Mabhosi anovenga munyu โ mushandi wepa-union akatora basa aine chinangwa chekuronga.
Masangano mashoma ari kunyorera munyu mazuva ano, kazhinji pwere dzinonyorera mabasa anotambira mari shoma mukutengesa, kutambira vaeni, kana kuti rogistics. Asi masangano anozeza kutaura nezve salting, asingade kuzivisa manejimendi kuti vatarise mavara anofungidzirwa. Muchinyorwa chino mushandi wese achashandisa pseudonym uye mamiriro avo achave akavanzika.
Aichimbova munyu Kendra Baker anoti kuisa munyu kunopa chimwe chinhu chinodiwa nesangano revashandi: โnzvimbo yokuti vechidiki vakudziridze unyanzvi sevarongi vebasa.โ Kumukirana kwa2011 muWisconsin nebato reOccupy kwakagadzira "kuda kuziva uye kufarira nezvesangano revashandi," akadaro.
Iye zvino achironga chirongwa chekuisa munyu, anosimbisa kuti kuisa munyu kunovimbisa mubatanidzwa uchave ne "chikamu chekuronga nzvimbo yebasa, kuchengetedza huwandu hwehuuto pauriri hwechitoro uye kuona kuti mushandirapamwe uri kuisa vashandi pamberi. Vashandi vanofanirwa kunge vachitungamira pakutumira mameseji uye pazvinangwa uye kuronga zviito. "
Minyu mazuva ano inowanzova vechidiki vaive varatidziri mukoreji - rudzi rumwe chete rwevanhu vazhinji vemubatanidzwa vanotsvaga kuve varongi vevashandi.
Asi munyu watakataura nawo takaona zvakanakira kuva nechomukati.
Ronnie Stevens akafunga kuita munyu mushure mekuva mushandi. "Ndakanga ndapesana nekushungurudzika pamusoro pekushaikwa kwekuwana vashandi muchitoro," akadaro, "uye kushushikana kwakajairwa uko chero murongi ari kuedza kuonana nevanhu pakukurukurirana kwekutanga - pamwe nekuvimba.
โAsi chinhu chikuru kwandiri chaive chemukati/kunze dichotomy. Zvaigaronzwa sechienzi kwandiri kuedza kupinda ndokuudza vanhu zvokuita pamusoro penzvimbo yavo yebasa pasina kutongova nezivo yakawanda pamusoro payo pachangu.โ
Brian Smith akangoti, "Ndinoda kushanda." Asi anotiwo โzviri nyore semunhu ane zvematongerwo enyika. Vanhu vanonyanya kugamuchira pfungwa dzako paunenge uchishanda nemunhu iyeye.โ
KUSVIRA
Brittany Johnson pakutanga akaisa munyu nechinangwa chokuwana basa revashandi; mamwe masangano anoshandisa nzira iyoyo. Iye zvino, anoti, "Handingadi kushanda sevashandi. Handidi kubhadharwa kuti ndifunge imwe nzira. Mune chero chinzvimbo chevashandi unofanirwa kutevedzera chiono chemutungamiri wenyika. Izwi rako harina simba pamudonzvo. Kana wava nhengo unogona kutaura zvakawanda sezvaunoda.
"Ndinoda kunge ndiri pachinzvimbo chandiri pane kutumwa kuti ndiite mabasa akashata, ndisina nzvimbo yekudududza ndichiti izvi hazvina basa."
Stevens, zvakare, anofarira kuve โnemwero wakati werusununguko rwezvematongerwo enyika ini ndingadai ndisina semurongi wevashandi. Ndine kwaniso yekusabvumirana nemumwe munhu ari pamusoro pangu mucheni yechikafu. Kana ndikasabvumirana nazvo hazvirevi kuti ndapererwa nebasa.โ
Kubatana kwake ndekumwe kunopa munyu kuzvimiririra kupfuura vamwe. "Ndine huwandu hwekutaura munzira uye zano remafambiro ezvinhu," akadaro. "Handisi kungopa ruzivo."
Kubasa kwaJohnson kune kondirakiti yemubatanidzwa izvozvi, uye ari kufunga nezve basa rake rinotevera rekuisa munyu. Baba vake vanonyara kuti havasi kushandisa dhigirii ravo rekukoreji, akadaro. โAsi ndinonzwa zvakapesana chaizvo. Ndinonzwa kudada kuti basa rangu nderokuti 'Ndinobudisa zvokudya nepahwindo, ndinopa vatengi.'
โZviri pachena kuti ndiri kutanga matambudziko akawanda kubasa kwangu. Asi zvinonzwa zvakachena.โ
Ehe, kukwezva kukuru ndiko kunakidzwa kwekuve mukati chaimo muchiito. "Munyu uri pachinzvimbo chekutora mukana nekukurumidza," Baker akadaro, "uye ibasa guru. Ndizvo zvinokurudzira uye zvinosimbisa: zvinokurudzira vanhu kuti vatore rimwe danho, vachinzwa kuti pane chimwe chinhu chavanogona kuita. "
Achitsanangura kufora kwasabhuku kudzivirira mumwe waakambomiswa basa, Jim McCormick akati, "Ndiko kaive kekutanga kuravira kwesimba, patakaona kutya uku mumaziso avo."
