapena amapirira kubweza kwazakudya zosinthidwa.

Mapindu a makampani osangalatsa akukwera koma anthu sangakwanitse kugula zoimbaimba ndi zachikhalidwe, makamaka zoimba nyimbo zoimbira vayolini, ngakhale kuti angakwanitse ndipo amalandiridwa mwadongosolo poyamikira ndi kugwiritsira ntchito mfuti molakwa.

Opanga, chifukwa amayenera kufunafuna phindu, nthawi zambiri sasamala za thanzi la anthu, ngakhale amaphwanya moyipa. Chodziwika bwino chofotokozera ndi chakuti anyamata abwino amatha kumaliza, ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chingasonyeze kuti anthu akulephera? Mtundu wanga, kuti ukhale wocheperako pang'ono, ndikuti zinyalala zimakwera. Umboni wa nyumba zachifumu zamphamvu, mazenera a chuma.

Ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri anganene m’kupita kwanthawi kuti sakhulupirira kuti kuipa konseku kulipo, pansi pamtima, pafupifupi tonse timadziwa kuti kulipo. Izi ndizosavuta kutsimikizira. Anthu nthawi zonse komanso moyamikira amawerenga mabuku osangalatsa, amawonera makanema apa TV, ndikupita ku makanema omwe mowonekera - komanso ngati gawo lapakati pamizere yachiwembu - amatengera kunyozeka konseku mopepuka. Palibe amene amati, "Hei, sizowona."

Kutentha ndi mphepo yamkuntho imathamanga kwambiri pa tsiku lachiwonongeko pamene olemera ndi amphamvu amamwa margaritas pamtunda wa Spaceship Earth pamene akusangalala ndi maonekedwe okongola omwe amawawona kudzera m'maso amagazi ngakhale amalephera kuona, kapena kukana, thermometer ndi madzi akukwera. Ecology ikulephera.

Mafumu a Sosaite amatengera mawonekedwe a nthiwatiwa, mitu yawo itakhazikika m'madyerero awo, malingaliro awo akunyalanyaza kapena ngakhale kutsutsa mwamphamvu chowonadi chanyengo chomwe chikuwululidwa.

Ayi, ndi khalidwe labwino kwambiri. Kunena zowona, mafumu athu olemera ndi amphamvu ndi oipa kuposa nthiwatiwa. Iwo ndi odana ndi chikhalidwe komanso adyera homo sapiens maso awo ali pansi ndipo mphuno zawo zikununkhiza mu zowawa za anthu ena zomwe ayenera kumawonjezera nthawi zonse chifukwa cha zofunikira za chikhalidwe cha msinkhu wawo ndi chitonthozo.

Ma monarchy athu amakhala ndi chizolowezi chosafuna kukweza maso awo kuopa kuti angatayike. Iwo sangayang’ane m’mwamba ngakhale kuti ateteze masoka amene angawononge miyoyo yawo, kuposanso kuletsa anthu ena kuwonongedwa. Akuluakulu a chilengedwe chathu akuchithamangitsira ku kugwa.

Munthu aliyense padziko lapansi pano yemwe amamwalira ndi matenda omwe angathe kupewedwa kapena njala - ndipo ndi mamiliyoni a anthu chaka chilichonse - amaphedwa mwachiyanjano. Kupha uku sikunayenera kuchitika. Ndiko kulephera kwachuma. Mwana aliyense yemwe sakhala ndi luso komanso kuthekera kwake, komanso amene sasangalala ndi malo okhazikika achikondi - ndipo ichi ndiunyinji wokulirapo ndipo mwinanso unyinji wa ana onse - ndiupandu wopweteka kwambiri kwa achinyamata. Ndipo upandu umenewu sunayenera kuchitika. Iwo ndi achibale akulephera.

Munthu aliyense amene akugwiritsa ntchito moyo wake m'mikhalidwe yotopetsa komanso yofooketsa, osasangalala ndi msinkhu komanso ndalama zochepa zoperekera nsembe zawo, ali ndi moyo wina wogonjera ku umbombo ndi mphamvu. Ndi chikhalidwe cha pafupifupi 80% ya anthu padziko lapansi. Kugonjera kwa mzimu uku sikunayenera kuchitika. Izi zikulephera anthu.

Kugwiriridwa kwa anthu, kuba, ndi kuphana komwe kumadzaza misewu ndi ozunzidwa - komanso, kupitilira apo, kusintha kwakukulu kwamalingaliro ndi zolinga ndi kugonjera, umphawi, kugwiriridwa m'maganizo, kunyozedwa, komanso kupha anthu komanso kupha anthu ambiri. kugawidwa molakwika kwakukulu kwa chidziwitso ndi zochitika zomwe sizinayenera kuchitika. Anthu akulephera.

M'madera amasiku ano, ngati mutayang'ana pang'ono kuseri kwa ma facades, zenizeni zimakhala kuti muli ndi khalidwe loipa kwambiri lomwe silinayenera kuchitika - pokhapokha anthu atakonzedwa mosiyana.

Ku US, pafupifupi 50,000 amafa pangozi zagalimoto pachaka. Anthu oganiza bwino atha kukhala ndi imfa mazana angapo otere, ndipo mwina zochepa.

Ku US, madotolo osakwanira komanso kukwera mtengo kwachipatala kumapereka nzika mazanamazana kudwala kapena kufa chaka chilichonse.

