Lulwazi oluqhelekileyo ukuba kumatheko obuzalwana kunye namatheko akhohlakeleyo kuninzi okungacacanga kunamagama nje. I-epithets yobuhlanga kunye neyesondo ininzi, kungekhona nje ukuthetha, kodwa ibonakaliswe ngokunxiba, imiqondiso, izibonakaliso, i-imeyile kunye nezithuba zeendaba zoluntu. Ukanti unyaka nonyaka olu qheliselo luyaqhubeka, ngokungathintelekiyo, lunike ingxelo malunga neenkcukacha zomvuzo kwaye emva koko uyekwa ukuba ufele kwimiqolomba yeendaba yoovimba be-Huffington Post.
UCaitlin Flanagan's ibali le-Atlantiki kwimbali yokusweleka kwendlu kafrat, ubuzalwana, kunye nenkcubeko yoburhelem kancinane, ivuselele umsindo woluntu. Uphando oluthatha unyaka wonke lugubungela phantse iinkulungwane ezimbini zokuzikhethela kobuzalwana kunye nezibetho zakutsha nje zokuhlaselwa ngokwesondo, abafundi abawa besuka kwiindawo eziphakamileyo emathekweni, kunye nezithethe ezibuhlungu zokuzalisa.
Vumela i-media mudslinging (okanye, endaweni yoko, i-Animal House-style-style fights) iqale! UMaria Konnikova wabhalela neAtlantiki kule veki malunga nonqulo lwamalungelo angamadoda amhlophe abonisa amaqela amaninzi. "Omnye wemigaqo esisiseko yengqondo yeqela," u-Konnikova ubhala, "ukuba, ukuze uchaze iqela, kufuneka uchaze kungekhona nje ukuba lenzelwe ntoni, kodwa yintoni - okanye ngubani - ngokuchaseneyo."
U-Konnikova waqala ukufumana i-psychological underpinnings yobomi be-frat, kodwa yayingu-Katie JM Baker e-Al Jazeera owayelawula ukubetha. U-Baker ubhala ukuba inqaku likaFlanagan "alijongi icala 'lobumnyama' bobomi bamaGrike: ilungelo lodidi lweziko, ubuhlanga kunye nobuhlanga." Yinyani leyo. Xa ubomi bamaGrike bubenza babonakale kumajelo eendaba phantse isoloko isenza neqela elithile elingenaluvelwano elijolise kwabasetyhini kunye namagcuntswana kulonwabo lwabo uninzi lwabamhlophe, inkoliso yamadoda oontanga (kulungile, kwaye ii-imeyile zokudlwengula kwaye ngamanye amaxesha butt-chug).
Awazi kakhulu ngembali? Qwalasela oku kukuqala kwakho komnye unyaka wocalucalulo, ubundlobongela ngokwesini ekungekho naliphi na inani lenqindi elithandabuzekayo elinokuthi libe mnyama.
1. "I-Thug Party" kwiYunivesithi yase-Arizona State
Leliphi elona xesha lokwabelana ngesondo leqela labantwana abamhlophe abanelungelo lokunxiba iijezi zebhola yomnyazi, basele ijusi emuncu kwiivatala ezigrunjiweyo, kunye neempawu zemigulukudu? Ngokwamalungu e-Tau Kappa Epsilon fraternity kwiYunivesithi yase-Arizona State eya kuba yimini ye-MLK (impendulo echanekileyo: ayinakuze). Kulo Januwari udlulileyo, abafundi bahlanganisana kwinto abayitolika njengesinxibo se-thug, bathumela imifanekiso emininzi ye-charade kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, kwaye bade benza ubuchule kunye neethegi ezifana ne- #MLKblackout kunye ne #hood kwaye bagxininise izithuba zabo ze-Instagram ngee-emoticon zevatala.
