"Hoʻohewa ke Akua iā ʻoe!" Uā ʻo Abu Raed i ka ʻumi o ke kaʻa ma mua ona no ka lohi ʻana i ke ala haiki, a kani. "ʻAʻole kēia ka manawa e nānā ai i kekahi ulia kaʻa! He mau wahi ka poʻe e hele ai!" Akā i ka manawa i hōʻea ai ʻo Abu Raed ma kahi kokoke i kahi hanana kaʻa, lohi ʻo ia e ʻike i ka pōʻino. ʻO nā kaʻa ma hope ona e puhi i ka pū iā ia e neʻe ai. ʻO ia ka manawa e nānā aku ai ʻo ia i ke aniani hope, me ka hoʻoluliluli ʻana i kona mau lima a me nā lima e hōʻike ana i kahi ʻano huhū, me he mea lā e nīnau ana iā lākou a pau: "He aha ka hewa iā ʻoe? ʻAʻole e pau ka honua inā e lohi iki wau! "
Hiki ke ʻike maʻalahi ʻia kēia ʻano ʻelua i ka schizophrenic, ke ʻole mākou e ʻeli hohonu e ʻike i ke kumu o ka pilikia. 'Ōlelo mai ka poʻe psychologists ʻaʻole hiki i nā keiki liʻiliʻi (ma lalo o ʻelima) ke hoʻokomo iā lākou iho i nā kāmaʻa o kekahi. No laila, ʻike paha ʻoe i kahi keiki e piʻi mai ana i kona makuahine a kāhea pinepine iā ia, ʻoiai ʻike ʻia aia ʻo ia i waena o kahi kamaʻilio koʻikoʻi me kekahi kanaka makua. Huhū ke keiki i ka pane ʻole ʻana o kona makuahine iā ia. Hoʻomaopopo kekahi mau mākua i kēia ʻano i nā keiki he "nagging," me he mea lā ke hana nei ke keiki me ka manaʻo e hoʻonāukiuki i ka poʻe a puni iā ia. Akā ʻaʻole pēlā ka hihia. ʻAʻole hiki i ke keiki ke hoʻomaopopo he kaikamahine a me ke keiki kāne a kekahi, ke kaikuahine a me ke kaikunāne, ka wahine a me ke kāne, ka ʻanakē a me ka makua kāne, ka hoaaloha a me ka hoaaloha. ʻAʻole hiki iā lākou ke ʻike i ko lākou mau mākua i kekahi hana ʻē aʻe ma ke ola ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka papa a me ka mama, a ʻo ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa aia ma laila no ke keiki i kēlā me kēia manawa āna e koi ai.
A laila e ulu a'e nā keiki, a i kekahi ala a i 'ole, hiki lākou i ke ki'eki'e o ke kūlana makua e hiki ai iā lākou ke 'ike i ke ao nei mai nā kāma'a o kekahi. E ʻike ʻoe iā lākou, ma kahi o ʻehiku a ʻewalu paha mau makahiki, e hāʻawi ana i kā lākou ice cream a i ʻole pahu kokoleka hoʻokahi i kekahi keiki ʻōpio. Hoʻomaka mālie lākou e ʻike aia he poʻe ʻē aʻe a puni, makemake lākou i nā mea like a lākou e hana ai, a ʻike i ka ʻeha a me ka hauʻoli e like me lākou. ʻO kēia ʻike "o kekahi" e hoʻomohala iā lākou i nā ʻano mua o ka lokomaikaʻi, ka lokomaikaʻi, a me ke kala ʻana. Akā, e hele mai nā mākua alakaʻi hewa a me nā mākua alakaʻi hewa ʻē aʻe e hoʻopau iā ia a pau.
Ma Ioredane, ʻike kekahi makua i kāna keiki e kaʻana like ana i kāna ʻeke ʻuala me kekahi hoa papa, a laila hoʻopuka i kahi pōhaku - i kāna keiki - penei ke kani: "No ke aha ʻoe e hāʻawi ai i kāu meaʻai me kāu mau hoa papa? ʻAʻole anei lākou nā mākua pū? E kūʻai nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki ponoʻī i kā lākou ʻai. ʻAe, ma hope koke iho, hoʻomaka ke keiki e hoʻohui i ka lokomaikaʻi me ka naʻaupō - "Na nā naʻaupō wale nō e hāʻawi i kā lākou haʻawina i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe."
