Wokondedwa Andrea Dworkin,
Sindikukhulupirira kuti ndakusowa zaka zonsezi! Ndangowerenga kumene Mu Magazi Athu ndipo zasintha mmene ndimaonera dziko lapansi. Mabuku ochepa chabe angachite zimenezo. Ndalama yagwa; zidutswa zingapo za jigsaw zinangogwera m'malo mwake.
Ndimakhudzidwa kwambiri ndi malingaliro angati omwe ndakhala nawo okhudzana ndi chikhalidwe cha akazi ndi kuponderezedwa kwa amayi - kuponderezedwa kwanga. Lingaliro loyamba ndiloti sindine woponderezedwa; kuti zaka zikwi zambiri za chidani ndi ukapolo wa akazi sizinandikhudze ine. Mwanjira ina ndimayenera kuti ndisiyane nazo. Koma ndakhala ndikuzindikira zinthu zina za ine ndekha.
Sindinganene bwanji pamene anthu akundikwiyitsa kuopa kuwakhumudwitsa.
Momwe m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku, sindingathe kunena zakukhosi kwanga - osasiya kuziwonetsa.
Momwe ndiyenera kukhala kazembe ndikupulumutsa malingaliro a anthu ena - zivute zitani, nthawi zambiri zimatengera kudzimva kuti ndine wofunika chifukwa ndicho chinthu chokha chomwe ndingathe kuchiwongolera.
Bwanji, pazifukwa zina, sindingayerekeze.
Momwe sindimadziwanso momwe ndikumvera.
Momwe sindimadziwa zomwe ndikufuna.
Ndili mu chifunga ndipo sindingapeze ufulu wanga pano.
Kenako ndidawerenga bukhu lanu, ndikuwonera kanema wanu mukulankhula pa Youtube, ndipo mwadzidzidzi izi siziri za ine ndekha. Palibenso china chomwe ndiyenera kutenga udindo. Palibenso chinthu chomwe ndimakhala nacho chifukwa ndimaganiza kuti ndi vuto langa - lomwe ndiyenera kudziimba mlandu.
Ndipo ndikuzindikira kuti palibe chomwe ndasiya - chifukwa ndakulira mu chikhalidwe chomwe chimapotoka motere. Ndakhala wopotoka motere ndipo palibe njira yomwe ndikanapewera. Palibe njira yomwe aliyense akanapewera - mwamuna kapena mkazi.
Ndipo palibe munthu amene wapanga izi - pali mabiliyoni. Mabiliyoni mโmbiri yonse. Onse aลตiri amuna ndi akazi amene anali opepesera amuna mwa kukana mโpangโono pomwe kuponderezedwa kwawo. Ndikadafuna kubwezera magazi ndikanalepheretsedwa nthawi yomweyo. Palibe chilungamo chamtunduwu kwa ine kapena wina aliyense.
Koma chilungamo chamtunduwu ndi chomwe chatifikitsa tonse pano. Izi ndi zachiwawa zomwe ndikunenazi. Nkhanza zomwe zili paliponse ndipo zikuchirikizidwa ndi zomwe ndidzazitcha kuti Nkhanza Yoyamba - nkhanza zomwe zidapangidwa kuti zizilamulira amayi ndipo zikadali zomwe zimalamulira amayi. Chiwawa chomwecho chimene chasokoneza ubale wa anthu ndi dziko lapansi.
Akazi anali anthu oyambirira amtundu wamba, akapolo oyambirira, oyambirira kutaya ufulu wawo, kukhala othawa kwawo opanda pokhala (ochotsedwa m'matupi awo), kuwonongedwa ndi kuthetsedwa. Anthu anganene kuti izi ndi zokokomeza koma ndimati 'zinatha' mwadala. Chifukwa gawo la ine lomwe ndi mkazi wakuthengo ndi mfulu lapita. Ndipo uku kunali kulingalira kwanga - kuti kudakali pano kwinakwake - kungobisala kuti asawoneke, okonzeka kubwereranso kudzatipulumutsa tonse. Ayi - kulingalira kumeneko ndikolakwika chifukwa chinthucho chawonongeka bwino. Yafa ndi kuwola.
