I-Coronado Elementary School e-Sierra Vista, e-Arizona, e-Italiya e-Italy, eTexas, i-NET Charter High School eNew Orleans, eLouisiana, kwiSikolo samaBanga aPhakamileyo saseMarshall eBenton, eKentucky, eSalvador Castro Middle School eLos Angeles, eCalifornia, kwiSikolo samaBanga aPhakamileyo i-Oxon Hill. kwiNkosana yaseGeorge County, eMaryland, kwaye ekugqibeleni ngoSuku lweValentine, iMarjory Stoneman Douglas High School eParkland, eFlorida-ezisibhozo ukudubula kwesikolo, abantu abayi-19 bafa, i-37 yenzakala kwiintsuku zokuqala ze-45 ze-2018.
Kwaye emva kokugqugqisa kwemifanekiso elusizi, izibongozo zomthandazo kunye namagqabaza angapheliyo eendaba, yintoni esiyifundileyo ngembewu yolu gonyamelo loyikekayo? Iingcali zempilo kunye nabezopolitiko abanikezi mpendulo zilula, kuphela uluhlu oludala lweengxaki: ukufikelela ngokulula kwimipu, amajelo osasazo anobundlobongela, intetho yentiyo ekwi-Intanethi, ukuba ngumzali ngokuvumela kunye nokungabikho kwabazali, ukungazi ngeempawu ezilumkisayo, inkqubo yengqondo engasebenziyo.
Kodwa kukho into engekhoyo apha. Eyona nyaniso ibalaseleyo yodubulo lwamva nje lwezikolo kukuba lwenziwa ngamakhwenkweโukuba abe ngamakhwenkwe amhlophe. Kakade ke, imizila yemfuza nebhayoloji ayenzi ukuba amakhwenkwe enze izenzo ezimanyumnyezi zogonyamelo. Ke yintoni ngenkcubeko yaseMelika etyhala kwaye icinezela amakhwenkwe ukuya kwinqanaba lokuqhekeka apho ukubulawa kwabantu abaninzi kuya kwamkeleka.
Ininzi inyaniso kwintetho yakudala, "Ubundlobongela bufana neMelika njengepayi yama-apile." Ukusukela kwimbubhiso yesizwe yasentshona ukuya kwinkohlakalo yobukhoboka kunye noJim Crow, ngeemfazwe zobukhosi kunye nongenelelo olungenakubalwa lwamazwe angaphandle, i-USA ivakalise ubungangamsha bobundlobongela obunobundlobongela. Ngokufanelekileyo izigqeba zethu zentlalo noqoqosho zikwakhuthaza ukuziphatha ndlongondlongo, ukukhuphisana kuzo zonke iinkalo zonxibelelwano loluntu. Kwaye kule nkqubo yexabiso elinobundlobongela ngokubanzi, amakhwenkwe kunye namadoda, xa kuthelekiswa nabasetyhini kunye namantombazana, baye bavuzwa ixesha elide ngokuba "banobundlobongela".
Nangona kunjalo, kwinkulungwane yamashumi amabini ananye, njengoko iiyure zokusebenza zisiya zisiba nde kwaye amaqhina osapho kunye noluntu eqhubeka ephela, ubundlongondlongo bamakhwenkwe abamhlophe bubonakala buthatha inyathelo elibi. Ekubeni lingekho igunya labazali nabazali, ulutsha oluninzi lubhenela koontanga, umculo, imifanekiso eshukumayo, umabonwakude, imidlalo yevidiyo namajelo onxibelelwano ukuze lufumane imilinganiselo, inkxaso nemizekelo. Kwaye abo baziva belahliwe ngokukodwa kwaye bexhatshaziwe babonakala besengozini yobundlobongela.
Olunye ulutsha olundlongondlongo nolukhathazekileyo lufunda indlela ugonyamelo olusebenza ngayo ngokuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo ekhaya, esikolweni nasezitratweni. Abanye bafunda kubundlobongela beendaba (ngokukodwa obujoliswe kumakhwenkwe) obonisa isicwangciso esilula nesiyimpumelelo sokufumana amandla. Nokuba zithini na iindlela, inzululwazi yezentlalo yamva nje isixelela ukuba owona msonto weemvakalelo uxhaphakileyo phakathi kwabantwana abatsalwa kubundlobongela ziimvakalelo zokuphathwa kakubi, ukungonelanga, kwaye uwedwa.
