Andizange ndicinge ukuba lo iya kuba ngumsebenzi wam wobomi. Kodwa ukubhala kunye nokuthetha malunga nonxibelelwano phakathi kobundlobongela basekhaya kunye nokuthandana kunye nokudutyulwa kwabantu abaninzi kuye kwaba yinto engenangqondo kwaye egula rhoqo ebomini bam. Nako sisiya kwakhona.
Ukubulawa kwabantu abaninzi kwiSikolo samaBanga aPhakamileyo iMarjorie Stoneman Douglas eParkland, eFlorida, kwimizuzu nje engama-20 ukusuka apho ndihlala khona, sesinye isikhumbuzo esoyikekayo sokusilela kweUnited States ukwenza okulungileyo ngabantwana bethu. Sibanyanzela ngokwasemthethweni ukuba baye esikolweni kodwa kubonakala ngathi asikwazi ukubagcina bekhuselekile xa bekhona. Nangona ukujongana nemipu, impilo yengqondo, kunye nokhuseleko lwesikolo kubalulekile, enye into endingazange ndiyibone ikhuthazwa kukubaluleka kokufundisa abantu abatsha malunga nobundlobongela abathandana kunye nobudlelwane obunempilo. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko kuqhelekile ukuba njalo, lo mdubuli wesikolo wayexhaphaza intombi yakhe yangaphambili kunye nomama wakhe, iflegi enkulu ebomvu yokuba ugonyamelo olungakumbi luyeza.
U-Nikolas Cruz kuthiwa uxhaphaze intombi yakhe, kwaye xa wahlukana naye waza waqala ukuthandana nomnye umntu wamhlasela ngokomzimba umfana wakhe omtsha waza wamsongela kwi-Instagram ukumbulala. U-Cruz uthumele ifoto yengqokelela yemipu yakhe kwaye wabhala, “Wena ubambe i-cunt ye-ex yam. "Ndiza kukubulala ... ndiza kubukela i-ypu yopha [Sic].” Iingxelo zamapolisa zikwabonisa ukuba u-Cruz uxhaphaze umama wakhe ongasekhoyo, embetha ngenxalenye yesicoci kwaye embiza ngokuba “yinjakazi engenamsebenzi.” Nangona engazange abanjwe okanye atyholwe ngalo naliphi na ityala, amapolisa aphendule iminxeba engama-36 kwikhaya losapho lwakhe phakathi kuka-2010 no-2016, ngokuxhatshazwa kwabantwana/kwabadala kunye nokuphazamiseka kwasekhaya phakathi kwezona zinto zisenzeka rhoqo. Unina waxelela amapolisa ukuba wayedla ngokuba ndlongondlongo, kangangokuba wayemgrogrisa, embiza ngamagama, embetha, egqobhoza umngxuma eludongeni, yaye esoloko ephosa izinto egumbini.
U-Cruz ukude nokuphela kokudubula kwabantu abaninzi ngokuxhaphaza kwixesha lakhe elidlulileyo. Ikhonkco licacile. Phambi kokuba abulale abantu abangama-49 kwiPulse Nightclub eOrlando, uOmar Mateen wabetha abafazi bakhe ababini. UDevin Patrick Kelley, owabulala abantu abangama-26 kwicawa yaseSutherland Springs, eTexas, wakhutshelwa ngaphandle kuMkhosi woMoya ngenxa yogonyamelo lwasekhaya, echithe unyaka kwintolongo yomkhosi ngenxa yokubetha nokukrwitsha intombi yakhe, emgrogrisa ngompu. kwaye waqhekeza ukakayi lomntwana wakhe. UStephen Paddock, owabulala abantu abangama-58 eLas Vegas, wayesaziwa ngokuthuka isithandwa sakhe esidlangalaleni. Indoda eyabulala abantu abasixhenxe kufutshane nekhampasi yase-UC Santa Barbara ngo-2014 yayijolise kwi-sorority kwaye yathi yayilwa imfazwe nabasetyhini. Le yimizekelo nje embalwa.