Kotero palibe mathero a nthano apa. Akhwangwala okha kuzula ndi mphepo kuyamwa.
Malingaliro - kapena ndingowatcha mabodza. Mabodza owopsa ndidauzidwa kenako ndidalankhulanso ngati kuti ndi anga nthawi zonse. Pali ntchentche pa ife. Bodza lotsatira ndilokuti omwe akumenyera chilungamo cha chikhalidwe cha anthu - omwe adamenyana ndi kuponderezedwa - kapena omwe amayesetsa kuunikira kwauzimu mwanjira ina, chifukwa cha Ubwino umenewu, adathawa kupangidwa kwawo ndi kupotozedwa ndi chikhalidwe cha Chiwawa Choyamba kwa akazi. M'malo mwake, omwe akumenya nkhondo yabwino akhala akugulitsa nthawi zonse pankhani yomasula akazi.
Yang'anani pachiwonetsero chaposachedwa ku Glasgow motsutsana ndi Misonkho ya Ku Bedroom. Pamene membala wa Komiti Yotsutsana kuchokera ku Socialist Workers Party, Dave Sherry, adakwera kuti alankhule adanyozedwa ndi amayi omwe anali pagululo. Izi zili choncho chifukwa bungwe la SWP lidachita mlandu wamkati wa 'kugwiririra' ndipo adapeza kuti woimbidwa mlandu alibe mlandu wogwiririra ndipo mayi yemwe akukhudzidwayo anali wabodza. Kupatula kusakhala nkhani yaphwando koma nkhani ya apolisi yomwe chipanicho chimayenera kumuthandiza nacho - kuyankha kwa ziwonetsero zotsutsana ndi Dave Sherry kunali ndi ndemanga zotsatirazi, pakati pa ena:
'"Tatsekani", kusiya chiwonetsero cha Misonkho ya Ku Bedroom ndi "kubwerera ku chiwonetsero chanu chogwiriridwa"'.
Nkhaniyi ikufotokozanso zimene zinachitika pagulu la anthu komanso mmene adindowo anachitira. Zokwanira kunena kuti zomwe anachita potsutsa ziwonetsero za amayiwa zinali zachangu komanso zachiwawa komanso zaumwini. Iwo anaimbidwa mlandu wosokoneza anthu ku nkhani zenizeni, za kukhala apakati. Adindowo anayesa kuwakankhira kunja mwakuthupi. (Onani nkhani yonse apa: http://athousandflowers.net/2013/03/31/this-is-a-tax-demo-why-dont-you-go-back-to-your-rape-demo/).
Kuchuluka kwa chikhalidwe cha akazi kwasiyanitsidwa bwanji pamene iyenera kukhala nkhani yomwe zina zonse pakufuna kumasulidwa zimadalira. Ndani, m'mbiri yonse yolembedwa, adadzera mwa amayi ndikuthetsa Chiwawa Choyamba? Chinachake chakuya, chozama kwambiri komanso champhamvu kuposa mwayi wofanana, malamulo kapena ufulu wa amayi ukufunika. Otsutsawo sanaphwanye mazenera a mabanki kapena kutumiza zinyalala kwa ndale kapena kuzula miyoyo yawo ndi kutaya ana awo ndi nyumba zawo chifukwa cha chinthu chopanda pake komanso chopanda pake komanso chopanda kanthu - chomwe ndi ufulu wofanana kwa amayi wapangidwa. Cholowa chawo chikuyembekezera kutengedwa.
