Ngati tipanga dziko lopanda chiwawa, zikutanthauza kuti ambirife timalankhula, kumvetsera mwatcheru ndikupeza njira zatsopano zogwirira ntchito. Izi zikhala zowona pakukonzanso mabungwe ndi mabungwe - komanso zigwira ntchito pothana ndi ziwawa. M'dziko lopanda chiwawa tidzakumana ndi ziwawa zochepa poika masamu olangidwa - kukhala m'ndende kwautali ndi chindapusa chopumira - kusiyana ndi kuchitapo kanthu mwadala kukonza zowonongeka, kukwaniritsa zosowa, kulimbikitsa kuyankha komanso kutchova juga pa lingaliro lakuti kusintha n'kotheka. Chilango chomwe chikubwera cha chilungamo chobwezeretsa, mwachidule, chikhala cholowa mu mtima wa miyoyo yathu, madera athu ndi magulu athu.
Timaphunzitsidwa zaluso ndi sayansi yobwezera zomwe nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kukonza chomwe chilungamo chobwezeretsa chilili. Ndinazindikira zaka zingapo zapitazo pamene mnzanga Cynthia Stateman adagawana nkhani yotsatirayi. Cynthia ankakondana kwambiri ndi amalume ake a John. Iye anali dokotala m’tauni yakwawo, ndipo pamene anali kukula nthaŵi zambiri ankapita naye kokayendera odwala. Iye anali sing'anga woyamba waku Africa-America mtawuniyi, ndipo adamanga chipatala chomwe chimathandiza anthu olima ndi mphero. Tsiku lina usiku, patatha zaka zambiri, Cynthia analandira foni kuchokera kwa msuweni wake akumuuza kuti amalume ake aphedwa ndi mzungu wina yemwe akufuna kuwabera kuchipatala. Wachiwembuyo adakankhira amalume ake azaka 75 kukhoma. Iye anagwa, napuma mpweya, ndipo kenako anafa mwadzidzidzi. Wakubayo anaimbira foni 911 koma kenako anaithamangira, koma inagwidwa mwamsanga. Nthawi yomweyo Cynthia ananyamuka ulendo wakunyumba kukakhala ndi banja lake.
Cynthia adalembapo za zomwe zidachitika atangofika kumeneko m'nkhani yake "Soul Force" (yofalitsidwa mu Yang'anani: Kuwona Zopanda Zachiwawa). Ali mkati mwachisoni ndi mkwiyo, banja lake linali litafunsidwa mosayembekezereka ndi woteteza boma kuti awathandize. Woyimira boma adafuna kuti aphedwe - angalowererepo kuti alimbikitse D.A. kuti apereke milandu yofanana ndi mlanduwo? Ngakhale kuti nkhanzazi zinali zowawa kwambiri, loyayo anati, kunali kutambasula kunena kuti zimene zinachitikazo ndi mlandu waukulu. Mwana wa Yohane adathamangitsa mtetezi wa anthu kunja kwa nyumba yake. Koma ena onse a m’banjamo sanalole kuti zipite. Pomwepo iwo adayamba kulimbana ndi chilungamo - chinali chiyani pankhaniyi? Kodi choyenera kuchita chinali chiyani?
Pamapeto pake, ambiri a iwo adaganiza kuti akufunika zambiri - ndipo atha kungopeza izi kuchokera kwa wolakwayo. Komabe, sanapatsidwe mwayi wofikira kwa iye. Cynthia analemba kuti: “Tinavutitsa, kunyansidwa, kuopseza ndi kuchita phokoso lambiri, maloyawo asanavomereze. Potsirizira pake, anapeza msonkhano wawo. Pamaso pawo panali mnyamata wina wazaka 19, dzina lake David, yemwe, mwa kuvomereza kwake, anali wachiwawa. Pamwamba pa izo, iye anali ndi ngongole kwa munthu wina ndipo anali ndi vuto lobwera nazo. Anali kuopsezedwa, choncho anaganiza zobera kuchipatala. Chodabwitsa n'chakuti, iye ndi banja lake ndi omwe adalandira kuwolowa manja kwa amalume ake - adalandira katemera waulere ndi chithandizo china chaumoyo kwa zaka zambiri ku likulu.
