More hapasisina. Kwemakore makumi maviri neshanu, iyo magazini yainyanya kurudziro yezano rekudya uye matipi asingagoneke ekuita zvepabonde ayo aikubvumidza kuti ushandisezve iwo midzi midzi. Asi yakazivisa svondo rapfuura kuti ichamisa kuburitswa nekuda kwezvakatsanangurwa nemukuru wayo se "mamiriro ehupfumi anonetsa" uye isu tose tinoda kudaidza 'internet'.
More harisi rekutanga zita rakadaro kuvhara magonhi aro. Just17, shuga uye vamwe vazhinji vakaendawo nenzira yeRodrigues day gecko mumakore mashoma apfuura. Iyo lady-media indasitiri yeindasitiri iri kushanduka zvachose - uye nazvo, manyorero atinoita nekutaura pamusoro pechiitiko chevakadzi ari kuchinjawo.
Maitiro ekuparara kweiyi zita risinganzwisisike-inodiwa zvakasanganiswa. Chikwata cheVagenda, cheparamende iyi, chakarwiswa nekuda kwekupemberera kupera kwe More pa Twitter feed yavo. Rhiannon naHolly, vane chinangwa chavo nderekupikisa kunyangadzwa kwevakadzi vakarongwa, vanoita mari mumamagazini e'women's', vakapomerwa mhosva yekutadza kunzwira tsitsi vatori venhau vakarasikirwa nemabasa. Vakazodzora tweet uye vakakumbira ruregerero kune chero mhosva yakonzeresa - asi nyaya dzakasimudzwa, mupfungwa, dzakati kuoma kupfuura izvozvo. Kurasikirwa nemabasa nguva dzose kunosiririsa, asi zvinoreva here kuti tinofanira kuchema basa rose rakarasika pasina kumwe kutaura, kunyangwe muindasitiri iri kuita chepfu?
Sevanyori nevatapi venhau, kunyange kupfuura mamwe mabasa ekugadzira, kunzwisisa kwedu kwekodzero dzevashandi kunofanira kunge kwakanyatsomira - nokuti tiri kuita zvekugadzirwa kwetsika, uye dzimwe nguva kugadzirwa kwetsika kunogona kukuvadza, uye tinozviziva. Zvakangofanana nenhaurirano dzakasimba dzinouya mumapoka evaratidziri pose apo mapurisa anoramwa mabasa. Basa rose rakakodzera kurwira here? Zvakadini kana vanhu vanoshanda mumabasa aya vachibhadharwa kuti vatsigire masimba ehurumende uye vatore vechidiki, varombo, vatema nevaratidziri? Tichanyatsomira pamutsetse wepikicha nemapurisa apo iwo mapurisa mamwe chete angave achipwanya mapikicha edu zuva rinotevera?
Kana More, zvakatonyanya kuoma. Vatori venhau vanogadzira zvepabonde zvakagadzirirwa kutengesa zvigadzirwa zvevakadzi zvavasingade kugadzirisa kusakwana kwemuviri zvavasina vari kuita nzira yekubiridzira yekugadzira muripo, chokwadi. Asi vanyori vanogara vari panjodzi yekuburitsa zvakashata kana isu tine maboss akaipa, kana tine vapepeti nemaneja vanotibira, kana kutikurudzira kuti tizvishandise isu pachedu.
Nyaya dzebasa nevarume dzinopindirana munhau kupfuura mamwe maindasitiri mazhinji, uye mubhadharo nekumiririra haangori matambudziko asingaperi mukutora nhau kwevakadzi - zvinoshandura chimiro chayo. Vanoreva kuti kuti tiwane chouviri, vatori venhau vechikadzi vanogona kuzviwana tamanikidzwa kupinda chaizvo murudzi rwekubiridzira kwetsika dzetsika dzatinonyanyozvidza. Kunyangwe kana icho chatinonyanya kufunga nezvacho chiri fashoni uye kupusa, tinozozviwana isu tadzingwa nekunyora nezve izvo zvinhu. Kuedza kwedu kunopihwa mubairo nekunyomba uye nehunyanzvi ghettoisation. Kana iwe uchida kusunungura nzira dzekugadzirwa kwetsika, iwe unofanirwa kubvuma kuti hapana njodzi diki yekuti iyo nzira yekusunungurwa ichasiya vazhinji vedu tisina kana peni, kana isu tisati tatova.