Ku US, masukulu amaphunzitsa ophunzira ambiri kupirira komanso kulamula, zomwe ndi zosiyana ndi zomwe munthu aliyense wanzeru angaone ngati maphunziro abwino.

Ndipo zilonda zomalizazi ndi zilonda zapamtunda zonyansa zomwe zimawonekera kwambiri pamwamba pa kuchulukana ndipo tsopano zimatengedwa mosasamala za mapiri a njala, matenda, ndi zoperewera zina pamaziko a chikhalidwe chathu. Ndipo amenewo ndi matenda owopsa kwambiri mdziko lakwawo kwa ufumuwo. Ganizirani zovuta kwambiri m'derali.

Pali mkangano umodzi wokha wogwirizana kapena wodekha wotsutsa kukonzanso anthu pa maziko osinthika kuti athetse kulandidwa ndi zowawa zonsezi. Ndipo ngakhale mkangano umodzi womwewo - womwe ndi wonena kuti kutanthauzira kwachisinthiko kungangopangitsa zinthu kukhala zovuta chifukwa palibe njira ina yotheka - ndizokha, monga momwe tidzawonera, osati bodza lina lowonekera.

Palibe munthu wanzeru amene angatsutsenso kuti machitidwe omwe tili nawo akuyenera kukhalabe chifukwa ndi abwino. Lingaliro la umbombo, kusankhana mitundu, kusankhana mitundu, ndi ulamuliro waulamuliro, kuchepera kwa kuipitsa kapena nkhondo zomwe zimawopseza moyo wa anthu - sizabwino. Dyera ndi ulamuliro sizili bwino. Kutchula machitidwe athu achitsanzo, kapena abwino, kapena abwino, kapena olekerera, si nthabwala yomvetsa chisoni. Palibe amene sali onyenga amene angatenge moona mtima zonena zoterezo. Ndizosamveka monga momwe zinalili kale kunena kuti ukapolo unali wabwino, kapena kudya anthu kunali kwabwino - zonsezi zinanenedwa, ndithudi, ndi omwe amapindula pokhala kapena kudya anthu.

Umbombo suli wabwino, kapena njala, kusowa, kapena kugonjera. Koma bodza lakuti ngakhale zinthu zili bwanji zoipa, kusintha kulikonse kungachititse kuti zinthu ziipireipire, ngakhale kuti anthu ambiri oganiza bwino ndiponso osamala anthu ambiri amakhulupirira, ndilo, monga mmene tionere, ndiyo njira yaikulu imene anthu olemera ndi amphamvu amachirikizira ndi kupeputsa maganizo awo. gawo lake m’chisalungamo chimenecho.

Ndiye tsogolo la funso lathu ndi lotani, chifukwa chiyani tiyenera kuyesa kumvetsetsa anthu mokwanira kuti tisinthe?

Tiyerekeze kuti mwawerenga bukuli (ndi mavoliyumu otsatirawa), ndipo mukuganiza, "chabwino, ndikuwona kuti dongosolo lachitukuko labwino kuposa zomwe timapirira ndizotheka. Ndipo ndikuwonanso momwe anthu angathandizire kuti akwaniritse dongosolo latsopanoli, kuphatikizapo kukhala ndi mwayi wochita bwino kwambiri. ”

Ndiye kodi simungafune kutenga nawo gawo pakusintha anthu m'njira zilizonse zomwe mungayendetse bwino, ngakhale kuti kukhudzidwa kwanu kungakhale kochepa kapena kokwanira?

Kodi tonsefe amene timaona ndi kumva chowonadi cha kulephera kwa anthu sitiyenera kufunafuna kusintha monga chiyembekezo chenicheni chokhacho cha kukhala otukuka osati ankhanza?

Kodi kuyesayesa kwathu pamodzi kusintha anthu si njira yokhayo yopitirizira chisalungamo ndi kuti potsirizira pake kukhala masoka odabwitsa kuposa momwe timapiririra kale?

Ngati izi ndi zoona, ndiye kuti tikufunika kumvetsetsa bwino za anthu, zolinga zathu, ndi njira zathu, kuti tipitirize. Izi ndi zomwe zimalimbikitsa Fanfare. Timayamba ndi kumvetsetsa anthu.

Zogwirizana Zomwe Zimamangiriza 1: Mabungwe

"Ndife zomwe timachita nthawi zonse ..."
- Aristotle

Kodi bungwe ndi chiyani?

Tonsefe timagwiritsira ntchito liwulo kaŵirikaŵiri, komabe kudziŵa chimene tikutanthauza ndi “mabungwe” kumafuna khama lapadera.

Ganizirani za Pentagon ku Washington DC. Kodi Pentagon ndi bungwe? Inde, n’zoonadi.

Komabe, kodi nyumba yokhala ndi mbali zisanu yomwe timatcha Pentagon ndi yomwe imapangitsa kukhala malo? Ayi, sichoncho.

Pentagon ikhoza kukhala mnyumba iliyonse ndipo ikadakhalabe momwe ilili. Ndipo tikayika fakitale ya njinga m'nyumba yomwe ili ndi Pentagon, poof, nyumbayo sikhalanso Pentagon ngakhale ikadakhala ndi mbali zisanu.

