Kuurayana kwekupera kwesvondo rapfuura muEl Paso, Texas, uye Dayton, Ohio, kwakaunza nhamba yokupfurwa kwevanhu vakawanda mumazuva 215 okutanga egore kusvika ku251. MuUnited States of Amunition, izvozvo zvinopfuura imwe pazuva. Chii chiri kuitika? Kudimikira James Carville, "Ndihwo hurume, vanhu."
Zviri kunditsamwisa izvozvo nekuti zviri pachena ani Ko kupfura kwevezvenhau, vezvematongerwo enyika, uye mapundits havawanzo taura zvinonyanya kukosha zvehumhondi huzhinji muUS-murume wekupfura! Patrick Crusius, Texan ane makore makumi maviri nerimwe anopomerwa mhosva yekuuraya El Paso, anozviti muchena mukuru. Muurayi weDayton akaurayiwa, Connor Betts, akanga ambonyora “runyorwa rwechibharo” rwevakadzi vaaida kubata chibharo. Vese vari maposter vakomana vechepfu yehurume.
Chero tarisiro yekuti tichapedza kupenga kunofanirwa kutanga nekubvuma kuti kazhinji varume vanopfura. Kusvikira taita kuti mukadzi ave musimboti wekuedza kwedu kudzivirira kupfurwa kwevanhu vakawanda, tiri parwendo rwebenzi. Ndave ndichidzokorora meseji iyi kwemakore makumi maviri, kubva kuColumbine. Pamberi peMuti weHupenyu, Thousand Oaks, Parkland, Sutherland Springs, neLas Vegas, pakanga paine Virginia Tech, Sandy Hook, Aurora. Varume vese vanopfura; kazhinji vachena vakuru.
Ngatibvumeiwo kuti chii kwete tichiongororwa—kushamwaridzana kwatinoita nevakomana uye kuti tinopa ngwariro shoma sei varume vakasafarira. Funga nezveakasurukirwa, murume akadzingwa kuchikoro chesekondari. (Musikana waConnor Betts akaudza MSNBC kuti mhondi yeDayton "haina tsigiro.") Nekuti isu tinoziva kuti vangangove vese vanopara mhosva vakaparadzaniswa sei, kuti murume kana mukadzi haisi musimboti wenhaurirano yenyika inoratidza hupofu hwepamusoro. Kufuratira chokwadi ichi kunongowedzera ngozi.
Musandifungire zvisizvo. Wedzera mitemo yepfuti-yakaoma, zviri nani. Simudza kumanikidza kuvhara iyo NRA. Tsigira Giffords Law Center, Guns Down America, Everytown for Gun Safety, uye Brady campaign. Iva nazvo.
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Tinoda mhirizhonga munyika yose. Demand Congress inobvumidza maCenters for Disease Control (CDC) kuti adzidze maitiro atinoita vanhurume, kutanga mukireshi. Fungidzira kana kubva pazera rematatu zvichienda mberi taitevera varume kwete kungoziva vakomana vanonetseka-asi zvakare uye zvinotonyanya kukosha-kukudziridza zvirinani zvidzidzo zvekusimudzira huchenjeri hwavo hwepfungwa uye kuwedzera pfungwa yavo yekubatana. Chirongwa chekutyaira chinogona kuvhurwa chitubu chinotevera kuburikidza neMusoro Kutanga.
Ndeipi basa raigona kuitwa nevezvenhau vechokwadi? Ko a Frontlines kuferefeta pamusoro pemurume nechisimba? Kana kuti, John Oliver Last Week Tonight special. Mapepanhau ari mumaguta umo kupfurwa kwakaitika anogona kushandirapamwe kuti abudise nhevedzano yenyika yose ye“Men, Masculinity, and Mass Shooting.” Manetiweki uye nhau dzetambo dzinogona kuita zvakakosha, zvakare. Kubva pa #Neniwo kufamba kwakatanga vezvenhau vakabudirira kubatanidza madonhwe pakati pehurume hunotyisa uye kushungurudzwa pabonde. Sei mapofu akatenderedza vapfuri vakawanda?
Kwemakore ndanga ndiri chikamu che kufamba kwenyika yevarume vasingadi pabonde vanoshanda mu700 NGOs munyika 70 vakazvipira kushandura hurume. Kubva mukudzivirira mhirizhonga kuvanhukadzi nevasikana kusvika pakukurudzira hutano nekodzero dzevakadzi pakuzvara; kubva kumakwikwi ekukwikwidza aisanganisira kuva baba kusvika pakurera vakomana vane utano hwakanaka. Magazini yandinogadzirisa, Voice Male, yave ichirondedzera izvi kwemakore kwemakore.
Saka zvibvunze: sei pasina munhu anofunga nezve murume kana mukadzi kana achifunga kupfura kwevanhu vakawanda? Kana, nokuda kwechinhu ichocho, kana tichifunga kudzivirira zvakanakisisa vanhu vemavara, LGBTQIA vanhu, maMuslim nevaJudha patinorwiswa? Nekuti tinofungidzira kuti vanopara mhosva vanenge vari varume, kazhinji vachena. Dai vakadzi vanga vari vapfuri muEl Paso kana Dayton, ndizvo chete zvatingave tichitaura nezvazvo, handiti? (Ditto kana vapfuri vaive vanhu vane ruvara.)
It is hurume, vanhu. Kutaura kupfurwa kwevanhu vakawanda pasina kuita kuti murume kana mukadzi pakati pegakava kwakafanana nekutarisira chituru chine makumbo matatu kumira nemakumbo maviri. Kudenha mitemo yepfuti isina simba kana kuti isina uye kuratidza kuti matambudziko echipiri ehutano hwepfungwa haana kukwana. Tinofanira kuramba takaisa pfungwa pahurume.
Kana uchibvuma, ita zvinopfuura kungokurudzira vamiriri vaunosarudza. Blast social media; mutsai nharaunda dzenyu dzechitendero, zvikoro zvenyu. Kuda kuburitswa kwenhau, zvakare. Kukudza ndangariro dzevakapondwa, uye kunyaradza vakakuvadzwa nemhuri dzavo, ndizvo zvishoma zvatingaite.
Rob Okun ([email inodzivirirwa]), yakabatanidzwa ne PeaceVoice, mupepeti we Voice Male uye nhengo yedare rinotungamirira reNorth America MenEngage.Chinyorwa chitsva cheanthology yake, VOICE MALE: Iyo Untold Nyaya yeProfeminist Men's Movement, yakabudiswa muna 2018.
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