I-New York Times yabika ukuba ubuzalwana banqunyanyiswa emva kokuba abafundi abanomsindo abasebenzisana neenkokheli zamalungelo oluntu. Lo mbutho ubusele uphantsi kovavanyo emva kokuba omnye wamalungu alo erhanelwa ngokubetha umfundi ontsundu ebefunda naye ekhampasini. Abafundi be-ASU abangekabinazidanga bakwipesenti ezi-5 zabantu abamnyama.
2. Iqela elithi "USA vs Mexico" kwiYunivesithi yaseRandolph-Macon
NgoNovemba, amalungu e-Kappa Alpha fraternity enze itheko apho iindwendwe zakhuthazwa ukuba zinxibe โnjengabemi baseMexico abangekho mthethweniโ kunye neearhente zokugada umda kwiYunivesithi yaseRandolph-Macon eAshland Virginia. Abathathi-nxaxheba, ababedlala ii<em>sombreros, iindevu ezinkulu zomgunyathi, kunye nezinto zokufihla iipatroli zasemdeni, bakhuthazwa ukuba badlale umdlalo wokusela apho abafundi abanxibe njengee-arhente bazama โukubambaโ abafundi ababonisa abaphambukeli. Ngokutsho kwe-NBC Latino, isilogeni esikhokelayo salo mbutho sithi โIkhampasi yokuziphatha yamanene anamhlanje.โ
IYunivesithi yaseRandolph-Macon kuphela ngowona mzekelo wamva nje wolu hlobo lokungazithembi lweqela le-frat. IYunivesithi yaseTexas eAustin yawukhuthaza umcimbi onjalo ngoSeptemba 2012. โAlpha Tau Omega Presents Fiestauโ ipapashe ikhondo lomqobo eliqinisekileyo localulo lobuhlanga kunye neendwendwe ezixelele ukuba kuya kubakho uhlobo oluthile lwe-faux-wall phakathi kwetheko kunye neziselo ezinomxholo we-Mexican kwelinye icala kunye neziselo ezinemixholo ye-Texan kwelinye. Akukho nto ingumda malunga nokuthambekela kwabo baceba umsitho ngaphandle kokuphakamisa inkcaso. Ukuphendula uxinzelelo lwabafundi ababuleweyo base-UT, igama leqela latshintshwa ngokungenancedo laba ngu "Alpha Tau Omega Presents the Alamo" emva koko larhoxiswa ngokupheleleyo.
3. Iqela le "Asia Prime" kwiYunivesithi yaseDuke
โSijonge phambili ekubeni sibe nabahlobo bakaMi, uYu, Wena kunye no-Yo ngesizathu esithile. Ndiyabulela." Sifunde njalo isimemo sikaKappa Sigma kwitheko lakhe elithi โAsia Primeโ, elaqhubeka kwiYunivesithi yaseDuke ngoFebruwari 1, 2013. Ngokutsho kwamarhe obo โbusuku obumangalisayoโ kunye nobungqina befoto obuthunyelwe kwiiakhawunti zabafundi beendaba zoluntu, iindwendwe zinxibe iimpahla. iingubo zesilika, i-sumo wrestler paunch, izixhobo zeenwele ze-chopstick, kunye ne-parroted stereotypical accents yase-Asia. Iindaba zeNew York Daily News yanikela ingxelo yokuba ngexesha lokwenzeka kwetheko yayisele ibizwa ngokuba โbuBudlelwane bamazwe ngamazwe.โ Ngoko nangoko abafundi baqalisa ukuyibiza ngokuthi โingqumbo yobuhlanga.โ
U-Ashley Tsai, owayengumphathi we-Duke ngelo xesha, wachazela i-Duke Chronicle kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kwesiganeko, "Le yinto eqhubekayo eyenzekayo. Sifuna kwenziwe izinto ezinzulu liqumrhu labafundi neyunivesithi ukuze ingaphindi yenzeke le nto.โ Njengenxalenye yoqhankqalazo oluchasene netheko, abanye abafundi bafake imifanekiso yetheko lamaqela abo anxilileyo enxibe isinxibo. Iiflaya zazifundeka ngolu hlobo, โUkuba awucaphukanga, akuhoyangaโ yaye zaye zashenxiswa kumfanekiso oqingqiweyo wobuzalwana kwangaloo mini.