Ndiye, kodi anthu enieni omwe amayenda m'makonde a Pentagon ndi omwe amapangitsa Pentagon kukhala bungwe? Ayi, ngati tilowa m'malo mwa anthu a Pentagon ndi anthu atsopano, ikadakhala malo omwewo, ngakhale ndi anthu osiyanasiyana. Ngati tigawiranso anthu omwewo tsopano akuyenda m'makonde a Pentagon kupita ku Dipatimenti ya Boma, Dipatimenti ya Boma sichingakhale Pentagon mwadzidzidzi.

Ndiye maziko a Pentagon kukhala bungwe ndi chiyani?

Yankho lake ndi gulu la maubwenzi, kapena zomwe tingatchule maudindo.

Mu Pentagon, mwachitsanzo, pali maudindo osiyanasiyana omwe ali ndi maudindo ndi zilolezo. Maudindo awa, kapena malo omwe anthu amadzaza, akuphatikizapo Chief of Staff, Five Star General, mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya akuluakulu apansi, atsogoleri a magulu, akatswiri, alembi, oyang'anira, ndi zina zotero. Maudindo awa ndi maubwenzi, maudindo, zosankha, ndi malire omwe amapereka ndi mtima wa bungwe lotchedwa Pentagon. Maudindo omwe amafotokozera zomwe anthu omwe ali mbali ya Pentagon kapena omwe akhudzidwa ndi Pentagon angathe kuchita kapena sangachite kapena sangachite, ndiye maziko a "Pentagon-ness." Ganizilani za banja, mpingo, kapena sukulu. Kapenanso nyumba yamalamulo, fakitale, kapena msika. Kapena dipatimenti ya apolisi kapena Center for Disease Control.

Monga Pentagon, aliyense wa mabungwewa alipo kuti akwaniritse ntchito zina. Pachifukwa chimenecho, aliyense ali ngati momwe anthu amalembera zazing'ono.

Sosaiti ilipo kuti ilole nzika zake kuyanjana ndikukwaniritsa ntchito zingapo zosinthika zinayi zomwe ndizofunikira pamoyo. Mabungwe amodzi ndi ofanana, koma nthawi zambiri, makamaka, amayang'anira ntchito zingapo - mwina nkhondo, moyo wapabanja tsiku lililonse, zikondwerero zachipembedzo, kapena maphunziro.

Pentagon makamaka imakonzekera ndikukhazikitsa ziwawa ndi nkhondo. Banja, tchalitchi, sukulu, nyumba zamalamulo, fakitale, kapena dongosolo lonse la msika, makamaka limasamalira ana, limakondwerera mikhalidwe ndi miyambo yogawana, limapereka chidziwitso ndi luso, limakhazikitsa malamulo, limatulutsa zotuluka, kapena kugawira katundu, mautumiki, ndi ntchito. .

Ndipo apa pali mwalawapamutu womveka. Ngati tikufuna kutenga nawo mbali pazochitika za chikhalidwe cha anthu, njira yokhayo yochitira izi ndikukhala ochita nawo mndandanda wochepa wa mabungwe omwe tiyenera kukwaniritsa mndandanda umodzi kapena zingapo za maudindo omwe gulu lathu limapereka kuti athetse ntchitozo.

Kuti tigwirizane ndi kupindula ndi - komanso kuvutika chifukwa cha - mabungwe ena mdera lathu, tiyenera kukwaniritsa maudindo omwe mabungwewa amapereka. Izi zili choncho kaya tikulingalira za banja, sukulu, tchalitchi, nyumba yamalamulo, khoti, fakitale, kapena msika.

N’cifukwa ciani tiyenela kusamala za cimeneci? Chifukwa chiyani mabungwe - osati nyumba zomwe alimo, anthu omwe ali m'nyumbazo, kapena zida zomwe zili m'nyumbazo, koma maubwenzi ndi maudindo omwe amapanga malingaliro ndi zopereka - ndizofunikira kuganizira poyesera kumvetsetsa anthu kuti asinthe?

Lingalirani zakampani. Kampani ndi bungwe. Ena mwa maudindo ake onse ndi eni ake, manejala, ndi wogwira ntchito omwe amakhala ndi mawonekedwe apadera pazinthu zina monga malo opangira magalimoto, nyumba yosindikiza mapulogalamu, kapena mahotelo. Ngati mukufuna kukhala m'gulu lamakampani ndi ntchito zake - kuphatikiza kupeza ndalama ndikupulumuka - muyenera kukwaniritsa zomwe mukufuna kuchita ndi gawo limodzi kapena lina mukampani. Mumagwira ntchitoyo kuti mupeze zopindulitsa - kuphatikiza zofunika ngati ndalama - koma mutha kuvutikanso ndi ngongole zina monga kumvera abwana anu.