A laila hele mai ke keiki i hoʻokuʻi ʻia i lalo i ka honua i ka wā o ka pāʻani pôpeku, ʻeha ma nā kuli a me nā kuʻekuʻe me nā mea kōkua ma ʻaneʻi. "He aha i hana ai?" ninau ka makua. "Ua hoʻokuke mai kekahi keikikāne iaʻu i ka wā e pāʻani ai mākou i ka pōpeku," wahi āna. ʻO ka pane? ʻO kekahi pōhaku makamae: "Apopo kakahiaka makemake wau e piʻi ʻoe i kēlā keiki a paʻi ikaika iā ia e like me kou hiki. . ʻO nā kamaliʻi nāwaliwali wale nō ke lilo i ʻeke kuʻi. Nawaliwali anei ʻoe? ʻAʻole ʻaʻole ʻoe! No laila e hele ʻoe a hoʻopaʻi!" Ke hahai nei kēia keiki i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a hoʻopau i hoʻokahi hakakā he nui loa, e hoʻolilo ana i kahi hapa nui o kona wā kamaliʻi a me ka ulu ʻana i nā hakakā alanui, hahau i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a hahau ʻia; a i ʻole hiki iā ia ke hōʻole i ka hahai ʻana i kēlā ʻōlelo aʻo (no nā kumu like ʻole) a hoʻopau i ka ʻeha o ka naʻau no ke kapa ʻia ʻana he wimp a i ʻole he moa, a e hoʻopilikia mau ʻia a hahau ʻia. ʻO kēlā me kēia ʻaoʻao, ʻaʻole hauʻoli nā hopena i ka wā kamaliʻi, me ka nui o nā ukana manaʻo e pahū ma hope ma luna o ka wahine a i ʻole nā keiki, a i ʻole e lilo i ke kaumaha nui i ka wā o ke kanaka makua. ʻO ka waiwai o ke kala ʻana, e like me ka lokomaikaʻi, ua hoʻemi ʻia i kahi synonym no ka nāwaliwali a me ka lapuwale.
A i ka wā e hoʻopilikia ai kekahi keiki ʻelima makahiki i kona makuahine me kāna "ʻōhumu," hiki i kekahi makuahine ma Ioredane ke huli aʻe i kāna keiki a uwē iā ia, ʻōlelo ʻino iā ia, a paʻi paha iā ia, a ukali ʻia e nā nīnau hoʻopiʻi e like me "ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike. Paʻahana wau? Pehea ʻoe e ʻaʻa mai ai iaʻu!" poina loa i ka psyche o ke keiki. A laila noʻonoʻo mākou no ke aha e hiki ʻole ai i kā mākou mau keiki ke noho mālie ma ka home a i ʻole ma ka lehulehu - "pono lākou i ka manaʻo i hoʻonele ʻia lākou."
He aha kāu e manaʻo ai i ka hopena? He kanaka makua huhu, lokoino, kalahala ole, lili, akamai! Ke nānā nei kēlā me kēia iā ia iho a me kāna iho, me ka mahalo ʻole a me ka mālama ʻole i nā makemake a me nā pono o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻike ma ke ʻano o kā mākou kaʻa ʻana ma ke alanui. ʻAʻohe mea hoʻokele makemake e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe, no ka mea, he hana lokomaikaʻi ia. A inā ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu aku i kekahi, ʻo nā mea hoʻokele ma hope ou e honi a hōʻino iā ʻoe no ka hoʻopilikia ʻana iā lākou i kou lokomaikaʻi naʻaupō, no ka mea, ua hoʻolohi ʻoe i kā lākou huakaʻi i hoʻokahi kekona. Hiki i ka mea hoʻokele kaʻa ke paʻa pālua a paʻa i kāu kaʻa, ke loaʻa ʻole kahi wahi kaʻa, ma mua pono o ka hale kūʻai āna e makemake ai e hele. No ke aha e pilikia ai ʻo ia me ka hele wāwae hoʻokahi, ʻoiai hiki iā ia ke paʻa pālua ma mua pono o ka hale kūʻai āna e hele ai? No laila ʻo ia i pāpālua i nā paka, me ka ʻike piha ʻana e huhū loa ka mea hoʻokele (a i ʻole kekahi mau mea hoʻokele) āna e ālai nei no ka hiki ʻole ke neʻe i waho ke hoʻi lākou i kā lākou mau kaʻa, koe wale ka bottleneck āna i hana ai ma ke alanui nui. ʻIke ʻo ia i kēlā akā ʻaʻole naʻe ʻo ia e hopohopo no ka mea ʻo kona pono pilikino ka mea mua. ʻO ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i nā mea ʻē aʻe he mea lapuwale. Hoʻopuka hou mākou i nā ʻōlelo a me nā ʻōlelo e like me "He pono ʻole kēia ola, ʻaʻohe aloha" e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i kā mākou hana ʻino. ʻŌlelo pū mākou "Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe he ʻīlio hae, e ʻai nā ʻīlio iā ʻoe" a "E ʻai wau iā ʻoe no ka ʻaina awakea, ma mua o kou ʻai ʻana iaʻu i ka ʻaina ahiahi."
