Monga wa ku America aliyense mwachisawawa, ndadya mapiri otsatsa omwe ali ndi mikwingwirima ya azimayi, malirime achikazi, abulu aakazi, ndi thupi lolimba lachikazi lachikazi - nthawi zina zokokedwa ndi peel ya mandimu, kutanthauza kuti mkazi ndi chiyani? - chipatso choyembekezera kusendedwa ndi kudyedwa, ndithudi.
Kotero ine ndinadabwa kwambiri tsiku lina pamene basi yamzinda inaima pafupi nane pa mphambano, ndipo ndinayang'anizana ndi maso ndi maso ndi theka la khumi ndi awiri osawonda, opindika, ovala zovala zamkati zoyera zowoneka bwino ndipo atayima mozungulira akuwoneka okondwa nazo. okha. Palibe aliyense wa iwo amene anali slurper pa chinthu phallic ndi lilime lake kapena kukonza silikoni-wowonjezera milomo mu sulky, fuck-me pout.
Mpaka pano, malonda anali atachita ntchito yake. Ine ndithudi ndinali kuyang'ana kachiwiri. Palibe chinthu chonga mkazi wowoneka bwino pakutsatsa, ndipo pafupifupi palibe amene samawoneka ngati chidutswa cha nyama m'mbale yoperekedwa kuti ikhutitse zomwe timauzidwa kuti ndi zilakolako zathu zogonana. Kodi malondawa angakhale a chiyani?
Zikuoneka kuti Dove yayambitsa kampeni yatsopano yotsatsa "kukongola kwenikweni." Otsatsawo akusonyeza kuti โakazi enieni amakhala ndi mapindikidwe enieni,โ ndiponso kuti nthawi yakwana yakuti makampani opanga zinthu zodzikongoletsera achitepo kanthu pa zimene akazi enieniwa amafuna. Pokhala ngati osintha zinthu za kukongola, tsamba la Dove likunena kuti masiku okhwima okhwima atha.
Koma kodi Nkhunda ili patsogolo pa kukhotako, titero kunena kwake? Kapena akungogwiritsa ntchito matupi a plumper kuti agulitsenso chinthu china? Mwinanso otsatsa awo adazindikira kuti ntchafu zake zimasandulika kukhala ma mainchesi ambiri amthupi kotero kuti ma ounces amadzimadzi amtundu watsopano wamankhwala okhazikika.
"Kukhazikitsa ntchafu za supermodel ya 2 sizovuta," imawerenga tsamba la campaignforrealbeauty.com. "Ndipo amatipatsa khungu laling'ono lamtengo wapatali kuti titengere mankhwala athu," mungathe kuganiza kuti anthu amalonda a Nkhunda akudziwerengera okha. Koma taganizirani zimene zimafunika kulimbitsa ntchafu za โmkazi weniweniโ wa saizi 14. Nzosadabwitsa kuti "Nkhunda ikufuna kukondwerera mapindikidwe amenewo." Ganizirani za malo onse omwe amapereka!
Nkhunda ikuwoneka ngati munthu yemwe pomalizira pake akumvetsera kwa akazi omwe kwa zaka zambiri akhala akudandaula za malingaliro ogonana. Koma bola akupalasa pafupi ndi akazi amaliseche mmbali mwa mabasi, sindikuwona kuti tafika mpaka pano mwana. Kodi zovala zamkati zosiya kugonana, zowoneka ngati zenizeni, zoyera zimayimira njira yopita patsogolo chifukwa zimatsamira pakugwira ntchito komanso kutali ndi kukongoletsa koyenera? Osati m'malingaliro anga. Nchifukwa chiyani Nkhunda - bungwe lachinsinsi lomwe cholinga chake ndikudzilemeretsa - lipeze malo ochuluka a anthu kuti apereke ndemanga pa matupi a amayi ndi zovala zamkati za akazi?
Nkhunda ikufuna kutipangira ndalama, ndipo imatiyandikira potiuza kuti ndife osavomerezeka momwe tilili. Mofanana ndi mwamuna kapena mkazi wankhanza, amatiphwasula kenako nโkutilimbikitsanso. Titawona momwe tikuchitira molakwika - ngakhale kwa akazi "ozungulira" awa - Nkhunda imatinyengerera ndi chilimbikitso chotonthoza, "Musataye mtima. Chiyembekezo chilipo. โ Apa ili mu mawonekedwe a Intensive Firming Cream, Intensive Firming Lotion, ndi Firming Body Wash.