Vakadzi vanoburitsa zvidimbu zvisingaperi zvekuwana 'bikini muviri' havasi mbeveve, kana kutorwa nekutaura kwakaneta, kupfuura iwe kana ini. Ndiri shamwari dzepamoyo nevakawanda vavo, uye zviri kure nebasa riri nyore: kunyangwe zvaive zvisina kuoma kunyora nezve zana rakasiyana zvishoma remipendero yezvipikiri pasina uropi hwako kunyunguduka uye kubuda munzeve dzako senge. mwaka uno oyster grey*, kwagara kune mutengo wekubhadhara maererano nekutorwa zvakakomba. Nerimwe zuva urikunyora zvemaA-line masiketi nekuti ndizvo zvauri kuda uye une gas bill raunobhadhara, mangwana wotomira kunyora maA-line masiketi zvachose, nekuti vakadzi vane hanya nehemlines. haikwanise zvakare kuziva nezve shanduko yemamiriro ekunze kana remangwana remusika wemasheya.
Makirasi uye nyaya dzechikadzi kumashure kweizvi zvave zvichitsva kwemakore. Muindasitiri yezvenhau iri kudzedzereka pasi peindaneti imwe-mbiri uye kudzikira, vakadzi ndivo vekupedzisira kuhaiwa uye vekutanga kudzingwa basa. Zvirokwazvo isu tisu vekupedzisira kukwidziridzwa kana kubhadharwa zvakaringana, sekuwanda kwehasha dzakavanzika kubva kune vezera rangu dzakandiyeuchidza nguva pfupi yadarika.
Kunze kwekunge watoshanda munhau, ungangokatyamadzwa kudzidza mihoro chaiyo inobhadharwa kune vakadzi vanonyatsozivikanwa vanoshanda munzvimbo dzechivanhu dzechirume - kunyanya kana vari vadiki, vasiri vachena, kana vese. Ndinogona kunyora vanyori vechikadzi vakati wandei vane mazita avo, kana uri muteveri webasa rangu kana Twitter feed yangu, unonyatsoziva, vari kurarama ruoko nemuromo, vachinetsekana kubhadhara rendi, vanoshungurudzwa mukushanda vasingabhadharwe nguva yakawandisa vasina tarisiro yekusimudzirwa. nemaboss anenge ari varume chete.
Mapepanhau echinyakare - tekinoroji nezvematongerwo enyika uye zvetsika, iyo ine mari yayo uye matambudziko epuratifomu izvozvi - ichiri nyika yemunhu, iri kunetsekana nechisimba chechisikwa chine makona kuti chirambe chakakodzera uye chiri kutonga. Izvozvi tisati tamboenda kunyaya dzekumiririrwa kwevakadzi, iyo iyo nhamba inotaura pachayo: muongororo ichangoburwa yemapepanhau mapfumbamwe eBritish, 78 muzana yezvinyorwa zvakanyorwa nevarume.
Magazini evakadzi haana kuipa zvachose. Dai vakadaro, zvaizova nyore kuvadzinga zvachose. Chii chinoita kuti vanyanye kumanikidza ipfungwa yekuti ivo ndekwedu, kuti vakanyorwa nevakadzi uye pasina kupindirana kwevarume.
Rimwe izwi reizvi ndere 'marara'. Tinokurudzirwa kufunga, uye kutaura pamusoro penyaya dzinonyanya kufadza vakadzi se'marara', semakuhwa akachipa uye anotyisa, pamwe chete nebasa rakavimbika remukadzi anoda kunyora kuti ararame. Naomi Wolf anonyora mukati The Beauty Beauty kuti vakadzi vanoverenga nekunyorera magazini aya vanonzwisisa kuti vari kushandiswa:
Vazhinji vatauri, seizvi Yakavanzika Ziso anotsvinyira, anoseka zvinonetsa โzvidukuโ zvemagazini evakadzi uye matauriro awo okunyora: โUtatu hwemagazini evakadzi . . . inobatanidza kuziva chatter nezve blowjobs nemadziva akadzama emanzwiro. " Vakadziwo vanotenda kuti vanopfuudza zvinhu zvakaipisisa zvengano yerunako. Vaverengi pachavo vanowanzove vasina chokwadi pamusoro pemufaro wakavhenganiswa nekufunganya kwavanopa. โNdinodzitenga,โ mumwe mukadzi muduku akandiudza kudaro, โsenzira yokuzvituka nayo. Vanondipa musanganiswa unoshamisa wetarisiro uye kutya, rudzi rwekufara kwakamutswa. . .