URI MURONGWA
Kunyangwe mibatanidzwa mizhinji ichave ichienda kunocherechedzwa uye kondirakiti, avo vakatarisana nevashandirwi vakakura kana vanotyisa vanogona kunge vachitarisa kune vasiri vazhinji vezvitoro pasi sangano panguva ino.
Sarudzo yekushandisa munyu inogona kupenda kunaka kwemushandirapamwe-kunyangwe mamwe masangano anoda kuramba akadzora. Izvi zvinongoda kuti munyu utore mazita nekero dzekushanya kumba kubva kuvashandi, uye kutsvaga vangangove vatungamiriri.
Asi munyu wakawanda watakabvunzurudza waiti vaitarisirwa kuronga: kumisa misangano, kudzidzisa vatungamiriri, kuunganidza makadhi akasainwa evamiriri vemubatanidzwa, uye/kana kukurudzira zviito zvepabasa pamusoro pezvinonetsa.
Ainoita
Vashandi ve Union vanokupa zano rekuti ungawana sei basa. "Paunonyorera basa remubatanidzwa pane bhiriyoni remibvunzo pane iyi internet psychological questionnaire," akatsanangura Jon Isaacson. โMhinduro dzavanoda hadzisi pachena nguva dzose, sokuti 'ukaona waunoshanda naye achiba, unoita sei?'
"Mubatanidzwa waive nemhinduro zhinji uye nzira yekufungidzira dzimwe." Mubatanidzwa wakaudza Isaacson zvekupfeka uye "maitiro ekushungurudza mamaneja kusvika vandipinza basa."
Minyu yakataura kuti haina dambudziko rakawanda pakuwana mabasa avakange vanyanya kukodzera, kunyanya uko kunowanikwa nguva dzose. Johnson akati manejimendi haana kubwaira padhigirii rake rekukoreji uye mubatanidzwa wakamuudza kuti asazvivanze. Kana kuti vaaishanda navo havana kuzviona zvisinganzwisisike, tichifunga nezvemamiriro ehupfumi.
Johnson akacherekedza kuti mamaneja anowanzo kuchengetedza rusarura rwenzvimbo yebasa: semuenzaniso, maLatino madhishi, macashier matema, uye maseva machena.
Stevens akati kusarerekera kwemaneja kwakamubatsira: โSemukomana muchena aitaura zvakanaka ndaigona kuwana chero basa. Ndinokodzera muenzaniso wavo wemumwe munhu ane mutoro. "
Kubatana hakuiti chibvumirano chepamutemo nemunyu-hapana chakanyorwa kana kuti chinomanikidzirwa-asi chinovimba nechido chemunyu chepurojekiti. Imwe mubatanidzwa inoita chirongwa chakareba chekuongorora zvisati zvaitika, kunyange kutora munyu ungangove pakudzokera kuti uongorore kuzvipira.
Kana wangove pabasa, kuonana nemurongi wevashandi kunowanzoitika, kuitira nhaurirano dzehurongwa uye kuchengetedza tsika. Mamwe masangano ane misangano yenguva dzose yemunyu kubva kumabasa ane hukama.
MARI
Mubatanidzwa waIsaacson wakamupa madhora gumi nemashanu paawa panguva yaakapedza achitsvaga basa, maawa gumi nemashanu pasvondo, kwemwedzi inosvika mitatu. Chero yenguva iyoyo asina kushingairira kutsvaga basa, aibatsira pane mamwe mapurojekiti.
Imwe mubatanidzwa inopa mibairo midiki inofanirwa kubhadhara mari yakawedzerwa: gasi kumisangano, semuenzaniso. Mumwe wechitatu akabhadhara munyu, ane basa raiita maawa mashoma, $15 paawa kwemaawa masere pavhiki kuti abatsire murongi wevashandi. (Kubatanidzwa kwacho kwakanga kuchiri kushoma zvikuru pane yaunotambira.) Vakawanda havabhadhari mari kana munyu wacho wava pabasa.
Mumwe mubatanidzwa, kunyanguvezvo, wakatsigira munyu pabasa rakaderera pa$125 pavhiki. Pane imwe nguva, vose vakasarudza kusatora mari yacho. "Zvaisaita sezvisina kunaka," McCormick akadaro. โTingadai tichitora mari yakawanda kudarika mari shoma yataiunganidza. Kuti vatinoshanda navo vazvizive, vangafanana, 'Ndanga ndichipa madhora mashanu iwayo pamubhadharo wangu mwedzi woga woga; inyaya yemari.'
MIROMO AKASUKA INOnyura NGARAVA
Masangano anosimbirira kuti munyu uchengetedze chakavanzika, kwete kuburitsa munyu kune vavanoshanda navo, nekuti vanotya manejimendi achaziva. โChinhu chakaipisisa chandingafunga nezvacho ndechekuti munhu afumure mushandirapamwe usati wabuda pachena,โ akadaro Baker.