Ukudutyulwa kwesikolo kudla ngokulandela ukwahlukana okanye ukwaliwa liqabane elinqwenelekayo lokuthandana. Ubuncinci ukudubula kwezikolo ezili-12 kwakubandakanya abenzi bobubi abangamadoda abajolise ngokukodwa kumantombazana abohlukana nabo okanye abakhabileyo. Ezi ziquka abadubuli abadumileyo ukusuka kwi-1990s: uLuka Woodham, uMichael Carneal, u-Evan Ramsey, uMitchell Johnson no-Andrew Golden, u-Andrew Wurst, uKip Kinkel, uDylan Klebold no-Eric Harris, kunye no-TJ Solomon, phakathi kwabanye. Kwimeko nganye abafana babekhe bawagrogrisa okanye bawaphatha ngqwabalala amantombazana, ukanti abaphathi besikolo abazange bazibone iindwe ezibomvu okanye bakhethe ukuzibetha ngoyaba.
Phantse ikota enye yabasetyhini base-US baye bafumana ubundlobongela obungokwenyama ngumlingani, kwaye i-21 yepesenti yamantombazana amabanga aphakamileyo achaza ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngokwesondo kumntu ababethandana naye. Abafundi besikolo esiphakamileyo abamalunga ne-1.5 yezigidi bafumana ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni ngabalingane abathandana nabo, kwaye i-35 pesenti yabafundi bebanga le-10 baxela ukuxhatshazwa ngokwasemzimbeni okanye ngamazwi. I-CDC ifumanise ukuba olu lolona hlobo luxhaphakileyo lwenzeka lobundlobongela obufunyanwa lulutsha e-US
Ngaphandle kwale mizekelo kunye namanani-nkcazo, uphando lubonise ukuba uninzi lweenqununu zezikolo eziphakamileyo azinalwazi kakhulu malunga nobundlobongela abathandana nabo. Uphononongo olubuza malunga nomnyaka we-2016-16 lufumene ukuba i-57 ipesenti yeenqununu eziphendulayo ziye zancedisa ixhoba lobundlobongela obuthandanayo kwiminyaka emibini edlulileyo kodwa i-68 ekhulwini yathi ayinalo uqeqesho olusemthethweni malunga nendlela yokwenza oko. Ngaphantsi kwesithathu esithe ulwazi malunga nobundlobongela bokuthandana bufumaneka lula okanye bufikeleleke kubafundi, kwaye i-62 pesenti yathi ootitshala nabasebenzi abazange baqeqeshwe malunga nalo. Ngama-35 ekhulwini kuphela abathi imigaqo-nkqubo yokuthintela ubundlobongela ezikolweni zabo ijongene ngqo nobundlobongela phakathi kwabantu abathandanayo.
Ngo-2010, iFlorida yenze umthetho waseFlorida 1006.148, ofuna ukuba iibhodi zezikolo zesithili zamkele kwaye zizalisekise umgaqo-nkqubo wobundlobongela kunye nokuxhatshazwa kunye nokubonelela ngoqeqesho kootitshala, i-faculty, abasebenzi kunye nabalawuli kunye nokubandakanya isihloko kwiikharityhulam zemfundo yezempilo ebanzi kubafundi ibanga lesi-7 ukuya kwele-12.
Andazi nokuba yayifundiswa na kwi-MSD, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba uninzi lwezikolo zaseFlorida azenzi njalo. Ndithethile namaqela amaninzi ezikolo eziphakamileyo kwaye "hayi" yimpendulo evakalayo xa ndibuza malunga nokuba bayifumene na imfundo enjalo. Mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba umthetho ubandakanya ukufundisa ngobundlobongela abathandanayo njengenxalenye yemfundo yezempilo, nto leyo engeyiyo ikhosi efunekayo kodwa yinto yokuzikhethela. Okanye, njengoko uphononongo olukhankanyiweyo lufunyenwe ngaphambili, iinqununu zilinganise ubundlobongela bokuthandana njengomba omncinci.
Ngelixa sixoxa ngento emayenziwe ukuze kungabikho bantwana baphinde bagxothwa ezikolweni zabo, nceda sicinge ngokufundisa ulutsha malunga nobundlobongela obuphakathi, ubudlelwane obunempilo, kunye nendlela yokusingatha ukwaliwa kunye nokwahlukana.
ULaura Finley, Ph.D., ufundisa kwiYunivesithi yaseBarry iSebe leSociology & Criminology kwaye udityaniswa PeaceVoice.
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