Isu tinobvuma kunyengedzwa uku nekuti glossies vakatiita kuti tinzwe sechikamu chehanzvadzi yakavanzika, nyika inofema yevakadzi ine zvirikuitika zvisingatariswe nevarume, uko vanyori vatisati tamboona vanonyatsoda kutipa zano nekutibatsira kuti tive ivo. isu pachedu isu tinogona kuva - vanonakidza, vakadzi vasingatyi.
Nhasi, kunyange zvakadaro, hatichafaniri kuvimba nemagazini evakadzi nokuda kwenzwisiso yakavanzika iyo inodhura zvikuru kudada kwedu kuwana. Nekuda kweinternet, hatichafanirwa kufungidzira kuti vamwe vakadzi nevasikana vangave vachifungei nezvebonde uye kugarisana zvakanaka uye nepamusoro pepamusoro kupfeka pazuva raunotora hofisi yekona yemukuru wako. Tinogona kuziva, zvakadzama, pamaforamu asingaperi, pasina kuyananisira kwakajeka kwevashambadzi nevapepeti vane ziso rimwe chete pazasi. Tinogona kuzviwana zvese, nezvimwe.**
Ehe, hazvina kuita sekunge iyo internet haina pesvedzero yekutengeserana. Izvi hazvisi zve network yakanaka, hard copy yakaipa. Kana ini ndichida kugadzira, semuenzaniso, chinyorwa chakavanzika pamadziro angu eFacebook nezvekuti ndingapinda sei mujean yangu 'yeganda' kekutanga mumwedzi, ndichafanira kuzviita padivi pebhena kushambadzira "rimwe zano rakapusa. kudumbu rakati sandararaโ, kunze kwekunge ndadhawunirodha chaiyo software yekuvharisa iwo ads. Uye handikwanise kuve nechokwadi chekuti blogger inondiyambira, mune inofema ma toni eshamwari yepamoyo, kuti ndisiye zuva rangu uye kupeta nekudya zvine sitata uye chitoyi chepabonde chekuJapan hachisi kutsigirwa nevagadziri veHitachi Magic Wand. . Nyangwe kana ariye ndinoda basa rake.
Kushamwaridzana kwepamhepo hakusi nguva dzose zvavanoita. Vanogona kuita mari sezvakangoita zvimwe zvese. Mumwe chete anofanirwa kutarisa webhusaiti yakaita seXOJane, iyo inozviisa pachayo seramangwana revakadzikadzi, kusiyana nenhau iyo vakadzi vanongogadzira uye kushandisa. XOJane iri pamusoro pekureurura kwekazevezeve, chakavanzika chakasviba, uye ndeimwe yemasaiti mazhinji akadaro anogara achibhadhara vabatsiri vayo, kana anokumbira kugutsikana mahara mukutsinhana kwekuzivisa kugutsikana kwepuratifomu, yausingakwanise kudya, uye nditende ini' ndaedza. Zvakaitika Kwandiri: Ndakavhura mwoyo wangu kunyika kuti ndichinje bhazi. Kutaura pamusoro pehupenyu hwepedyo hwevakadzi kuchagara kwakakosha, nekuti zvemunhu ndezvezvematongerwo enyika - asi semunyama, saka mune cyberpace, vezvematongerwo enyika vanomanikidzwa kuwira mumunhu kusvika pakugadziriswa uye kutengeswa nemari, uye hapana mari yakawanda ipapo. Kubva zvino tichazotaura nezvemaitiro aya seXOJanification.
Zvakadaro, network ichiri kuita izvo zvakaedza kuitwa nevekufa-muti kuvakadzi zviri nani, uye nekutendeseka zvakanyanya. Vezvenhau vemazuva ose havasati vawana uye vakaedza kuita mari, semuenzaniso, mabhunu asingaperi achienzanisa uye kugovana chiitiko chaicho chevakadzi chepabonde, simba nemhirizhonga, kana zvirongwa zvakabatanidzwa zvinounza pamwechete mifananidzo yemazamu nemazamu nematumbu. tarisa chaizvo. Hapana nzira dzakawanda dzekubira vakadzi mari kubva kuhudzvinyiriri, vezvematongerwo enyika vasina mwero, vanoshanda-veboka nevemadzinza mashoma vachitaura nezvezvinonyatsoita kuva munhukadzi kunze kwe 'chishuwo' fungidziro yemagazini-nyika, nekuti vanoshambadzira vanoramba vasingafarire. kutaura kuvanhu ivavo. Asi isu tiri kutaura nezvazvo zvakadaro, uye tiri kushandura zvinorehwa nekunyora kwemadzimai mukuita, uye vazhinji vedu, hongu, tiri kushandura mafungiro aya kuita basa rinobhadharwa.