Ankaoneka kuti wamva chisoni. Ankaonekanso kuti wasiya kuchita chilichonse chimene chinachitika. Mofanana ndi bambo ake ndi achibale ake, iye akakhala zaka zambiri m’ndende.
Izi zinkawoneka ngati mapeto a nkhaniyi. Koma kenako china chake chinasintha. Paulendo wobwerera kunyumba, uku ndikuyang’ana mwana ameneyu (“Jeez, woluza chotani nanga.” “Kuyang’anizana nazo, David alibe mwaŵi wakusintha moyo wake ngati chipale chofeŵa.” “Saphunzira.” “Wachisoni.” ), msuweni wa Cynthia anayamba kulemba mndandanda wa mitu ya mabuku. Ilyo bafika ku ng’anda, balipekenye ifyebo: Davidi alesambilila ukubelenga no kukwata amabuuku yalekanalekana, ukusanshako. Autobiography ya Malcolm X. Anayenera kupeza GED yake ndipo, monga chikhalidwe cha parole, kuphunzira ntchito ndi kusunga ntchito. Kuti achite bwino, anayenera kuchita “zaka zisanu kapena khumi” za utumiki wapagulu.
Pamene adapereka malingaliro awo ku D.A., adakana. Koma banjalo linaimabe, ndipo milanduyo inachepetsedwa - ndipo zovomerezeka zawo zinaperekedwa kukhoti. David anakhala zaka zambiri m’ndende, koma sakanapita kukaphedwa.
Gawo lomaliza la nkhaniyo ndidapeza kuti silingakhulupirire pomwe Cynthia adandiuza koyamba - ndipo ndidaziwona kuti sizingachitike, patatha zaka zonsezi. Ndikadapanda kumudziwa Cynthia ndikanakayika. Koma ndi bwenzi lapamtima kotero ndiyenera kukhulupirira. Mfundo yake ndi yakuti Davide anapempha khoti kuti limulole kupita kumalirowo. Pempholo linavomerezedwa ndipo banja, modabwitsa, linamuitana kuti alowe nawo mumsewuwo ndikukhala nawo.
Anthu ambiri m’tchalitchimo munadzadza atapereka umboni wolemekeza amalume ake a Cynthia, David anaimirira. Iye anauza mpingowo kuti: “‘Munthu wabwino wafa chifukwa cha zimene ndinachita. Pepani.’ Analankhula ndi asuweni anga. ‘Iwo anapulumutsa moyo wanga. Sindinayenere zimenezo. Ndikhala m’ndende kwa nthawi yaitali, koma sindikutumizidwa kumeneko kuti ndikafere. Chimene ndikufuna kukufunsani nonse pano ndi chakuti: Kodi pali njira ina iliyonse imene mungandikhululukire ine?’” M’busayo anam’funsa kuti agwade, ndipo pang’onopang’ono mpingowo unabwera kutsogolo kudzaika manja a machiritso pa iye mwapemphero. Mmodzi ndi mmodzi, azibale ake a Cynthia anachitanso chimodzimodzi, kuphatikizapo amene anatulutsa mtetezi wa anthu m’nyumba mwake.
Ngakhale kuti Cynthia anaphunzira za kusachita chiwawa, iye ndi banja lake sanaphunzire chiphunzitso cha kubwezeretsedwa kwa chilungamo. Iwo adawunikira zinthu zake zazikulu, komabe, pamene adalimbana ndi tsoka lowawa m'njira yomwe idawatsogolera kutali ndi kubwezeranso kubwezeretsedwa. M'malo mosiya nkhaniyo m'manja mwa oweruza milandu, adafuna kuti azichitapo kanthu - kukhala ndi, kumvetsera ndi kugwirizana ndi wolakwayo; kulingalira njira zomwe angasinthire moyo wake kwinaku akumuimba mlandu; kulimbikitsa chiganizo chosintha; ndikumulandira modabwitsa m'malo amodzi opweteka kwambiri - maliro a wozunzidwayo - omwe, modabwitsa, adatsimikizira kukhala malo ochiritsira ndi kuyanjanitsa.