Ndipo kulephera kuthana ndi Chiwawa Choyamba - ndichifukwa chake zosintha zambiri zatembenukira ku utsogoleri wankhanza. Chifukwa chiyani ukapolo sutha kwenikweni koma umasintha mawonekedwe ndikukhala mobisa khomo loyandikana nalo. Chifukwa chiyani chilungamo chimalephereka mobwerezabwereza komanso chifukwa chake kukha magazi kumakhala kosatha. Chifukwa chiyani anthu ambiri amtunduwu amaseseredwabe ndikuphedwa. Chifukwa chiyani dziko lapansi likupitirirabe kuonongedwa ndipo tikuwoneka kuti tilibe mphamvu zoletsa. Tikulephera kuthana ndi chinthu chomwe chili chofunikira kuzinthu zina zonsezi. Ndi chinthu chomwe chikutiyang'ana pamaso pathu - ukapolo wa akazi ku dongosolo la dziko la amuna ndi kupitiriza kwa Chiwawa Choyamba chosayendetsedwa.
Andrea, mudalemba za othetsa - momwe akapolo achimuna adamasulidwa koma palibe akazi (kuphatikiza omwe adamangidwa muukwati) - momwe amuna adatsekera akazi pomwe ukapolo unathetsedwa kwa amuna. Chotero kusakhulupirika kukupitirira, nโchifukwa chake kuponderezana sikumachoka kwenikweni kwa aliyense, mwamuna kapena mkazi.
Ndipo tsopano ife tikubwera kugonana. Gawo la zonsezi lomwe pamapeto pake linakugwetsani. Onse anakupezani pa kugonana. Anati wapenga komanso wabodza pomwe umati wagwiriridwa. Mukakana kuyang'ana kumbali koma mukuwona kugwiriridwa ndikulongosola kugwiriridwa komwe mudawona ndikukuchitikirani. Munali pafupi kwambiri - koma zaka zikwizikwi za kuponderezedwa zinagwera pakati pathu ndi kugunda kwa mtima. Mpaka nditawerenga buku lanu ndikukuwonani pa Youtube, ndangowerenga kapena kumva zomwe wina wanena za inu.
Munafotokoza momwe chikondi chaulere ndi kusintha kwa kugonana m'zaka za m'ma sikisite zidasinthidwa ndikugulitsidwa ngati gawo la malonda olaula m'zaka za makumi asanu ndi awiri ndi pambuyo pake. Apanso - ndayamba kuwona china chake chokhudza kugonana.
Sindimadziwa kuti ndingakane kuvomera. Ndikuwopa chiwawa cha zaka chikwi chomwe chimayambitsa kukana. Ndimapewa kugonana chifukwa choopa kugwiriridwa ndi chiwawa. Sindingathe kuteteza thupi langa ndipo izi zawononga mphamvu ya moyo wanga ndi chifuniro changa m'zinthu zonse. Ndimakhala muzongopeka komanso malingaliro anga pomwe kugonana kwasinthidwa. Pofufuza mawonekedwe a kugonana uku kuyesa kuthetsa mantha anga opunduka a chiwawa ndinapeza malo opanda malire, opanda kanthu komwe malingaliro anga a malire ndi kudzidalira ayenera kukhala. Ndalephera bwanji ndekha. Momwemonso ndapangidwa.
Andrea - mumafotokoza momwe makampani owonera zolaula adatanthawuza ukapolo wowonjezereka wa akazi m'malo momasulidwa ndipo kachiwiri ndiyenera kuvomereza kuti ndaganiza zosiyana.
Koma ndithudi, zolaula ndi mafakitale ndipo zimachokera ku phindu pa anthu ndipo zimachokera ku gwero lomwelo lomwe limathandizira bungwe lalamulo laukwati ndi chikhalidwe cha maubwenzi - kupereka ndi kulandira akazi ndi chilolezo kapena kutenga akazi popanda chilolezo. Malamulo athu samanyalanyaza ufulu wa amayi pomwe amadziyimira okha koma amangoyang'ana ngati atengedwa kapena kuperekedwa kwa amuna. Izi ndizomwe ndimamva ngati iwe Andrea, umanena za chikhalidwe chogwiririra.