Ma nā ʻōlelo maʻalahi, ʻike nā kānaka a pau ma Ioredane iā ia iho he kanaka koʻikoʻi loa (VIP) a ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe. ʻOiaʻiʻo, hiki ke wehewehe pono ʻia ka hana a Abu Raed ma o kēia ʻike. I ka wā he ʻumi kaʻa ʻo Abu Raed ma hope o ka ulia pōpilikia, ua honi ʻo ia a ʻōlelo hōʻino a ʻuā ʻo ia no ka mea he VIP ʻo ia, a ʻaʻole kali nā VIP i nā poʻe maʻamau e pale ana i ko lākou ala a hoʻopilikia iā lākou e neʻe i waho o ko lākou ala. A i ka wā i kokoke ai ʻo Abu Raed i kahi ulia pōpilikia, ua lohi ʻo ia, a ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe e hoʻomanawanui, no ka mea ʻo ia wale nō ka VIP ma ke alanui, a ʻo nā mea ʻē aʻe ʻaʻole hiki ke ʻike i kēlā!
Hoʻokani ʻo Samir i ke mele stereo me ka leo nui me nā puka makani i ʻōwili ʻia i lalo i ka hola ʻelua o ke kakahiaka, ma kahi kaiāulu noho, a puhi pinepine i ka pū e hōʻike i kahi hoaaloha aia ʻo ia i lalo e kali ana. Inā ʻōlelo ka hoaaloha o Samir iā ia "Shh! oki i ka honi! A hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka leo! Ke hiamoe nei nā kānaka!" E lawe koke ʻo Samir i kēia i mea hōʻino pololei i kona ola holoʻokoʻa. E hōʻike ʻo Samir i kāna hoaaloha e hana ʻo ia me he "fagot" a me ka "makaʻu," a e hōʻike pono iā ia ʻo ka mea aʻa e hoʻopiʻi i kāna mau hana. e ʻono i ka huhū o kona mau lima, a i ʻole ka pahi, a i ʻole ka panapana, a i ʻole kona mau hoaaloha a me nā pilina me ke aupuni. ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka ma Ioredane he ʻanakē a makua kāne paha i male i ke kaikamahine a ka hoalauna o ke kaikunāne o kahi ʻelele GID, ka mea e mākaukau mau e hele mai e kōkua iā lākou i mua o ka hoʻopono no ka uhai ʻana i ke kānāwai. Haʻaheo ka poʻe ma ʻaneʻi i ko lākou pili ʻana me nā luna aupuni a me nā poʻe kaulana ʻē aʻe, i mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai iā lākou iho a me kā lākou poʻe hoʻolohe he VIP maoli lākou.
Akā ʻo ka mea ʻaʻole maopopo iā Abu Raed, ʻo ka wā he VIP nā mea a pau, a laila ʻaʻohe kanaka maoli! Ina he VIP maoli oia, alaila, aole e lohi ka umi kaa mamua ona, a e hoopoino ana i kona manao, a o na kaa kaa mahope ona, aole no e puhi i ka pu i kona lohi ana e ike i ka ulia kaa ma kahi kokoke. No laila, ma ka mālama wale ʻana iā ʻoe iho, e ʻimi mau ana i ka hoʻopaʻi ʻana i ka poʻe i hoʻomāinoino iā ʻoe ma ke kino a i ʻole ka naʻau, a me ka nānā ʻana i nā hana manaʻo ʻole e like me ka naʻaupō, lilo ʻoe i VUP!