Mutha kukhala eni ake akampaniyo, mumapeza phindu lalikulu osachita chilichonse kuti mupindule kwambiri. Mutha kukhala manejala kapena CEO, CFO, mainjiniya, kapena loya wakampani mukuchita ntchito zingapo zopatsa mphamvu zokhala ndi maubwenzi osiyanasiyana kwa ogwira ntchito pafupipafupi pansipa komanso eni ake omwe ali pamwambapa. Mudzayenera kutulutsa zotsatira zomwe zimakulitsa phindu la eni ake pomwe mumadzipezeranso ndalama zambiri ndikuletsa ogwira ntchito kuti asatenge ndalama zambiri, ndikusiyirani zochepa. Kapena mungakhale wogwira ntchito molunjika, kunena pamzere wa msonkhano kapena kuphika agalu otentha pa grill. Pachifukwa ichi mudzakhala mukuchita zazikulu kapena zolepheretsa ntchito zomwe zimayendetsedwa kuchokera pamwamba. Pachifukwa ichi mudzapeza ndalama zochepa, kapena nthawi zambiri zotsika kwambiri koma zofunika kwambiri.

Kuchokera ku mipingo kupita ku apolisi, kuchokera ku mafamu kupita ku nyumba zosungiramo ndalama, komanso kuchokera ku mabanja kupita ku zipatala, mabungwe ndi njira zothandizira anthu. Tiyenera kugwira ntchito m'mabungwe kuti tipeze chilichonse chomwe anthu angachite, kuphatikiza ndalama, maphunziro, zosangalatsa, chithandizo chamankhwala, ndi zina zotero. Komabe, nawonso, mabungwe amafuna kuti tizilumikizana m'njira zina zomwe nthawi zambiri zimatilepheretsa kukhala omwe tingakhale komanso zomwe tingasangalale nazo kapena kuvutika.

Chifukwa chake mfundo ndikuti, mabungwe amapanga bwalo momwe timagwirira ntchito. Timapeza zabwino kuchokera ku mabungwe omwe timagwirizana nawo, chifukwa chake, kwenikweni, timalumikizana nawo. Koma timakumananso ndi zofooka zosiyanasiyana chifukwa cha mabungwe omwe timagwirizana nawo, ngongole yomwe tikuwoneka kuti sitingapewe. Pamapeto pake, funso lomwe lili pamtima pakusintha kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu ndiloti titha kukhala ndi mabungwe atsopano omwe amaperekabe phindu lofunikira, komanso omwe amapereka mapindu atsopano, koma amatero popanda kuyika ma debit owopsa?

Zomangira Zomwe Zimamanga 2: Zikhulupiriro

“Tiyerekeze kuti anthu ndi omangidwa moti amafuna kukhala ndi mwayi wogwira ntchito yopindulitsa mwaufulu. Tiyerekeze kuti akufuna kukhala omasuka ku kulowerera kwa akatswiri aukadaulo ndi ma commissars, mabanki ndi ma tycoon, ophulitsa mabomba amisala omwe amachita mayeso amalingaliro amalingaliro ndi alimi akuteteza nyumba zawo, asayansi amakhalidwe omwe sangathe kusiyanitsa njiwa kwa wolemba ndakatulo, kapena wina aliyense. amene amayesa kufuna ufulu ndi ulemu kuti zisakhalepo kapena kuziyika kuti ziiwale ..."
-Noam Chomsky

Ngati mabungwe ali ndi udindo chifukwa cha momwe amakhudzira anthu omwe amagwira ntchito zomwe mabungwewo amapereka, kodi "ife anthu" omwe timachita maudindowo timadziwika bwanji?

N’zoona kuti timakhala ndi zinthu zambiri.

Utali wathu ndi kulemera kwathu kwachibale, mtundu wa tsitsi, zovala zomwe timakonda, zomwe timakonda pa TV, zizoloŵezi zowerengera, zokonda, ndi kupitirira apo, mikhalidwe yambiri, mazana, ngakhale zikwi zambiri zaumwini zimathandiza kutizindikiritsa. Komabe, popeza tikufuna kudziwa zomwe zili zofunika kumvetsetsa za anthu ndi anthu ammudzi kuti tiganizire mozama za momwe tingasinthire bwino anthu, "ife anthu" nthawi zonse timakhala ndi zokonda, chidziwitso, zizolowezi, ziyembekezo zina. , ndi zokonda zakuthupi ndi zamaganizidwe ndi zikhulupiriro.

Ganizirani za mnzanu wina. Zomwe zimafunikira kwambiri kwa iye monga bwenzi lanu ndizomwe zili zapadera komanso zapadera za iye m'malingaliro anu.

Komabe, ngati mukuganiza za anthu onse, chomwe chili chofunika kwambiri pa chiwerengero cha anthu chikhoza kukhala zinthu zomwe zimachitika munthu ndi munthu m'magulu akuluakulu a anthu chifukwa izi zimakhudza makhalidwe a anthu ambiri ndipo anthu ambiri amakumana nawo. zotsatira zazikulu.

Ngati aliyense pagulu ali wokonda kuchita zinazake, kapena ali ndi chizoloŵezi chodziwika bwino kapena chikhulupiriro chomwe chili ndi tanthauzo lalikulu, ndiye kuti zomwe anthu ambiri amatsatira, chizolowezi, kapena zikhulupiriro zimasokoneza kwambiri anthu, kutiuza zambiri zomwe zingatheke kapena zotheka. m'gulu limenelo.

