Kudzai Amai neMarari muMagwagwa.Zororo rakatanga mukuratidzira; inoda kununurwa kubva mukutengeserana uye platitudes.
Gore rega rega, vanhu vanozeya kushambadzira kusina kudzika kweZuva raamai. Asi kufuratira amai vako pazororo rino dzvene hazvifungidzike. Uye kana iwe uri amai, iwe unozoshungurudzika kana vasingadi vako vakatadza kukukudza iwe kana zuva rimwe chete regore.
Zuva raAmai harina kugara rakadai. Vakadzi vakabata pamuviri paZuva raAmai vaizovhiringidzika nezviziviso zvinowanika kwose kwose zvinotinetsa kuwana “chipo chakakwana kuna Amai.” Vaizotarisira kuti vakadzi vange vachifora mumigwagwa, vasingadyi nemhuri dzavo mumaresitorendi. Izvi zvinodaro nekuti Zuva raAmai rakatanga sezororo rairangarira kurwira ruzhinji rwevakadzi, kwete semhemberero yekuzvipira kwaamai kumhuri yavo.
Nyaya inotanga muna 1858 apo muratidziri wenharaunda anonzi Anna Reeves Jarvis akaronga Mazuva eMabasa eVanaamai muWest Virginia. Chinangwa chake chaive chekuvandudza hutsanana munharaunda dzeAppalachian. Munguva yeHondo yeVanhu, Jarvis akakoshesa vakadzi kubva kumhuri dzavo kuti vatarisire vakakuvara kumativi ese. Pashure pacho akaunganidza misangano kuti anyengetedze varume kuti vasiye ruvengo rwavo.
Muna 1872, Julia Ward Howe, munyori we "Battle Hym of the Republic", akakurudzira gore negore Zuva raAmai reRunyararo. Akazvipira kupedza hondo, Howe akanyora kuti: “Varume vedu havangauyi kwatiri vachichema nokuuraya… Vanakomana vedu havazotorwi kwatiri kuti vadzidze zvose zvatakwanisa kuvadzidzisa nezvorudo, ngoni uye mwoyo murefu. Isu vakadzi veimwe nyika tichava vanyoro zvikuru kune veimwe nyika kuti tibvumire vanakomana vedu kudzidziswa kukuvadza avo”.
Kwemakore makumi matatu akatevera, vanhu vekuAmerica vakapemberera Zuva revanaamai reRunyararo musi waChikumi 30.
Vakadzi vazhinji veboka repakati muzana ramakore rechi 19 vaidavira kuti vaiva nebasa rinokosha saamai chaivo kana kuti vangangove vanaamai rokutarisira vakuvadzwa munzanga uye kuita kuti America ive nyika yakabudirira zvikuru. Vakaita basa rinotungamira mubato rekubvisa kugumisa uranda. Mumakumi emakore akatevera, vakatanga mishandirapamwe yekurwisa lynching uye kubiridzira kwevatengi uye vakarwira kuvandudzwa kwemamiriro ekushanda evakadzi nekuchengetedzwa kwevana, mabasa ehutano hweveruzhinji uye rubatsiro rwekugarisana kune varombo. Kuvaratidziri, batano pakati pokuva amai nokurwira ururami hwenzanga noupfumi hwakaratidzika kuva huri pachena.
Muna 1913, Congress yakazivisa Svondo yechipiri muna Chivabvu seZuva raamai. Kusvika panguva iyoyo, tsika dzevatengi dzaikura dzakange dzabudirira kutsanangura vakadzi sevatengi vemhuri dzavo. Vezvematongerwo enyika nevezvemabhizimisi vakagamuchira nechido pfungwa yekupemberera kuzvipira kwapachivande kwakaitwa naamai vamwe nevamwe. Sezvakataurwa neFlorists 'Ongororo, bhuku rekutengeserana reindasitiri, rakazvitaura, "Iri raive zororo raigona kushandiswa."
Indasitiri itsva yekushambadzira yakakurumidza kudzidzisa vanhu vekuAmerica nzira yekukudza vanamai vavo - nekutenga maruva.
Atsamwiswa nevaridzi vemaruva vaitengesa macarnations nemutengo wakakurisa we$1 apeice, mudhara waAnna Jarvis akatanga musasa achirwisa avo "vaizokanganisa Zuva raAmai nekukara kwavo." Asi akarwa hondo isingakundiki. Mukati memakore mashoma, iyo Florists 'Ongororo yakazivisa nerukundo kuti aive "Miss Jarvis akanyatso tsikirirwa."
Kubva ipapo, Zuva raAmai rakapinda muindasitiri yemabhiriyoni emadhora.
Vanhu vekuAmerica vanogona kuremekedza pfungwa yekuva amai uye kuda vanaamai vavo, asi kwete vanaamai vese. Vanaamai varombo, vasingashandi vanogona kunakidzwa nemaruva, asi vanodawo kutarisirwa kwevana, kudzidziswa basa, kutarisira utano, mari shoma shoma uye zororo revabereki rinobhadharwa. Vanaamai vanoshanda vanganakidzwa nekudya kwemangwanani vari panhovo, asi vanodawo rudzi rwebetsero yehurumende inopiwa nedzimwe nzanga dzose dzakabudirira.
Nekufungidzira kudiki, tinogona kudzoreredza Zuva raAmai sezororo rinopemberera kuita kwevakadzi mune zvematongerwo enyika munzanga. Mukati mema1980, mamwe mapoka orugare akaungana panzvimbo dzokuedzwa kwenyukireya paZuva raAmai achitsutsumwa nenhangemutange yezvombo. Nhasi, kutyisidzira kwedu kukuru hakusi kubva kuzvombo asi kubva mukusava nehanya kwedu nekugara zvakanaka kwevanhu uye hutano hwepasi redu. Fungidzira, kana uchikwanisa, miriyoni yegore Amai Kurume muguta guru renyika. Fungidzira Zuva raAmai rakazadzwa nemanzwi anoda kururamisira mumagariro nehupfumi uye neramangwana rakagadzikana, pane kutaura kwakazadzwa nemanzwi ane syrupy.
Vamwe vanozofunga zvinonyomba kushandura nzira yedu yazvino yekupemberera Zuva raAmai. Asi kuratidzira pachena hakuregi kutaura kwomunhu oga kworudo nokuonga. (Uye hakutadzisi vanhu kutaura kuonga kwavo gore rose.)
Vakadzi vezana ramakore regumi nepfumbamwe vakashinga kurota zuva raikudza kuratidzira kwevakadzi. Hatigoni kuita zvishoma. Tinofanira kukudza chiono chavo neruzhinji rwevanhu.
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