Lo mbutho uye wanqunyanyiswa okwethutyana kwiveki emva komsitho ngenxa yolu qhankqalazo kunye nolunye oluninzi. Ngosuku olungaphambi kokunqunyanyiswa, uLarry Moneta, usekela-mongameli wemicimbi yabafundi eDuke, uxelele I-Herald Sun, โIsiganeko besingacingelwanga kwaye sikhubekisa, kodwa asiqinisekanga ukuba wophule nayiphi na imithetho.โ
Ezinye iintshukumo zamva nje zocalucalulo kwiDyunivesithi yaseDuke frat-o-sphere zibandakanya itheko elithi "IiPilgrims namaNdiya" ngoDisemba 2011 kunye nesimemo ngo-Okthobha ka-2010 esibizela "zonke iziqwenga ezinokubakho" kwi-"Plan-B Pregame." Leliphi inenekazi elinethamsanqa elinokuxhathisa?
4. "I-Colonial Bros kunye ne-Nava-Hos" kwiYunivesithi yaseCalifornia Polytechnic State
Ungamchasa njani umfazi, uthuke abantu bomthonyama baseMelika, kwaye ubonise ukuvuma kwakho ukubulawa kwabantu bonke ngomsindo omnye? Yenza nje into eyenziwa nguCal Poly kwaye uphose iqela leColonial Bros kunye neNava-Hos. Kungcono noko, yiphose kuMbulelo. Itheko, elaphoswa ngamaqela amathathu, kamva lagxekwa ngumongameli weyunivesithi kwaye kwaqhutywa iqonga apho abafundi babenokuvakalisa izikhalazo zabo.
I-Cal Poly ayingowokuqala ukwenza lo mbono uqhwalelayo kuwo wonke umzimba wabafundi. Amanye amakholwane amaninzi azamile ukukhwela uloliwe ofanayo ukuya ethekweni edolophini kodwa agxothwa ngonya ngoontanga bawo. I-Harvard bros nayo yaphonsa iqela elithi "Conquista-bros kunye ne-Nava-hos" emva kwe-2010 ngokuhlonipha uSuku lweColumbus (xa umzalwana uChris wafumana iMelika waza waqhekeza i-40). Ukubuyela umva ekugqibeleni kunyanzelise ukuba axolise kuSigma Chi, umbutho oye waphosa i-bash.
Isahluko saseChicago seAlpha Delta Phi sazama ukwenza itheko ngoMeyi ka-2012, sihenda iindwendwe ngesimemo sikaFacebook ngomnxeba โwokoyisa, ukusasaza izifo, kunye nokukhobokisa abantu bomthonyama.โ Igama lepati latshintshwa ngobuso laba zii โHatsโ phambi kokuba lirhoxiswe.
5. "Iigazi kunye neCrips" Ipati eDartmouth
Ndiphelele kubazalwana noodade abadibanayo ukuze sibe nexesha elimnandi, elinothando, kodwa oko akusondeli kwinto eyenzekayo xa i-Alpha Delta fraternity kunye ne-Tri-Delta sorority yadibanisa amandla ukunyusa amandla e-antics yabo yobuhlanga. NgoJulayi 2013, la maqela mabini abafundi baseDartmouth babambe iqhaza kwitheko elithi "Igazi kunye neCrips" leyo, nakubani na ongaziyo, ibhekisela kumaqela e-LA adumileyo kunye nobundlobongela, bobabini ngokuyinhloko base-Afrika baseMelika.
