Mwina Bill Cosby akanayenera kudziwa bwino.
Kupatula apo, chifukwa chakuti ndinu munthu wakuda yemwe azungu amamukonda, sizitanthauza kuti mutha kudalira kuti adzalandira mawu anu mumzimu womwe umati mukufuna.
Phunziro loterolo linadziwika bwino kumapeto kwa May, pamene mawu anafalikira ponena za mawu a Cosby pa NAACP's Anniversary Chikumbutso cha chisankho cha Brown v. Board of Education, kugonjetsa tsankho la sukulu.
M'malo mokhala ndi mwayi wokambirana za zovuta zomwe zikupitilira kutsata chilungamo pamaphunziro, kapena kuthana ndi zopinga zotsala zandalama zosalingana, kutsatira mosakondera komanso kulanga, ndi zopinga zina kuti pakhale mgwirizano wabwino m'masukulu adziko lathu, Cosby adawononga nthawi yake akuzunza osauka. , akumawaseka chifukwa cha zovala zimene amavala, mmene amalankhulira, ngakhale mayina amene anawapatsa ana awo.
Zinali zamanyazi komanso zamagulu, zodzaza ndi malingaliro olakwika, zonse zomwe zidatsimikizira kuti Cosby sanadziwepo anthu osauka akuda kwa nthawi yayitali, popeza ochepa amachita zachiwembu, ambiri amaika maphunziro apamwamba, komanso ochepa chabe. anthu ambiri amakhala ndi pakati ngati achichepere, mosiyana ndi zomwe Cosby adalankhula.
Koma kuyika pambali kusalondola kwa zomwe Cosby adanena usiku womwewo, zomwe zidasokoneza kwambiri ndi momwe azungu aku America ambiri adawatengera.
Ngakhale kuti Cosby, mwaulemu wake, sananenepo kuti kusankhana mitundu kunali kalekaleโndipo si mmene analilidiโndipo ngakhale sananene chilichonse chosonyeza kuti azungu analibenso udindo wothetsa tsankho kapena tsankho, n'zimene azungu ambiri, ndipo pafupifupi onse azungu, mwachiwonekere anamva.
Zoona zake n'zakuti, Cosby ankangoyesa, ngakhale monyanyira, mopambanitsa, kuyitanitsa "udindo waumwini" pakati pa anthu akuda osauka: lingaliro lomwe liri (mosiyana ndi zomwe azungu ambiri akuwoneka kuti akuganiza) ndilofala kwambiri ku African American. midzi, ndipo yomwe ilipo mbali ndi mbali ndikuzindikira bwino kufunika kopitiriza kukhala tcheru motsutsana ndi mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya tsankho ndi kusalana.
Koma zomwe azungu samamvetsetsa nthawi zambiri ndikuti ngati udindo wa munthu ndi wabwino kwa tsekwe wakuda, uyeneranso kukhala wabwino kwa white gander.
Chifukwa chake, sikuti mawu a Cosby samangolola azungu kuti achoke, mzimu wa ndemanga zake umafuna kuti tikhale osamala kwambiri pakuchita zomwe tili nazo: kusankhana mitundu, komanso tsankho lomwe limachitika. m'mabungwe omwe timawalamulira, tsiku lililonse.
Zoseketsa momwe azungu amafunira kuwona udindo wawo ngati msewu wanjira imodzi: Mwanjira ina, "iwo" ayenera kuyeretsa mchitidwe wawo, koma "ife" sitiyenera kuchita chilichonse koma mwina kuwonera, ndikuwadzudzula chifukwa chosasuntha. mofulumira mokwanira.
Ndikukumbukira nthawi yoyamba yomwe ndinali ndi mkangano uwu ndi Ken Hamblin wowonetsa pulogalamu yapawayilesi yakuda - pa pulogalamu yapa TV yopangidwa ndi dziko lonse. Ankachita chipongwe, monga Cosby, za anthu akuda kutenga udindo pa moyo wawo. M'malo motsutsana naye za maganizo ake pa anthu akuda, ndinangoti, "Chabwino, ngati mukufuna kuti anthu akuda adzitengere udindo wawo, ndibwino. Koma pakali pano, kodi azungu akuyenera kukhala ndi udindo wotani? Mpikisano wa tsiku la St. Patty? Oktoberfest?"
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, azungu nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito "udindo waumwini" ngati bludgeon motsutsana ndi ena, pamene sitikufunanso kuthana ndi zonyansa zomwe timayika kunja uko, kaya tsankho pakubwereketsa ndi mabanki azungu, kutchulidwa kwamtundu ndi apolisi, kapena kusuntha. kuchokera m'dera lomwe anthu ambiri "awo" amalowamo.
Kupatula apo, kodi anthu akuda angatenge bwanji udindo poti ngakhale ali ndi msinkhu wofanana wa maphunziro ndi chidziwitso, amalipidwa ndalama zochepa poyerekeza ndi anzawo azungu, ndipo nthawi zambiri sangathe kupeza ntchito?
Kodi anthu akuda angatengere bwanji udindo chifukwa chakuti amuna akuda ali ndi mwayi wowirikiza kawiri kuti magalimoto awo ayimitsidwe ndikusakasaka mankhwala osokoneza bongo, ngakhale kuti azungu ali ndi mwayi wowirikiza kawiri kuti agwiritse ntchito mankhwala osokoneza bongo pamene atayimitsidwa?