Ngakhale chizoloŵezi, chizolowezi, kapena chikhulupiliro sichigawidwa ndi aliyense, koma ndi chigawo china chachikulu chomwe chitha kugwiritsidwa ntchito poletsa kapena kutsata kusintha kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu, izi zidzakhala zofunikira kuti timvetsetse chifukwa zotsatira zake zingatheke. kukhala wamkulu. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, mtundu wa tsitsi la munthu wosakwatiwa, kapena chiwerengero chonse cha anthu omwe ali ndi tsitsi lofiira, sichingakhale chofunikira kwambiri pakusintha anthu. Mwachitsanzo, tiyerekeze kuti akazi ambiri amavomereza kuti m’njira inayake ndi otsika kwa amuna. Ndithudi imeneyo ingakhale nkhani yaikulu kwa anthu, monga momwe zakhalira nthaŵi ndi malo osiyanasiyana m’mbiri. Kungakhale kofanana kapenanso kofunika kwambiri, ngati, m’malo mwake, akazi mokulira akukhala ochirikiza akazi, pamene chisonkhezero choyambirira chingakhale vumbulutso la munthu mmodzi, kapena chifukwa china chirichonse choyandikira, koma m’kupita kwa nthaŵi akazi pamodzi anafuna maunansi atsopano, monganso zachitika nthaŵi zina. ndi malo m’mbiri. Munthu m'modzi wongokhala kapena wopanduka atha kukhala ndi kuthekera, koma ziwerengero zazikulu zomwe zimakonda kungokhala chete kapena zopanduka zimathandizira kufotokozera zotsatira zazikulu.

Zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito kwa anthu ogwira ntchito, anthu azikhalidwe, kapena nzika zomwe zikukumana ndi maboma awo kuchokera pansi. Dera lililonse litha kugawana zomwe amakonda, zizolowezi, kapena zikhulupiriro zomwe zimawapangitsa kukhala ogonjera, ndipo, ngati ndi choncho, ndi momwe dziko lawo lingadzisungire lokha komanso momwe anthu ake alili. Kapenanso, dera lirilonse likhoza kugawana zomwe akufuna, zizolowezi, kapena zikhulupiriro zochokera kumitundu yosiyanasiyana zomwe iwo angakhale nazo, zomwe zimawapangitsa kutsutsa malire omwe alipo. Ndipo zimenezinso zingakhale zofunika kwambiri pakuyesetsa kusintha anthu. Momwemonso, mwachitsanzo, anthu ena atha kukhala okwatiwa ndi ulamuliro wosankhana amuna kapena akazi anzawo, okonda kusankhana mitundu, kapena kusankhana mitundu ndipo kupitiriza kwake, kukhudzanso zotsatira zazikulu.

Lingaliro la zonsezi ndi losavuta koma lofunika.

Mayi m'modzi, Mkatolika m'modzi, mwiniwake m'modzi, wantchito m'modzi, wosankhidwa m'modzi adzakhala ndi zokonda zambiri, zizolowezi, ndi zikhulupiriro zomwe zimakhala zosiyana ndi kuphatikiza kwake kwa zochitika zaumwini. Koma aliyense adzakhalanso ndi zokonda, zizolowezi, ndi zikhulupiriro zambiri zofanana ndi amayi ena, Akatolika, eni ake, antchito, kapena osankhidwa, chifukwa chogawana maudindo omwe anthu ena amakhalanso nawo chifukwa cha zomwe amagawana nawo. ndi kwa anthu ena.

Zokonda za munthu aliyense, zizolowezi zake, ndi zikhulupiriro zake - zomwe titha kuzitcha kuti chidziwitso cha munthu - zitha kubwera kuchokera kuzinthu zosiyanasiyana zakumaloko komanso zamunthu. Zochitika zapadera ndipo zimatha kukhala zofunika kwambiri paubwenzi wamunthu wina ndi mnzake kapena wachibale. Koma tikamaganizira za anthu, tiyenera kudziwa ngati gulu lalikulu la anthu limagawana zomwe amakonda, zizolowezi, kapena zikhulupiriro. Ngati atero, titha kukhala otsimikiza kuti zomwe zimagawidwa zidzakhala ndi chiyambi chofanana pamaudindo ofanana m'mabungwe a anthu chifukwa ngakhale zitakhala kuti zochitika zoyambilira zomwe zidayambitsa malingaliro omwe adagawana zidakhala zaumwini kapena zapadera, kufalikira kwawo pambuyo pake kudzakhala koyenera. zambiri pamikhalidwe yogawana ndi zenizeni.

Chidziwitso chogawana kwambiri chimayamba makamaka chifukwa cha anthu omwe amagawana maudindo ofanana m'mabungwe ena kapena m'mabungwe ogwirizana, kotero kuti ngakhale malingaliro atayamba kuwonekera mwa anthu ochepa, kapena m'modzi yekha, anthu ambiri m'kupita kwanthawi amakhala ndi malingaliro omwe maudindo ofanana amakakamiza kapena kuthandizira, kapena mwina chifukwa chokana maudindo omwewo.

Ganizirani chitsanzo ichi cha anthu omwe adadzipezera okha chowonadi chofunikira, chomwe chinakonza zomwe adawona kale. Chakumapeto kwa zaka za m'ma 1960 ku US komanso m'mayiko ena ambiri, kunali chipwirikiti komanso kusagwirizana. Nkhani imeneyi inachititsa kuti anthu ambiri ayambe kulankhulana ndi anzawo m’njira zazikulu kuposa masiku onse. Chinthu chimodzi chimene chinachitika chinali chakuti amayi - nthawi zambiri amayi apakhomo - amasonkhana pamodzi ndi anzawo kuti akambirane payekha, makamaka akuyenda m'chipindamo ndikufotokozera nkhani zawo (izi zinali ngati ntchito yatsopano, mu "bungwe" latsopano, kufotokoza moyo wa amayi. kuyenda). Chinachake chochititsa chidwi kwambiri chinachitika.