Kwinqaku lakhe leHuffPost lika-2013 elithi โKutheni Amakhwenkwe Enobundlobongela Kangaka?,โ isazi ngengqondo u-Niobe Way unikezela ngeziphumo zodliwano-ndlebe namakhwenkwe kwisithuba seminyaka engama-20, ediza ubundlobongela kunye namakhwenkwe anxulunyaniswa nomzabalazo โwomxube onetyhefu wokuzihlukanisa nabantu, ubulolo. , nezithethe zenkcubeko yobudoda.โ Ngamafutshane, ukungaphumeleli "kuba yindoda" kuluntu lwethu kukuziphatha okusemngciphekweni omkhulu. Yaye kwabaninzi, ukubonakaliswa koloyiko, intlungu, okanye ukuba sesichengeni kwalo naluphi na uhlobo sisenzo sokuthotywa esinemiphumo eyingozi. Kwiminyaka engamashumi amahlanu emva kokuvela kwentshukumo yabasetyhini bale mihla, abafana basenobunzima bokuvakalisa naziphi na iimvakalelo ngaphandle komsindo. Ngelishwa, oku kuthetha ukuba ukukhululwa kwe-ego yamadoda kudla ngokuza ngobundlobongela kunye nobundlobongela.
Ingxaki endala ngokuqinisekileyo. Kodwa kutsha nje lokudutyulwa kwezikolo, kunye nabo babuyela emva kwixesha leColumbine, kukho into entsha. Ethetha kudliwanondlebe neLiveScience emva kokudutyulwa kwezikolo ngo-2012 eSandy Hook Elementary School, isazi ngengqondo uTony Farrenkopf udwelise impatho-gadalala, ukungasebenzi kakuhle kwabazali, ukungabi naluvelwano, ukungazinzi ekuhlaleni, kunye nokuthanda imipu, ubundlobongela, nokuziphindezela njengeempawu eziphambili zembali kunye isayikholoji yabadubuli abaninzi. Amakhwenkwe angaphoswanga abulala ngokungenalusini awaqhelananga kakuhle nehlabathi eliwangqongileyo. Ngolwimi lwasekuhlaleni lwentetho yenkunkuma yasesikolweni aba bafana โbangamalahlekoโ yaye โziingqondi.โ Abakho lukhuni okanye abadumileyo okanye bezemidlalo. Ngamakhwenkwe angakwaziyo ukuba ngamakhwenkwe. Badla ngokuba ngamalolo. Abanye banxibelelana nabanye abantwana โbangaphandleโ abalahlekileyo. Kuhlala kukho umdla wokufa kunye neemovie ezinemixholo emnyama kunye nomculo. Kuthethwa ngokubulala nokuzibulala. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho ubuhlanga kunye ne-misogyny kunye nee-overtones ze-fascism. Lilonke, isazisi esibonakalisa umsindo, intlungu, ukuzikhetha kunye nomnqweno wokuziphindezela.
Ngokucacileyo la makhwenkwe, abantwana abafana noNikolas Cruz eParkland, eFlorida, kunye no-Eric Harris waseColumbine kunye noDylan Klebold, abanembali yabo kunye neentsapho zabo zihambelana nokungunda kwekliniki, zizinto ezonakalisiweyo. Ubuntu babo bubhidekile kwaye bubhidekile ngeendlela ezenza ukuba bangakwazi ukudlula kumasiko aqhelekileyo okuhlalisana kwesini sabo. Sekunjalo, azikho iziphazamiso. Imvelaphi eyoyikisayo yokunyuka kweMelika ekudutyulweni kwezikolo kukuba inkcubeko yethu ibonakala ivelisa ngakumbi nangakumbi amakhwenkwe aphazamisayo, anobundlongondlongo.
Nangona amanani-nkcazo anokubonisa kuphela ubunzulu bengxaki, uphando lwakutsha nje olwenziwa liSebe lezeMpilo kunye neeNkonzo zoLuntu kufuneka loyike. Ngokoqikelelo lukarhulumente ngo-2016, phantse i-40% yolutsha olufikisayo phakathi kweminyaka eyi-13 kunye ne-17 inemiba enzulu yokuziphatha kunye neemvakalelo kwaye malunga nesibini kwisithathu saba bantu bancinci abafumani naluphi na uhlobo loncedo.