Achinyamata, omwe adakali ndi chifundo zaka zingapo asanachotse cellulite yawo adzakhala chilakolako chawo chotsatsa malonda, amakhudzidwa ndi uthenga wina. Mwezi wamawa, Nkhunda, ya Unilever, molumikizana ndi kampani ya Mattel ya American Girl, akhazikitsa "American Girl realbeauty Inside and Out." Ana azaka zisanu ndi zitatu mpaka 12 adzayenera kuthetsa uthenga wotsutsana womwe umati ayenera kukondwerera zomwe iwo ali koma ayenera kugula zinthu kuti zikhale bwino.
Ndikudziwa kuti achinyamata omwe ali ndi zaka zisanafike masiku ano ali odziwa bwino, koma akuyenera kumva bwanji kuti ndi ndani pamene zinthu zonse zabwino zimatulutsidwa kunja, kutsekedwa, ndikugulitsidwa kwa iwo monga: "My Way Styling Gel," "Wodzaza ndi Chiyembekezo." Sopo,โ ndi โTengani Mavitamini Anu Daily Body Lotion.โ Monga keke yamwayi, chinthu chilichonse chimakhala ndi mawu olimbikitsa, monga "Kukongola kwenikweni ndi momwe mumawonekera mukamasangalala" (USA Today).
โAyi,โ akuganiza motero msungwana wosaunika mโmbuyomo. Kusangalala inali nthawi yokhayo yomwe sanali kuganiza momwe amawonekera. Tsopano, ngakhale malo osiyidwawo pamasewera - osangalatsa - ndiye malo enieni osewerera abungwe lalikulu. Kumeneko, akhoza kuyesa kulowa m'malo aliwonse omwe kale anali opanda koloni m'maganizo mwake. Chani? Mumaganiza kuti mukusewera mpira? Kumanga nsanja mchenga? Kuwerenga buku? Ganiziraninso - osati zomwe mukuchita, koma za kuwala kwa khungu lanu, mphamvu ya gel osakaniza tsitsi lanu, komanso ngati nkhope yanu ikuwonetsa chiyembekezo chokwanira kapena ayi monga momwe "Full of Hope Soap" ikufunira.
Mwina ayi? Fulumira ndikufunsiranso!!
Mwanjira ina, uku ndi kupenya kotopa. Tonse tikudziwa kuti mabungwe aliwonse, kuphatikiza a Nkhunda, chifukwa chonse chokhalira ndikulemeretsa eni ake masheya.Amagwiritsa ntchito zotsatsa kuti atsimikizire anthu kuti ndizolakwika koma zimatha kusinthidwa pogula. Ndipo ali ndi ufulu wokwaniritsa cholinga chawo mwanjira iliyonse yakale yomwe akufuna - kaya kukhutitsa chikhalidwe ndi zifuwa zokongoletsedwa ndi makompyuta ndi mabulu opukutidwa ndi mpweya kapena kuyesa kudziwa mayina amtundu wawo komanso kukhulupirika powonetsa azimayi omwe amati, "Kukhala wokongola kumayenera kuchita ndi mmene ndikumvera mumtima.โ
Choyipa ndichakuti mabizinesi amayesa kudziyika okha kukhala owongolera chilichonse. โKampeni Yotsatsa Nkhunda Imafuna Kufotokozeranso Kukongola,โ umatero mutu wankhani wa Womenโs Wear Daily (10-08-04). Nkhunda simafuna kuti akazi aziganizira okha za kukongola. Ndi kampeni yake yatsopano, Nkhunda ikutuluka mu tanthauzo lopapatiza la kukongola kuti athe kuwongoleranso matanthauzidwe ocheperako. Inu sindinu olamulira. Nkhunda ndi. Mutu wamutu wa USA Today ukutsindika mfundo iyi: "Kampeni Yotsatsa Imauza Akazi Kukondwerera Zomwe Iwo Ali" (7-8-05).