Amayi ambiri amakhala ndi malingaliro ogwiririra. Kodi izi zikutanthauza kuti onse akufuna kugwiriridwa - zomwe ziri zongoganiza mu chikhalidwe chathu? Bodza ndiloti zolaula zimangodutsa chiwawa chenicheni monga momwe zilili zongopeka komanso zosankha zaufulu - ndiye chifukwa chiyani ine ndi amayi ena ambiri takhala ndi mantha kukayikira izi, kukambirana ndi kuyang'ana mozama? Nโchifukwa chiyani timaopa kukhala ndi vuto ndi zolaula? Sichinthu chofanana ndi chidziwitso, chikondi chaulere. Sichinthu chofanana ndi kupanga chikondi kapena kuthandizira kufufuza za kugonana. Osati chinthu chofanana ndi kugonana monga zochitika za thupi lonse kapena zochitika zauzimu. Nโchifukwa chiyani ife mโchikhalidwe chathu timalephera kufunafuna zinthu zathanzi mโmalo momangokhalira kupirira zinthu zotsika kwambiri? Kodi mavuto azachuma a akazi ambiri padziko lonse lapansi amawonjezera kuvomereza kwaulele ndi chidziwitso kwa iwo, mwachitsanzo? Tangoyang'anani mamiliyoni a amayi ndi atsikana osakwanitsa zaka 14 omwe amagulitsidwa ku malonda olaula akapolo chaka chilichonse.
Chowonadi ndi chomwe chikuchitika makamaka kwa ofunda ndi ofewa. Kwa matupi a akazi. Palibe chitetezo muzongopeka - chitetezo chokha cha malingaliro ku kuzindikira zomwe sakonda. Kodi kuzindikira uku ndi chiyani?
Kuti akazi amadedwa. Osati payekhapayekha koma zonse - monga chikhalidwe. M'mabuku onse, zojambulajambula, mafakitale, chipembedzo, malamulo, zoulutsira mawu, m'maubwenzi, m'madera onse a anthu komanso chikhalidwe chilichonse cha anthu; akazi amadedwa ndi amuna ndi iwo eni. Ndipo ichi sichizoloลตezi chongopita - chinachake chomwe chingatembenuzidwe kupyolera mu kusintha kumodzi kapena chipwirikiti cha anthu. Ndi zaka zikwi zambiri za chidani ndi kuponderezana.
Munaphedweranji Andrea Dworkin? Inu ndi ambiri a m'badwo wanu wa omenyera ufulu wa akazi omwe anaweruzidwa, kunyozedwa, kugwiriridwa, kuchepetsedwa ndi kunyozedwa. Azimayi omwe adadzipha okha, omwe adafa ndi mitima yosweka. Amene anakakamizika mobisa kuti apulumuke. Munatheratu ndipo zowopsazi ziyenera kuzindikirika.
Ndipo kotero tsopano ine nditembenuzika wolemetsedwa ndi tsogolo lomwelo. Monga ndikutsimikiza kuti kulimbana ndi kukhazikitsidwa kumeneku komwe kwatenga nthawi yayitali ndidzakhala ndi chithandizo chomwecho. Koma mumafuna kuwona bwino ndipo inenso ndikufuna kuwona bwino. Sindidzayendayendanso muufunga kapena kuunika.
Ndimatumiza kuyitanitsa kwa amayi omwe TSOPANO adzuke mumbewu zowuma za zilakolako zathu zakufa ndi kompositi ya m'chipululu chathu chomwe chatha ndikubwera palimodzi kuti apange MKAZI kachiwiri.
Nthawi Ya Agogo Achikulire idzabala choonadi. Ichi ndi cholowa chanu, Andrea - kuwala kwanu kutilimbikitsa kuti tiyambenso.
Wanu, ndi ulemu wonse,
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