Kakade ke, asingabo bonke aba bantwana babulala abantu abaninzi. Kodwa amanani obundlobongela bolutsha abonisa inqanaba eliphazamisayo logonyamelo lwemihla ngemihla. INgxowa-mali yoKhuselo lwaBantwana inika ingxelo yokuba abantwana abasi-8 abangaphantsi kweminyaka engama-20 babulawa mihla le njengoko abanye abantwana abali-18 bebanjelwe ulwaphulo-mthetho olunobundlobongela. Ngokumalunga nezikolo zethu kunye neeyunivesithi, u-Amanda Erikson, ebhala kwi-Washington Post ekuqaleni kwale nyanga, uphawula ukuba kwiminyaka esuka kwi-2000 ukuya kwi-2018, ukudubula kwe-188 kwenzeka kwiikhampasi zezikolo kunye neeyunivesithi e-United States.
Emva kokudubula kweParkland, eFlorida, amanani anjalo aphinda aphakamise imibuzo kunye neengxoxo malunga neziphene kwinkqubo yobulungisa bolwaphulo-mthetho, ukulawula imipu, kunye neenkonzo zempilo yengqondo ezingonelanga. Amagosa ezikolo kulo lonke ilizwe aphinda athethe ngamanyathelo amatsha okhuseleko: ii-detectors zentsimbi, iikhamera zokucupha ngaphezulu, ukwanda kwamapolisa ekhampasini, ukubeka iliso kusetyenziso lwabafundi kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, uphuhliso lweeprofayili zengqondo zabafundi.
Kodwa ingcambu enye ebalulekileyo yokudutyulwa kwezikolo kunye nobundlobongela bolutsha ihlala ingahoywa. Kwilizwe elinemipu ezigidi ezingama-300 kuquka izixhobo ezizenzekelayo ezenzelwe ukubulala abantu abaninzi ngokukhawuleza, ukufikelela ngokulula kwezona ndlela zibulalayo zokubulala, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngowona mqobo usisiseko kukhuseleko lwesikolo. Kodwa iingxoxo eziphathelele ugonyamelo lwemipu nokugetyengwa kwabantu abaninzi ngokuqhelekileyo ziyayiphikisa into ecacileyoโphantse lonke ulwaphulo-mthetho olunogonyamelo kwibutho lethu lwenziwa ngamadoda. Amantombazana kunye nabasetyhini banemiba yempilo yengqondo kunye nokufikelela kwimipu. Nangona kunjalo, iSebe lezoBulungisa lase-US lichaza ukuba akukho ngaphantsi kwe-90% yokubulala e-United States eyenziwa ngamadoda kwaye abenzi be-98% yokudubula okukhulu ngamadoda. Iqela labameli bolawulo lwemipu, i-Everytown for Gun Safety likwanika ingxelo yokuba kwi-57% yokudubula kwabantu abaninzi phakathi ko-2009 no-2015, amaxhoba odubulo aquka iqabane, owayesakuba ngumlingane, okanye elinye ilungu losapho. Ngaba oku kusixelela okuthile malunga nobuzali bethu, izikolo, uluntu, iindawo esisebenza kuzo kunye namajelo eendaba? Ukuba sibeka nayiphi na into kwingcamango eyaziwayo yokuba kuthatha ilali yonke ukukhulisa umntwana, ngoko sinokuqala ukuqonda ukuba kukho into engalunganga ngendlela inkcubeko yethu ekhulisa ngayo amakhwenkwe.
Ewe sifuna ulawulo lwemipu. Kodwa ubukhulu becala siyayifuna ukuba isikhusele kuhlaselo lwezixhobo lwamakhwenkwe namadoda. Nangona kunjalo, nangoku, ngemifanekiso yabantwana abakhalayo kunye nabazali abothukileyo emitsha emehlweni ethu, imbalwa ibonakala igxile kubundlobongela obuqhelekileyo bamadoda. Ke imigca phakathi kwamaxhoba kunye namaxhoba iyaqhubeka ukuba luzizi. Kwaye ungabheja, kukho ukubulawa kwabantu okuninzi okuzayo.
USandy Carter ngumbhali ozimeleyo, utitshala odla umhlala-phantsi kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo kunye nomcebisi wezempilo yengqondo owafundisa kwaye wacebisa ulutsha olusemngciphekweni ngaphezulu kweminyaka engama-20. Ubhale ngomculo, ezopolitiko, kunye nenkcubeko edumileyo kwiimagazini ezahlukeneyo kunye namaphephandaba kubandakanya iSan Francisco Chronicle, iZ Magazine, kunye noxinzelelo.
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