Zili ngati kuti amayembekezera kuti akazi ayankhe kuti, โInde, eya, bwana,โ ndi kupita kumalo osungiramo mankhwala apafupi ndi malo awo ogulitsira mankhwala โmkati ndi kunjaโ zimene zidzawathandiza kuyambitsa chikondwerero chawo.
Nkhunda *ikukhumba* kuti akazi asunthike mokhoma, koma ndithudi sititero, ndichifukwa chake amagwira ntchito molimbika kutiuza zoyenera kuchita ndi kuganiza. Koma akumenya nkhondo yoluza. Lankhulani ndi mkazi aliyense, ndipo mupeza anthu omwe mwina ali ngati omwe ndimawadziwa.
Iwo akuyesera kupeza momwe angalowetse ana awo aamuna ku koleji mmalo mwa usilikali. Iwo akuyesera kupeza momwe angalipire mabilu. Iwo amaganiza kuti nkhondo ya ku Iraq imachokera pa mabodza. Amafuna kuti moyo ndi ntchito zisakhale zolemetsa. Amalakalaka kuti bwanayo angawapatse ulemu wosawakalipira. Amafuna kuti aziyimbira foni odwala akakhala ndi mutu wopunduka.
Amadziwa mayankho ku zilakolako izi angapezeke mu kukonzanso kovuta kwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri m'dera lathu komanso zachuma. Iwo ali ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana okhudza zomwe angachite ndi kumvetsetsa kumeneku. Mutha kumva za amayi omwe amafunafuna mayankho kutchalitchi, mnyumba mwawo, mwa abwenzi awo, m'mabungwe awo kapena m'mabungwe ena akuntchito. Koma ine basi za chitsimikizo inu simudzapeza mkazi amene amayang'ana njira mu mtsuko wa tima firming zonona.
Azimayi ambiri amakhulupirira, monga chitsanzo cha Nkhunda Julie, kuti "Kudzuka m'mawa uliwonse ndikukhala ndi moyo wachimwemwe, wathanzi ndi wokongola." Ambiri amadzikongoletsa m'njira zosiyanasiyana ndikuyenda momasuka, ndipo *bwanji osakhala* kuti izi zikhale mbali yakukhala ndi moyo wachimwemwe, wathanzi? Ndangodwala chifukwa cha mchimwene wamkulu / mnzawo wankhanza yemwe amatenga malo onse pankhani yofotokozera mkangano ndi magawo athanzi, okondwa, komanso achigololo.
Tsiku lina, ndinaona mkazi wopindika kwambiri wovala mathalauza otsika kwenikweni akuwerama kuti atole chinachake. Anali ndi tattoo yomwe imatuluka m'matako ake komanso chovala chamkati chokhala ndi mainchesi angapo pamwamba pa thalauza. Eya, ndinayang'ana kachiwiri. Anali wosangalatsa. Iye anali akupanga zonena zakezake. Ndipo sichinalembedwe chizindikiro kapena kukopera kapena kulembedwa ndi makampani amitundu yambiri kapena kupakidwa pambali mwa basi. Komanso sikunali kulamula kuti anthu ena asamayende bwino komanso mmene angawakonzere.
Posachedwapa, mnzanga wina wazaka 50 wochokera ku Brazil, wolumala, yemwe adasiya kusamba, amandiuza za momwe amawonongera ndalama zake zobadwa pa zovala zamkati zachigololo. Anatichititsa kuseka za chibwenzi chake chazaka 30 chomwe chinalibe mphamvu zomwe anali nazo. Penyani, tsinzini. Chunga, konda. Ndipo anatiuza za cholinga chake chobwerera ku Brazil kukatenga mimba, ndipo mwana wake wamkazi wazaka 12 ankanyodola. "Amayi, muli bwino bwanji."
Ndi pa mlingo uwu pamene tingayambe kuganiza mozama za kusokoneza maganizo okhudzana ndi kugonana - mlingo wa anthu enieni, m'matupi enieni, ndi moyo weniweni wa kugonana ndi nkhawa zenizeni za moyo weniweni. Mwayi ndi wokongola komanso wochuluka. Mabungwe alibe udindo pano.