Mzimayi wina anganene zomwe adakumana nazo pakutsutsidwa, nkhanza, kugwiriridwa, kunyalanyazidwa ndikuponderezedwa pazokambirana komanso kunyozedwa ndi kukanidwa kuthekera kwawo, kapena kugwira ntchito zochuluka modabwitsa, nthawi yayitali - komanso m'malingaliro a wochitira umboni - ndithu. nkhani yake ya momwe adafikira pomwe adachepera. Nthawi zambiri, wochitira umboni amadziimba mlandu kapena kumenyedwa kwinakwake kapena mwamuna wachiwawa, abambo, amalume, mnansi, kapena zonse zomwe zili pamwambapa.

Koma ndiye mkazi wotsatira atakhala pabwalo pabalaza kapena khitchini angafotokoze zomwe adakumana nazo zofananira. Mayina anasintha. Zambiri zasintha. Koma chenicheni chinali chimodzimodzi.

Ndiyeno wotsatira ankanena, ndi wotsatira. Ndipo muzochitika zodziwika bwino izi zinabadwa - poyamba kwa amayi ochepa, ndipo kenako kwa ena ambiri - kukwiyira kwachikazi pazotsatira zomwe zinadziwika bwino kuti sizinali zolakwa zawo, osati chifukwa cha mwamuna wina woperewera, koma zotsatira za chikhalidwe cha anthu - mabanja awo, kukulira kwawo, sukulu zawo, mipingo yawo, chuma chawo - zonse zomwe zimakonzekera kuganiza ndi kulimbikitsa kugonjera kwa akazi ndi kusasamala, ndi amuna omwe amapindula. Iwo anayamba kuona, kudzera m'maso mwa wina ndi mzake, maudindo amtundu uliwonse, osati zochitika zapadera zaumwini, kupanga zovuta zawo. Sikunali kuperewera kwaumwini komwe kunapangitsa kuti munthu alephere, chinali chikakamizo cha mabungwe.

Zomwe zidatuluka paziwonetsero zosavutazi ndikuti mabungwe ndi ofunikira pazifukwa ziwiri zazikulu zamagulu:

1. Mabungwe amathandizira zina, ndikuchepetsa zina, mosiyana kwa anthu omwe ali ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana. Ngati ndinu mayi, bambo, mwana, mwana wamkazi, wansembe, rabbi, parishioner, Katolika, Myuda, kapena Asilamu, wakuda, woyera, latino, wogwira ntchito, manejala, injiniya, mwini, nzika, meya, woweruza, kapena pulezidenti - zosangalatsa zanu ndipo zowawa zidzasiyana kwambiri chifukwa cha maudindo omwe mumakhala nawo m'magulu a anthu.
2. Mabungwe amapereka zomwe amakonda, zizolowezi, ndi zikhulupiriro zofanana kwa anthu omwe amagwira ntchito zofanana. Chifukwa chake kutengera ngati muli ndi, mumawongolera, kapena mumagwira ntchito nthawi zonse mumakampani kapena kampani inayake, muli ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana, zosankha, zofunika, zopindulitsa ndi zotayika, zomwe zimakhala ndi zotsatirapo pa moyo wanu wonse. Ndipo zomwezo zimagwiranso ntchito kutengera udindo wanu m'banja, ndale, ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu.

Zomwe zidatulukanso pazomwe zili pamwambazi ndikuti anthu ndi ofunikira pazifukwa ziwiri zazikulu zamagulu:

1. Anthu amayimira chifukwa chake mabungwe alipo, zolinga zawo, ndi njira zawo. Anthu ndi omwe amanyamula zotsatira za mabungwe, komanso omwe amapanga mabungwe.
2. Anthu amatha kuchitapo kanthu ndi kukhala ndi pakati ndikupanga, osati mogwirizana ndi maudindo omwe ali nawo, komanso motsutsana ndi maudindowo. Ngakhale munthu m'modzi atha kukhala woyamba kufika pamalingaliro kapena malingaliro atsopano, mavumbulutsidwe aumwini amatha kukhala malingaliro ogawana omwe, nawonso, amalimbikitsa kugawana nawo.

Mabungwe Oweruza

“Kodi n’zodabwitsa kuti ndende zimafanana ndi mafakitale, masukulu, nyumba za asilikali, zipatala, zimene zonse zimafanana ndi ndende?”
- Michel Foucault

Tikukhala m’gulu la anthu. Kodi tiyenera kuganiza chiyani za izo?

Izi zimatengera zomwe timayamikira. Zirizonse zomwe timakonda, njira yoweruzira anthu athu ndikufunsa ngati mabungwe ake - ndi zikhumbo zomwe amaika pa zizolowezi zathu, mphamvu zathu, ndi zokonda zathu kudzera mu maudindo awo - kupititsa patsogolo, kulepheretsa, kapena kuthetsa chiyembekezo chilichonse chomwe timakondwera nacho. anakumana.