Chilungamo chobwezeretsa sichatsopano - ndipo sichifunika chiphunzitso chotukuka kwambiri kuti chichitike. Koma nkhani ngati za Cynthia zalimbikitsa kuwonekera kochititsa chidwi kwa chilungamo chobwezeretsa monga chinsinsi cha mtendere wabwino komanso njira yamphamvu yosinthira ndi machiritso. M'zaka makumi angapo zapitazi mfundo zake ndi njira zake zakhala zikugwiritsiridwa ntchito, kuyeretsedwa ndikugwiritsidwa ntchito.
Chilungamo chobwezeretsa chimazindikira zimenezo umbanda umapweteka aliyense: ozunzidwa, olakwa ndi anthu ammudzi. Ikufuna kukonza zinthu mwa kubweretsa mbali zonse pamodzi: kumva mawu ndi zosowa za wozunzidwa; kumva kuchokera kwa wolakwirayo - chifukwa chiyani adachita zomwe adachita ndipo ndi chiyani chomwe chidzapangitse chisankhochi kukhala chochepa m'tsogolomu? Zimawonjezera mwayi wa kubweretsanso wolakwayo m’deralo m'malo mosalidwa, kuchita manyazi komanso kukhumudwitsanso. Kwenikweni, limapereka njira ina ku mayankho achikhalidwe awiri pa umbanda: kulanga ndi kulamulira mbali imodzi kapena kulekerera ndi makolo kumbali inayo.
Kugwiritsa ntchito mabwalo amtendere (monga omwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi Utumiki wa Magazi Wamtengo Wapatali Wogwirizanitsa ku Chicago), mapulogalamu ogwirizanitsa ozunzidwa ndi olakwira, mabwalo ochezera, kapena njira zina zoyankhira, chilungamo chobwezeretsa chikuwonjezeka. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, mphamvu zake, zomwe zingatheke ndi njira zake zikufotokozedwa mowonjezereka ndi akatswiri ndi ophunzira, kuphatikizapo Ron Claasen ndi ena ku Center for Peacemaking and Conflict Studies ku Fresno Pacific University ku California ndi Ted Wachtel ku International Institute for Restorative Practices. (Wachtel amawona chilungamo chobwezeretsa ngati gawo la sayansi yayikulu yomwe amatchula machitidwe obwezeretsa kuti "amaphunzira momwe angakhazikitsire chikhalidwe cha anthu ndikukwaniritsa chikhalidwe cha anthu pophunzira nawo limodzi ndi kupanga zisankho.")
Maphunziro obwezeretsa chilungamo akuwonekera kwambiri mumtendere, chilungamo ndi maphunziro amikangano m'makoleji ndi mayunivesite ku United States. Koma ikuwonekeranso m'masukulu apamwamba. Chitsanzo ndi Peace and Justice Academy ku Pasadena, Calif., sukulu yasekondale yodzipereka pokonzekeretsa ophunzira kuti “ayimire chilungamo, kulimbikitsa mtendere ndi kukhudza dziko lonse.” Elaine Enns, mkhalapakati wanthaŵi yaitali, wolemba ndi wochirikiza, amaphunzitsa kalasi yapangodya ya sukuluyo mu chilungamo chobwezeretsa. Mphamvu za chilungamo chobwezeretsa zimalowa m'sukulu paliponse - kuyambira pasukulu yonse kupanga ndikusaina Pangano la Community kumayambiriro kwa chaka lomwe limakhazikitsa malangizo amomwe aphunzitsi ndi ophunzira azichitirana, mpaka maulendo okhazikika omwe sukulu imayenda. kuchita zinthu mopanda chilungamo m'maganizo ndi m'thupi. (apa ndi nkhani yogwira mtima ya zimene zinachitikira sukuluyo pa Manzanar, msasa wachibalo wa ku Japan ndi America pa Nkhondo Yadziko II.)
Chilungamo chobwezeretsa chagona pamtima pakusintha kopanda chiwawa. Timapatsidwa mwayi m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku kuti tipeze chisankho ichi (monga banja la Cynthia Stateman); kuziphunzira (monga ophunzira mbali imodzi kapena ana ku Pasadena mbali inayo); kapena kubweretsa mfundo zake ndi mphamvu zake ku zovuta zosawerengeka za kusintha kwa chikhalidwe cha anthu zomwe dziko lino likufunikira kwambiri.
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