Mabasa evanyori vechikadzi haasi kunyangarika - arikungosiyana-siyana, achiwedzera kuzvipira mumwe nemumwe sezvo network ichida zvimwe zvirimo zvisingatemerwe nezvinofungidzirwa nevapepeti kuti zvichatengeswa.*** Haisi nguva dzose inoyevedza, kana kutengesa, kana kunyange fucking girama inowirirana, kunyange zvazvo zvingava zvinhu zvose izvozvo. Asi inomanikidza, uye iri kukura gore negore nenzira iyo vekare vezvenhau stooges havasati vatombobata. Bhizinesi hombe rakazomuka kuti rive ngano dzefan Fifty Shades weGrey - asi chete mumafashoni epamusoro-soro, kutadza kunyatso kudzika kwakadzika kweHarry Potter porn maforamu uye mamwe mapurojekiti ekunyora-yepasirese ekunyora, uko mapundu anofungidzirwa ehunyanzvi hwepabonde uye ekunyora anoyangarara pamusoro petsime risingaperi repixellated. tsvina. Kana mucherechedzo chaiwo wekuenzana uri wekuti vakadzi vematarenda epakati kana anokahadzika vane mukana wakawanda wekubudirira uye basa sevarume vepakati, saka iyo internet inogona kunge yakawedzera kupfuura zvataitarisira.
Inogonawo kuva nzvimbo inotyisa kuva mukadzi. Muna 2011 ndakanyora kuti pfungwa ipfupi siketi yeinternet, pakuti kuva nemumwe kunoita kuti uve mutambo wakanaka kune chero huwandu hwekushungurudzwa kwepabonde kwakashata - asi chikamu chemhirizhonga yekudzokera shure kwakauya chaizvo nekuti internet inobvumira vakadzi kutaura. uye tidzidzise pachedu pasina kupindirana kwevarume nenzira yaisambobvira kare, uye vamwe vakomana havagoni kuzvibata. Musiyano wakajeka. Pamhepo, 33 muzana yezvinyorwa zvepfungwa zvakanyorwa nevakadzi, kusiyana ne20 muzana yeakadhindwa-akavakirwa pfungwa zvidimbu, maererano nePoynter Institute. Haisi kuenzana, asi kuvandudzwa kwe65 muzana pamuchina wakafa-muti.
Nzira dzekugadzirwa kwetsika nemagariro izvo basa neruzivo rwevakadzi zvinodzikisirwa zvinoramba zvine chepfu, asi dandemutande riri kuzunguza zvese. Hatisati tapedza, uye tingasave tapedza. Asi kunyora kwedhijitari kuri kuita kuti chembere-media indasitiri yakaoma ive isina basa, ichivhura mikana yevakadzi nevadiki kugadzira nekupesvedzera hurukuro. Chinhu chakanaka. Ndicho chimwe chezvinhu zvishoma zvinoita kuti ndive netariro kune yangu indasitiri. Uye sezvineiwo, ndicho chikonzero ndiri munyori. Kwandiri, uye kune vazhinji, vamwe vakadzi vazhinji vatori venhau, vanyori uye vaverengi, kuisirwa kweashoma antediluvian glossy mags mutengo wakakodzera kubhadhara.
*Avo imi manga makateya nzeve muchaona kuti iyi, chokwadi, imwe yemhando dzembambo dzemwaka uno, uye inotaridzika zviri pamutemo.
** Humwe humbowo hwekunyomba sei iyo internet inoita kuti mafomula echembere ataridzike anogona kuwanikwa cosmarxpolitan.tumblr.com. Mutsara wakanakisa: "Chokwadi chinokatyamadza: inogara isingaregi hondo yekirasi ichiparadza ganda RAKO?"
***Kwete kuti ndiri kugogodza vapepeti semunhu; vanoita basa rinokosha, uye mumwe wavo akashanda neni pane izvi. Asi zvakakosha kuti ticherechedze kuti mushure mekunonoka-nguva, iwo akanakisa ekumisheni edhita zvino anonzwisisa kuti kudzora zvemukati zvewebhu ibasa idzva, rine rudzi rwakasiyana rwemuverengi; kana iwe wanga uchitevera kushanduka kwe New Statesman webhusaiti mumakore matatu apfuura, uchaona zvandiri kureva.
ZNetwork inopihwa mari chete kuburikidza nerupo rwevaverengi vayo.
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