Anthu osauka akuda ndi abulauni akudzithandiza nthawi zonse, mosiyana ndi zithunzi zofala pa TV. Iwo ayenera kutero; pambuyo pa zonse, ali ndi chidziwitso chokwanira ndi mabungwe azungu kuti adziwe kuti mabungwe oterowo sanachitepo zambiri kuti athetse vuto lawo, ndipo palibe kanthu pokhapokha ngati atafunidwa komanso pokhapokha atasonkhanitsidwa pamodzi kuti zitheke.
Koma ndimadziona kuti nโngochepa chabe kapenanso kudziganizira ndekha mโgulu la azungu. Nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi nthawi yolimbana ndi tsankho komanso mantha amtundu wathu, kapena tsankho lomwe likupitilizabe kuvutitsa anthu amitundu, komanso lomwe ndife timatha kuwongolera, popeza anthu omwe akuchita tsankho ndi oyera ngati ife.
Ndipotu, sikuti timangoganizira, timakwiya pamene wina akubweretsa, chifukwa chake azungu amapumira pamodzi pamene wina ngati Cosby akubwera ndipo amatilola kuganiza kuti ntchito zathu zatha.
Koma ntchito zathu sizinathe. Ndipo ngati tikuyembekeza kuti anthu amitundu atengere udindo wawo, mosasamala kanthu za kukhalapo kwa tsankho komanso kukhudzidwa kwa miyoyo yawo, ndiye kuti tiyenera kugwiritsa ntchito malingaliro omwewo kwa ife tokha, ndikutenga udindo wathu, mosasamala kanthu za momwe timaganizira anthu akuda, kapena momwe amachitira. osagwira ntchito tingawazindikire (monama) kuti ali. Ngati saloledwa kupereka ndalama, ndiye kuti ifenso sitingaloledwe kutero.
Mwa kuyankhula kwina, ndi ntchito ya azungu kuthana ndi tsankho, osati kuloza zala zakuda ndi zofiirira ndikuwauza kuti azichita bwino. Kuti, pambuyo pa zonse, sikuli kutenga udindo waumwini; mโmalo mwake, ndi kuphunzitsa ena za kufunikira kwawo kutero.
Choipa kwambiri nโchakuti, azungu ambiri amaimba mlandu ena chifukwa cha tsankho lathu la mafuko. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, azungu nthawi zambiri amavomereza malingaliro oipa a anthu akuda monga aulesi, achiwawa, osawona mtima, kapena chirichonse, ndiyeno amadzudzula anthu akuda chifukwa cha kudyetsa malingaliro amenewo ndi zochita zawo.
Lankhulani za kusatenga udindo wanu! Choncho chifukwa cha zochita za kagulu kakangโono, kosaimira anthu a ku America (anthu atatu mwa anthu XNUMX alionse amene amachita zachiwawa chaka chilichonse, mwachitsanzo), azungu amaona kuti ndi oyenerera kuganiza zinthu zoipa zokhudza anthu akuda monga gulu.
Ndiyeno, mโzimene zingangoonedwa ngati chisonyezero cha kupusa, azungu omwewa amafuna kuti aliyense akhulupirire kuti kusankhana mitundu sikulinso chopinga kwa anthu akuda, ngakhale kuti avomereza kukhala ndi malingaliro oipa ponena za dera lonselo!
Chifukwa chake tiyenera kukhulupirira kuti anthu omwe ali ndi tsankholi angathe kuwunika mwachilungamo omwe akufuna ntchito, kapena omwe angakhale obwereketsa, kapena opempha ngongole; kuti mwanjira inayake malingaliro olakwika ameneลตa amene amaulula sangakhale ndi mbali mโkusanthula kwawo anthu otero mโdziko lenileni!
Tangomverani malingaliro apa: โKusankhana mitundu sikubweza anthu akuda, ndi ulesi wawo!โ Ngati wina sangathe kuwona chodabwitsa mu ndemangayi bwererani ndikuwerenganso; werengani katatu kapena kanayi mpaka mutapeza. Ngati pali chilichonse, mawu ngati awa ndi kudzikana kwawo; amatumikira kutsutsa zonena zawozawo, ngakhale munthu asanakhale ndi mwayi wowayankha.
Ponena za Cosbyโwhite America munthu wakuda wokondedwa (pakali pano)โmwina tifunse kuti azungu ambiri amamva bwanji ndi ndemanga yake zaka zingapo zapitazo kuti AIDS mwina idapangidwa ndi Boma la US ngati chiwembu chowononga madera ena; kapena mawu a mkazi wake Camille pamene mwana wawo anaphedwa, pamene iye ananena kuti America anaphunzitsa wakupha mwana wake Russian kudana akuda. Monga ndikukumbukira, azungu ambiri mwina sananene kalikonse poyankha izi, kapena adapita kokakamira, akumaimba mlandu a Cosbys kuti "amasewera khadi la mpikisano."
Mwaona, azungu sakonda khadi la mpikisano, pokhapokha ndi limene limatithandiza dzanja lathu lomwe. Azungu, mokulira, samamvera anthu akuda, pokhapokha atanena zomwe tikufuna kumva kale. Umu ndimomwe tilili osimidwa kuti tisatengere udindo wathu pa chisokonezo chomwe tsankho lapanga pa dziko lino; chisokonezo chimene ife tiri oposa pang'ono okhudzidwa, kulankhula mbiri yakale ndipo mpaka lero.
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