Smith akataura kuti โhaumboziva zvingaitika kubasa. Unogona kupedzisira warwa nemumwe munhu pamusoro pechero chii, anogona kutsamwa nekukubvisa mumvura. Uye chirongwa chese chekuronga chave kukanganisa. โ
Zvinobata, asi-ava vashandi pamwe chete vaungave uchikurudzira kutora njodzi. Unoda kukodzera kuvimbwa navo. Isaacson akati ari mugwara nekuchengetedza chimiro chake pasi pese nekuti "vanhu vangafunga kuti zvinoshamisa kana iwe uripo uine zvikonzero zvisiri izvo" uye nekuti "zvingave nyore kuti kambani iite chimwe chinhu pazviri."
Munyu unopembedza nzira yavo nemagumo avo akarurama. "Munhu wese ane zvakavanzika kubasa," Johnson akadaro. "Zvimwe zvacho hazvina magwaro." โNebasa riri rose unofanira kuchengeta chitarisiko,โ Baker akarangarira kudaro. โPaunoshandira makambani ekuAmerica unofanirwa kurarama hupenyu huviri, ungave uri munyu kana kwete.
โZvinogona kuita sezvisina basa kune vaunoshanda navo. Zvinogona kuita sekunge mushandirapamwe uyu wakakosha zvikuru. "
McCormick, iye zvino ave munyu pachake, akatorwa kunze kwechitoro nemunyu. Haana kupenga paakaziva "zvekukurudzira zvisiri izvo" zvewaaishanda naye, akadaro. Akangofara kuti munhu aivepo nehurongwa.
CHII CHAKOMA
Kunze kwokukangaidzika kwenguva dzose kwokurongaโvashandi pamwe chete vanonyomba, kuuraya, avo vanobudirira zvikuru munzvimbo yebasa vasingaoni kudikanwa kwechinjoโmubhadharo wakaderera chinetso chemunyu. Johnson akatora mamwe mabasa maviri enguva isina kuzara.
โNdakanga ndisingakwanisi kuita basa rakanakisisa randaida kuita somurongi nemhaka yokuti takanga tichiedza kusangana navashandi biyake kunze kwebasa,โ anoyeuka kudaro. โNdine nguva ipi yokuenda kunonwa doro ndapedza basa? Murongi wedu anoti vanhu senge munhu anounza chikafu chemunhu wese. Asi ndakanga ndisingakwanisi kuita izvozvo. Dzimwe nguva murongi aindipa mari kubva muhomwe yake kuti ndizviite.
"Asi handina kukwanisa kubhadhara mabhiri angu pamuhoro iwoyo."
Johnson akashanda kusvikira kubasa rinobhadhara zviri nani muchitoro chakeโiro roga, anodaro, ringatsigira mhuri. Isaacson anoda kuchengetedza basa rake rekutengesa uye anoona kutengesa zvine hungwaru.
Asi anowedzera kuti basa rake rekutanga remunyu, kuStarbucks, raive rakaipisisa raakambove naro - "serobhoti." Mabhosi anorevesa, kuchinja kwemakuva, kupisa uye kutonhora - pane chikonzero vabereki vako vakakuudza kuti uende kukoreji uye udzivise aya mabasa ane urombo.
Zvisinei: "Basa racho rinogona kutyisa asi kuisa salting kunonakidza," Isaacson anodaro. "Unokwanisa kudhonza makushe pameso ashefu."
Mufaro
Chinangwa chemurongi ndechekuona vaunoshanda navo vachitora danho pasina kukurudzira kwako. McCormick anotsanangura zuva apo โmapepa edu akanga ari kwose kwose muimba yokumbozorora uye yokugezera tisati tatombosvikako. Kwakanga kuri kunzwa kwakanakaโkwaishamisa!โ
Asi boka rake rakapfuurira kuzvinhu zviri nani: Rimwe zuva maneja akatumira mushandikadzi kumba nekuti, akati, akanga asiri kufambidzana nevarume. โAkauya akashanyira shamwari munzvimbo dzakasiyana uye sechikwata takabva tangosarudza, kwete, izvi hazvina kunaka. Tose takaita march zvedu pana boss. Vanhu vaivemo ndivo vaive musimboti wevanhu vakazoramwa mabasa.
Imwe nguva, chikumbiro chakaita kuti mukuru adzoke pakuchaja mari yebvunzo inodiwa nekambani.
VaStevens vaishanda navo vakakunda panguva yaJanuary's polar vortex: vakanga vachigadzirira chikumbiro chekudzikisa kutonhora munzvimbo yavo yebasa mufiriji apo kutonhora kwakapinda mukati. Sezvo hurumende yakavhara migwagwa mikuru, vashandi vakati varambe vachishanda. Asi vashandi pavakasiya michina yavo, manejimendi akabvuma, ndokuvaendesa kumba, ndokuti vatore zuva rinotevera vozorora.
Kukuisira munyu here? Pakupera kwezuva, "tinofanirwa kuwana mabasa zvakadaro," Baker akadaro. โTinoda vanhu vakawanda kuti vaite izvi. Kana tichida kuvaka bato revashandi, munofanirwa kuve nehunyanzvi hwekuti muri kushanda kupi.โ
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