Kamar yadda ba na hukuma ba na Burtaniya wasanni na kasa kuma yayin da kakar ke gudana na tsawon watanni tara a shekara sau da yawa kamar ba zai yiwu a tsere wa kwallon kafa ba. Maganar tattaunawa ce ta asali daga ofis zuwa kantin aski; Sabbin abubuwan da suka faru a gasar Premier da suka shafi watsa shirye-shiryen talabijin da manyan jaridun mu sun sadaukar da kai don bayar da rahoto da tattaunawa kowane minti daya na 'kyakkyawan wasan'. An nuna wannan fifikon al'adu da ritayar Alex Ferguson, kocin Manchester United na tsawon shekaru 26 da suka gabata. An yi wa irin wannan hanya ga mutuwar wani dan gidan sarauta, labarin da ya fi daukar hankali a gidan yanar gizon BBC kuma ya fantsama a shafin farko na jaridun gobe. Ko da Nick Robinson, Editan Siyasa na BBC, ya ji bukatar hakan comment, suna cewa Sir Alex shine "Mafi Girman Rayayyun Biritaniya".
Koyaya, idan aka yi la'akari da mahimmancin ƙwallon ƙafa ga mutane da yawa da al'umma gabaɗaya, masu ci gaba ba su da wani abin faɗi game da shi. Lallai akwai damuwa da ke gudana game da ƙaruwa koyaushe yanayin wasan jari-hujja amma abin da kusan ya rasa shi ne tattaunawa ta gaskiya ko kuma sukar akidar wasan - musamman alakar kwallon kafa da maza da maza. Kamar yadda Mariah Burton Nelson ta lura a cikin littafinta na 1994 Matan da suka fi ƙarfin samun, Maza suna Ƙaunar Kwallon kafa: Jima'i da Al'adun Wasanni na Amirka, "Muna buƙatar ɗaukar wasanni da mahimmanci - ba maki ko ƙididdiga ba, amma tsari. Ba wai a mai da hankali kan wanda ya yi nasara ba, amma ga wanda ya yi rashin nasara.”[1]
Kamar yadda masana Nazarin Maza suka lura game da wasanni gabaɗaya, duniyar ƙwallon ƙafa ta duniya mai matsayi da gasa tana ɗaya daga cikin mahimman wuraren gini da haifuwa na maza a yau.[2] Ta hanyar yin wasa da kallon wasan yara suna koyon abin da ake nufi da zama namiji - waɗanne dabi'u da halayen maza ne kuma waɗanda ba su da ɗabi'a. "Ka kasance mai tauri", "ka kasance mai ƙarfi", "wasa don cin nasara", "ka tsaya a ciki", "Kada ka ji tsoro", "Kada ka yi kuka", "Kada ka rabu" - duk abin ƙarfafawa ne kuma nasiha ga matasa 'yan wasan ƙwallon ƙafa. Kuma a lokacin da suka dawo gida don kallon Match of the Day sai su ji masu sharhi suna yabon gumakansu don "mallakar" abokan hamayyarsu da kuma "mallakar" wasan. Wadancan 'yan wasan da wasa ta wurin babban zafi ana shelanta a matsayin jarumai da kuma irin su Roy Keane, wanda tsoratarwa da murna a cikin tashin hankali da wuce gona da iri da magoya bayan da aka ba su da kofuna. “Na dade sosai. Na buge shi da karfi. Kwallon yana can (Ina tsammanin). Ɗauki wannan ku ɗanɗana. Kuma kada ku taɓa tsayawa a kaina ina ba'a game da raunin da ya faru," Keane ya rubuta a cikin tarihin rayuwarsa game da rayuwarsa. ramuwar gayya da aka riga aka yanke na Manchester City Alf-Inge Haaland a cikin 2001, wanda ya ƙare aikin ɗan Norway sosai. “Halayina shi ne, fuck shi. Abin da ke zagawa yana zuwa. Ya samu ladarsa kawai. Ya zage ni kuma halina idon ido ne." Binciken da aka yi a baya ya kai ga dakatar da Keane na wasanni biyar tare da ci tarar fan 150,000, kodayake masu karatu masu shakku na iya yin mamakin tsawon lokacin da aka yanke wa Keane hukuncin gidan yari da abin ya faru a waje. na filin wasan kwallon kafa bayan shekaru uku an shigar da Keane cikin dakin wasan kwallon kafa na Ingila.