Mwachitsanzo, tiyerekeze kuti timayamikira kuti anthu amatulutsa zinthu zimene angathe kuchita, kapena kuti zimene anthu ambiri angakwanitse kuchita zimapita kwa anthu ochepa, kapenanso kuti zimene anthu onse angachite, kapenanso zotsatira zina zokhudza anthu.

Kapena tiyerekeze kuti timayamikira amuna olamulira akazi mwakuthupi, m'magulu, m'maganizo. Kapena kuti timanyansidwa ndi zotsatira zake. Kapena timaganiza kuti gulu lina lachikhalidwe liyenera kupindula kwambiri powonongera ena. Kapena timanyansidwa ndi chiyembekezo choterocho. Kapena tikuona kuti anthu onse, osati anthu ochepa okha, akuyenera kukhala ndi chikoka pakupanga zisankho kapena asakhale ndi chikoka pakupanga zisankho pamalamulo ndi malamulo, komanso kuti malangizowo apindule onse, kapena ochepa okha. Kapena timakonda nkhondo ndi ulamuliro wa madera ena, kapena timakonda mtendere ndi kuthandizana. Kapena timaganiza kuti chilengedwe ndi dziwe lopanda malire, kapena ndi chuma chochepa chomwe tiyenera kuchiteteza ndikuchigwiritsa ntchito mosamala.

Zachidziwikire, titha kupitiliza kundandalika zokonda zosiyanasiyana zamagulu osiyanasiyana a moyo. Mfundo yake ndi yakuti, tikangokhazikitsa mfundo zathuzathu pamakhala funso lakuti: kodi mabungwe a anthu ndi umunthu wa anthu ndi zimene amakonda kwambiri, zimalepheretsa, kapena zimafafaniza kuthekera kulikonse kwa mfundo zimene timafuna kuti zikwaniritsidwe?

Kuwunika kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu ndikosavuta komanso sikusiyana ndi malingaliro akulu kuposa kuyesa china chilichonse chomwe tingaweruze. Kodi makhalidwe a anthu akugwirizana ndi zimene timakondera? Kapena mikhalidwe yake imasemphana ndi zomwe timakonda? Ngati zili zogwirizana, zabwino kwambiri. Ngati aphwanya, ndiye kuti tiyenera kusintha.

Mawuwo

"Ngati mukufuna kufotokoza chowonadi, siyani kukongola kwa telala."
- Albert Einstein

Kodi ndale, chuma, ubale, ndi chikhalidwe ndi chiyani munjira yomwe ikubwerayi?

Chilichonse cha zimenezi ndi mbali imodzi chabe ya chitaganya chocholoŵana. Komabe, chilichonse mwa izi ndi mtundu wa kachitidwe kayekha, mkati mwa anthu. M’lingaliro lina lililonse lili ngati chiwalo chamoyo mwa munthu. Palibe mtima, mapapo, impso, mkono kapena diso zomwe zimakhalapo pokhapokha ngati zikugwirizana ndi munthu wina aliyense - komabe chilichonse mwa ziwalozi chitha kuganiziridwanso ngati njira yokhayokha.

Mawu akuti ndale, chuma, ubale, ndi chikhalidwe ali ndi dzina la ntchito zina zomwe tazipeza. Amakhalanso, nthawi imodzi, dzina la "mabungwe" a anthu, onse ophatikizidwa, koma aliyense amawonekeranso ngati gulu lodziwika bwino la mabungwe kuti akwaniritse chimodzi mwazinthu zinayi zotha kusinthika. Kuwonedwa ngati zigawo zikuluzikulu, mabungwe ena m'mbali zonse zinayi za moyo wa anthu ndizofunika kwambiri kuposa ena.

Mabungwe omwe ali m'magulu anayi onse omwe amatengedwa pamodzi m'magulu anayi a chikhalidwe cha anthu amapanga mtundu wa malire a maudindo omwe alipo omwe ali ndi zotsatira zosiyana siyana zomwe anthu sangachitire mwina koma kugwirizana nazo.

Choncho, monga anthu m'dera lathu, timakwaniritsa udindo wa anthu kapena ayi, nthawi zina mwakufuna, nthawi zina popanda njira ina iliyonse kupatula kuchotsedwa m'mayanjano athu ngati tasankha kuchita zofuna zathu.

Ndipo ndife ndani?

Aliyense payekhapayekha, ndife anthu apadera opuma, omvera, oganiza, okhala ndi zokonda zovuta komanso zosiyanasiyana, zizolowezi, ndi zikhulupiriro, ngakhale zonse zomangidwa pamitundu yofananira.

Komabe, tikayang'ana patali, tonse timagawana maudindo osiyanasiyana ndi anthu ena ambiri. Nthawi zambiri kufanana kumeneku ndi ena kumatipangitsa kugawana zomwe timakonda, zizolowezi, ndi zikhulupiriro zomwe zimagwirizanitsidwa ndi gulu, zonse zimatengera momwe timakhalira, jenda, zokonda zakugonana, zaka, mtundu, chipembedzo, dziko, fuko, kalasi - monga mwiniwake, woyang'anira, kapena wogwira ntchito - ndi kukhala kwathu nzika kapena akuluakulu aboma amitundu yosiyanasiyana mu ndale zosiyanasiyana.

Ndipo gulu ndi chiyani?