Omnye umfundi owayesekhampasini "kwihlobo lesibini" kwaye wayezimase umsitho wabhala malunga nayo kwi-imeyile, ekwabelwana ngayo ne-Huffington Post: "Abantu baxubana iiyure ngelixa benxibe njengegazi okanye i-crips ngelixa besebenzisa ulwimi lobuhlanga. Emva koko yajika yaba 'yitheko leghetto' elinolwimi, intetho kunye nesinxibo sobuhlanga. Bangaphezu kwama-200 abantu abebekho kulo msitho.โ
Kusasa wonke umntu wavuka, nanko, baba ngabantu abaphakamileyo, abalungisiweyo ngokwezopolitiko beyunivesithi yabo ekumgangatho ophezulu kwakhona. Bobabini ubuzalwana kunye nobubi bavuma ukuba iqela likhohlakele kwiingxelo zezozakuzo ezenziweyo, kubonakala ngathi, ngokutshixiza kwamazinyo (i-Alpha Delta yabanga "akukho njongo imbi," ibiza lo mcimbi "njengokongamela"). Akukho manyathelo oluleko athathiweyo, nangona abalawuli baseDartmouth bathi bacinga ukuba bacinga ngokuqulunqa ezinye izikhokelo zokungaphosi amaqela ajolise kubantu abambalwa kunye nabasetyhini.
Isifundo sokuqala ngqa kwimbali? Iyaziphinda. Ngo-1998, abafundi abamhlophe baseDartmouth - imipu yobuxoki kunye ne-afros yobuxoki - benza "itheko lemigulukudu." Abafundi baqhubekile nokuqhuba uqhanqalazo emva kokuba amaqela kunye noburhalarhume obusemva komsitho bekhuphe uxolo. Abafundi abaNtsundu, baseSpanishi, baseAsia-Amerika, kunye nabeNative American basekwa ngaphantsi kweepesenti ze-25 inani leqela labafundi kwiminyaka eyi-16 eyadlulayo; ngoku elo nani malunga nama-35 ekhulwini.
6. "IiOlimpiki zebhiya" Ipati kwiYunivesithi yaseColumbia
Ngamanye amaxesha akufuneki ujonge ngasemva kwisifundo sembali; endaweni yoko, jonga kwicala lakho. IiOlimpiki zaseBusika zivaliwe, kodwa isaga yetheko likaKappa Alpha Theta "yeOlimpiki yebhiya", ebibanjwe kwimpelaveki edlulileyo e-Columbia, isaqhubeka. Ukuba eli bali lithile linesilivere enye kukuba akukho ukunqongophala inkcaso ethembekileyo koko wehla, ekubeni iqela likwazile ukukhubekisa malunga nesiqingatha seshumi elinesibini lamaqela eentlanga kunye neentlanga.
Ukuqala, abafazi abamele iqela laseMexico bafake zonke iimpawu zenkcubeko ezingacingiyo: amadevu, i-sombrero, i-maracas. IChicano Caucus yaseColumbia yakugxeka ukukhetha kukaKappa Alpha Theta kwisinxibo kwingxelo eyayisiya kwiphephandaba labafundi iSpectator, eyayifundeka ngokuyinxenye, โIsinxibo sayibetha yancinci imbali yesizwe siphela, abantu baso, neenkcubeko zaso. โฆ Igama elithi 'ulwabiwo lwenkcubeko' ayililo elixoxwa rhoqo e-Columbia, kwaye ayilonto ekulula ukuyichaza.โ
Oodade beqela lase-Ireland baye babonisa umbhalo othi โNdiphuze, ndilibhatata elilambileyoโ (kuba akukho nto ikwenza uvakalelwe ngathi yindlala enkulu), ngoxa abo babonisa iJapan babenxiba iimpahla zabantwana besikolo kunye nehachimaki.
Umbutho i-Columbia Panhellenic Association ukhuphe isiteyitimenti esilumkisa uburharha, "Siwuthatha nzulu lo mbandela kwaye sisebenza ngokuthe ngqo namalungu ombutho obandakanyekayo ukulungisa le meko." Ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, akukabikho manyathelo oluleko athathiweyo.
UHannah Gold yintatheli, umbhali oyilayo kunye nowayesakuba ngumfundi kwiSizwe. Uhlala eBrooklyn kunye neeblogi Apha nakwi-Twitter @togglecoat.
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