Yayin da Roy Keane ya kasance mai tilastawa Manchester United a filin wasa, Sir Alex ya tafiyar da kungiyar kamar mulkin kama-karya. "Dokar Fergie ta kasance cikakke", bayanin John Anderson na Channel 4. "Loyality wani inganci ne da za a nema kuma a biya shi daidai gwargwado, kuma kalmarsa doka ce." Pundits ya yi mamaki kuma ya yi dariya game da yadda yake horar da 'yan wasansa da wasa macho tunanin tunani game tare da abokan adawarsa. A lokuta da dama ya kasance dakatar da tara don amfani da kalaman batanci don daidaita jami'ai. A cikin a Lamarin da ya faru a dakin tufafi ya harba takalmin cikin fushi wanda ya bugi David Beckham a fuska, yana bukatar dinki. Kada ku damu da wannan zalunci Salon gudanar da aiki zai sa a kore shi nan da nan daga kowane wurin aiki a Burtaniya – Sir Alex, an sha gaya mana a makon da ya gabata, shi ne koci mafi girma da ya taba yin fice a wasan Ingila. Nasarar da ya samu ba kawai girmamawa ba ne, sun cancanci a yi nazari da koya daga gare su, in ji Robinson. Tony Blair nasa mai tilastawa Alastair Campbell na iya duba Ferguson, amma mene ne alakar wannan da wadanda ke aiki don tabbatar da dimokuradiyya, adalci da daidaito sai dai su zama jagora game da yadda ba za a yi ba?
Kamar yadda waɗannan misalan wakilcin suka nuna (na iya kawo wasu marasa ƙima cikin sauƙi) nau'in ɗabi'ar namiji da aka gina da ƙarfafawa a duniyar ƙwallon ƙafa yana nuna wasan ƙwallon ƙafa yana da mahimmanci, tasiri mai ra'ayin mazan jiya akan dangantakar jinsi na zamani, galibi yana aiki don sake haifar da rashin daidaito a cikin al'umma.
Kuma babu inda juriyar ƙwallon ƙafa ga ƙa'idodin jinsi na zamani ya fi fitowa fili fiye da lokacin da ake magana game da jimillar rashin 'yan wasan luwaɗi a fili a cikin wasan ƙwararrun. Dan wasan ƙwallon ƙafa na farko a fili na gay shi ne trailblazer justin fashanu – kuma dan wasan Bakar fata na fam miliyan daya na farko. "Kai mai jini!" shine yadda kocinsa a kungiyar kwallon kafa ta Nottingham Forest, Brian Clough, ya bayyana shi. Ɗan’uwan Justin ya ƙaryata shi sa’ad da ya fito a shekara ta 1990. “Ya fito fili ya faɗi abubuwan da yake so na jima’i, don haka yanzu zai sha wahala. Ba zan so in yi wasa ko a canza a kusa da shi ba", Inji John Fashun. John ya ci gaba da gabatar da wasan kwaikwayon talabijin da aka buga Gladiators. Justin ya kashe kansa a 1998.
Yayin da malaman wasanni ke so Ellis Cashmore da Jamie Cleland Ƙimar luwaɗi a tsakanin masu sha'awar ƙwallon ƙafa ya ragu sosai tun daga waɗancan kwanakin duhu abubuwan rayuwa a ƙasa suna ba da ƙarancin bege. A cikin Janairu 2012, Robbie Rogers ya bar Leeds United ta hanyar "amincin juna". Bayan wata daya ya bayyana cewa shi dan luwadi ne. A cikin wata sanarwa da Rogers ya fitar ya ce ci gaba da zama a fagen kwallon kafa bayan bayyana cewa kai dan luwadi ne "ba zai yuwu ba".
Har ila yau, ƙwallon ƙafa ya makale a zamanin dutse idan ya zo ga mata. Wannan bai kamata ya zama abin mamaki ba idan ka yi la'akari da malaman wasanni sun dade suna bayyana cewa ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwarar ƙwarar) ta bayyana cewa wasanni masu tsari kamar yadda muka san cewa ya bayyana a ƙarshen 19.th karni don mayar da martani ga kalubale da dama ga ikon gargajiya na maza, ba wai tashin hankali da karfin mata a cikin al'umma ba. Kamar yadda Michael Messner, Farfesa a Ilimin zamantakewa da Nazarin jinsi a Jami'ar Kudancin California, ya lura:
Wasa wani yanki ne na al'adu na ɗan luwadi da maza suka ƙirƙira wanda ya ba wa maza damar rabuwa da tunanin 'zama mace' na al'umma, yayin da kuma ya ba da 'tabbacin' alama mai ban mamaki na fifikon dabi'a na maza akan mata.[3]
Fiye da ɗari ɗaya daga baya kuma "ɗakin kabad" ya ci gaba da kasancewa "ajiya ta ƙarshe na duk duniya maza", a cewar Michael Kimmel, Farfesa na ilimin zamantakewa a Jami'ar Jihar New York.