M'malingaliro omwe tikufotokozera pang'onopang'ono gulu la anthu ndi kuphatikiza kolemera komanso kosiyanasiyana kwa "malo a anthu," omwe ndi ife ndi chidziwitso chathu, mphamvu zathu, ndi zolinga zathu, kuphatikiza "malire a mabungwe," omwe ndi maudindo omwe tiyenera kukwaniritsa. kapena kupewa ngati njira yopezera zolinga zosiyanasiyana pagulu. Kutengera motere anthu ali ngati chithunzi chodabwitsa chomwe gawo lililonse lamitundumitundu limakhudza komanso kufotokozera mbali zonse zamitundumitundu.

Koma titha kuwonanso anthu ngati magawo ake anayi a moyo wa anthu, monga momwe tikuoneranso kuti pali mzere wosavuta komanso wosinthika wa malire pakati pa ubale, chikhalidwe, chuma, ndi ndale komanso kuti aliyense ali ndi mabungwe ndi anthu - komanso monga ife. amawonanso kuti anthu onse akukhala, ndithudi, m'malo achilengedwe komanso kugwirizana ndi, kukwapula, kapena kulandidwa ndi mwinanso kuphulitsa mabomba kapena kuphulitsidwa ndi madera ena.

Kodi timaweruza bwanji anthu?

Timasankha pamitundu yotakata ya zotulukapo ndi maubale omwe timafuna ndikuyamikira, ndiyeno timafunsa kuti: Kodi maziko a anthu ndi malire a mabungwe, kapena maziko ndi malire m'magulu ake onse, amapititsa patsogolo zomwe amakonda kapena kuziphwanya?

Pakadali pano, tafika pamalingaliro ongoyeserera komanso okhazikika amomwe tingamvetsetse, kuweruza, ndikupita patsogolo, kusintha anthu.

1. Anthu amasiku ano ndiwowopsa kwambiri pazokhudza anthu, ngati (in Fanfare's gawo lachiwiri) titha kukhala ndi ubale womwe ungakhale wabwino kwambiri komanso womwe ungakhale wotheka, wokhazikika, komanso wotheka, tiyenera kuyesetsa kuupeza.
2. Chifukwa cha zosowa za anthu ndi zomwe angathe, kuti akwaniritse ntchito zina zosalephereka magulu onse ayenera kukhala ndi magawo anayi a chikhalidwe cha anthu - chuma, ndale, ubale, ndi chikhalidwe - komanso zochitika ziwiri zophatikizana - chilengedwe ndi maubwenzi a mayiko. Kumvetsetsa gulu linalake kumatanthauza kumvetsetsa mbali zisanu ndi imodzizi padera komanso momwe zimakhalira.
3. Kukwaniritsa kufotokozera za chikhalidwe cha anthu nthawi zambiri kumafuna kuchitapo kanthu pamodzi kuphatikizapo anthu omveka bwino pa ntchito ndi udindo wawo kuti athe kulola ndondomeko, kugwirizanitsa, ndi kulimbikitsa zoyesayesa za wina ndi mzake, zonsezi zimakwaniritsidwa ndi mabungwe omwe akulimbikira omwe ali ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana. Kumvetsetsa gawo lililonse kapena zinayi kumaphatikizapo, pakati pa ntchito zina, kumvetsetsa maziko ake.
4. Udindo wa chikhalidwe cha mabungwe a anthu, kutengedwa palimodzi, umapanga mtundu wa malire a chikhalidwe cha anthu, omwe anthu amakhudzana nawo pokwaniritsa (kapena kupeŵa kapena kuchotsedwa) maudindo osiyanasiyana omwe alipo, ndi momwe anthu amapezera phindu linalake ndikupirira zovuta zina.
5. Anthu amtundu, kutengedwa pamodzi, amapanga mtundu wa malo aumunthu, kuphatikizapo zomwe amakonda, zizoloŵezi, ndi zikhulupiriro zawo, kotero kuti m'magulu onse a anthu padzakhala magulu a anthu omwe, chifukwa cha mikhalidwe yogawana ndi maudindo, ali ndi zofanana. Zokonda, zizolowezi, ndi zikhulupiriro zomwe zimalola, kapena nthawi zina zokakamiza, zochita zonse zoteteza kapena kusintha mawonekedwe a anthu.
6. Anthu ndi mabungwe a anthu, ndithudi, amadalirana ndi kukhudzidwa. Mabungwe amakakamiza ndi kuumba zomwe anthu amakonda, kuthekera kwawo, ndi zizolowezi zawo. Anthu nawonso amapanga mabungwe, kuphatikiza nthawi zina kusintha kapena kuwachotsa kwathunthu. Momwemonso, bungwe lililonse ndi munthu aliyense zimakhudza ena onse ndipo tikhoza kuweruza msonkhano wonse, kaya anthu kapena mabungwe, kaya nthawi imodzi kapena onse pamodzi, malinga ndi zotsatirazo.

Poganizira zachidziwitso chophwekachi, sitepe yotsatira yomveka bwino yomvetsetsa bwino anthu ndikukonza njira zathu zomvetsetsa mbali zonse zinayi za chikhalidwe cha anthu monga maziko opitira kunena zambiri za momwe mbalizo zimagwirizanirana, komanso za kusintha ndi mbiri.

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