Pehea ia i loko o kahi hui kahi i ʻike ʻole ai kekahi iā lākou iho he VIP? ʻAe, i loko o ia hui, mahalo nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki no ka hāʻawi ʻana i kā lākou ʻuala me kā lākou mau hoa papa, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana iā lākou: "Maikaʻi loa ʻoe i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kāu meaʻai me kāu mau hoa papa. ʻO kēia nā manawa āu e mahalo ai, e ʻike i ka uku ʻana o kou lokomaikaʻi i kēia lā ma hope a ma hope paha." E haʻi pū nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki i ʻeha mai ka hakakā a i ʻole nā haʻuki koʻikoʻi he maikaʻi ia, a e kala aku (a inā ʻoi aku ka ʻino, e kamaʻilio pololei nā mākua o ke keiki i ʻeha i nā mākua o ke keiki lawehala a hoʻoholo i nā hihia ma waena o ka makua- ups). Me kēlā ʻano alakaʻi, e ulu aʻe kēia mau keiki me ka ʻoliʻoli i nā hua o ka lokomaikaʻi a ʻoliʻoli i ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi ʻeke kīkī me kahi hoaaloha. I ka wā e hoʻokuʻi ai kekahi keikikāne i ka honua i ka wā o ka pāʻani pōpeku, e hoʻi mai ka mea hewa a hāʻawi i kona lima i ke keiki ʻeha a kōkua iā ia e ala i kona mau wāwae, me ka haʻi ʻana iā ia ua mihi ʻo ia. E hauʻoli nā keiki ʻelua ke pau ka hana ʻino me ka mahalo a me ke kala ʻana. ʻO ke keiki wiwo ʻole ka mea nāna e hoʻomaka ka maluhia!
E ulu aʻe ʻoe me ka ʻike ʻana he hana ʻino a ʻae ʻole ka pāpā pālua i nā kaʻa ʻē aʻe, no ka mea, ʻike ʻoe i ke ʻano o ka manaʻo inā paʻa kekahi i kāu kaʻa. I loko o ia ʻano VIP-aʻole i hele mai, ke hana ʻelua kaʻa kaʻa kekahi, ʻaʻole ia, a ʻo ka mea i ālai ʻia ke kaʻa e manaʻo ʻo ia he kumu maikaʻi loa ka mea hoʻokele ʻē aʻe, he pilikia paha, e paka ma ia ʻano. , a pela e kali hoomanawanui ai e ike i ka hopena. ʻAʻole e hoʻokani ʻo Samir i kāna mele me ka leo nui ma hope o ke aumoe me nā pukaaniani i ʻōwili ʻia i lalo, a ʻaʻole ʻo ia e honi pinepine e kāhea i kāna hoaaloha e iho i lalo, no ka mea, e noʻonoʻo ana ʻo ia i ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka hōʻoluʻolu o kekahi, ʻaʻole ʻo ia wale nō. A i ka wā e hele mālie ai ʻo Abu Raed, ʻaʻole ʻo ia e hōʻino a ʻuā no ka mea ʻike ʻo ia ʻaʻole e hoʻolohi ka poʻe kaʻa ma mua ona. Eia kekahi, e hoʻomaʻemaʻe ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma kahi lumi ʻauʻau ākea a i loko o kahi hale ʻaina, no ka mea ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe he VIP ʻoi aku ma mua o ka mea mālama hale a i ʻole ka waiter. ʻAʻole ʻoe e kiola i ka ʻōpala ma ke alanui. E ʻoliʻoli ʻoe e hoʻihoʻi i ke kaʻa kūʻai kūʻai i kona wahi, ma kahi o ka waiho ʻana i waenakonu o ke kahua kaʻa. E hōʻike ʻoe i nā hālāwai i ka manawa a ʻaʻole e ʻae i kou mau hoaaloha e kali lōʻihi iā ʻoe, a ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻolōʻihi iā ʻoe no lākou, no ka mea, ʻaʻohe o ʻoukou e ʻike iā lākou iho he VIP.
A he aha nā hopena? ʻO ka mea hoʻohenehene, hoʻopau ʻoe i ka mālama ʻia ʻana e like me ʻoe he VIP! Hoʻomaka ka poʻe e hōʻike i ka manawa e hālāwai ai me ʻoe. ʻAʻohe mea e ʻaʻa e pāpālua a pāpā i kāu kaʻa. ʻAʻohe mea aʻa e puhi i ka pū i ke aumoe e hoʻopilikia iā ʻoe i kou hiamoe ʻana. Hāʻawi ka poʻe i kā lākou meaʻai me ʻoe a ʻaʻole e hōʻino a hōʻeha paha iā ʻoe. I nā manawa a pau āu e nele ai, lele ka nui o ka poʻe e kōkua iā ʻoe, no ka mea, ʻike lākou e hana like ʻoe no lākou inā nele lākou. No laila, inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻike hou iā ʻoe iho he VIP, hoʻopau ʻoe i ka mālama ʻia e like me kekahi. A ʻo ka mea nui loa, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻolilo hou i kēlā me kēia kekona o kou lā me ka huhū, ka ʻuā ʻana, ke kani ʻana, ka ʻuā ʻana, ka ʻōlelo hōʻino, a me ka haʻalulu. ʻIke ʻoe iā ʻoe iho e ʻakaʻaka ana i nā poʻe, a ke ʻakaʻaka ʻoe, e hana ʻoe mai ka hohonu o kou puʻuwai.
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