Batun jima'i na kwallon kafa ya shiga kanun labarai a cikin 2011 lokacin da manyan masu sharhi na gasar Premier, Andy Gray na Sky Sports da Richard Keys, suka kama suna yin kalaman batanci da jima'i game da mata masu layi kuma zuwa abokiyar aikin mace a cikin ɗakin studio. A wani lamarin, Keys, a waje da magana game da tsohon abokin aikin Jamie Redknapp, comments na lalata "Za ku iya fasa shi (yi jima'i da ita)?… Kuna iya zagaya can kowane dare kuma ku sami Redknapp yana rataye a bayansa". Sky Sports ta kori Grey da Keys, amma yana da mahimmanci a lura da halinsu ya zama matsala ne kawai lokacin da wani abokin aiki (mai yiwuwa ya baci) ya fallasa faifan ga kafofin watsa labarai.
Abin da ya kamata a bayyana a fili daga duk waɗannan misalan shi ne cewa nau'in namijin da aka inganta da aka haifa a cikin duniyar ƙwallon ƙafa ba namiji ba ne mai banƙyama wanda za'a iya watsi da shi kamar yadda sauran maza - masu aikata laifuka da masu tunani, watakila - suyi aiki. Maimakon haka, ya ƙunshi ɗabi'u da ɗabi'u da yawa waɗanda suka haɗa da na yau da kullun, watakila har ma da rinjaye, nau'in namiji a yau.
Matsalar, kamar yadda Cynthia Cockburn da Ann Oakley suka yi jayayya a hankali a cikin 2011, shi ne cewa waɗannan “dabi’u da ɗabi’un maza da aka yaɗa suna da haɗari kuma suna da tsada ga ɗaiɗaikun mutane da al’umma.” Bisa kididdigar da gwamnati ta yi, a cikin 2009-10 maza ne suka aikata a cikin kashi 91% na duk tashe-tashen hankula a Ingila da Wales: 81% na tashin hankalin gida, 86% na hari, 94% don rauni, 96% don yin fashi, 98% na fashi. . Alkaluman ma'aikatar shari'a ta 2009 sun nuna cewa maza ne ke da alhakin kashi 98% na laifukan jima'i, kashi 92% na laifukan miyagun kwayoyi da kuma kashi 89% na barnar laifuka. 99% na masu laifin lalata yara maza ne. A hanya maza suna aikata kashi 87% na duk laifukan zirga-zirga, 81% na laifuffuka masu saurin gudu, 97% na laifukan tuki masu haɗari da 94% na laifukan tuki da ke haifar da mutuwa ko cutar da jiki.
A taƙaice, wasanni da yawancin mu ke tallafawa ta fannin kuɗi da ta jiki, da kuma ƴan wasan da muke yi wa wawaye da farin ciki, suna haɓaka nau'in mazan jiya mai ra'ayin mazan jiya wanda ke cutarwa, wani lokacin ma mai mutuwa, ga mata, yara da al'umma gabaɗaya. To, a ina ake ta da muryan ci gaba da na mata don nuna adawa da fushin siyasar jinsi na kwallon kafa? Ina Birtaniya Feminista? Ina Fawcett Society? Ina suka a shafukan mata na Guardian? Kuma a ina, mafi mahimmanci, mazan da suka ce su 'yan mata ne masu son karin daidaito tsakanin maza da mata? A matsayin shugaba kuma mai son Norwich City Delia Smith sau ɗaya ihu: "Ina ku ke? Ina ku ke? Bari mu kasance da ku! Hai!"
Ian Sinclair marubuci ne mai zaman kansa wanda ke zaune a Landan kuma marubucin Tattakin da ya girgiza Blair: Tarihin baka na 15 Fabrairu 2003 Jaridar Peace News ta buga. [email kariya] da kuma https://twitter.com/IanJSinclair.
[1] Mariah Burton Nelson, Yawancin mata suna samun ƙarfi, yawancin maza suna son ƙwallon ƙafa. Jima'i da al'adun wasanni na Amurka (Orlando: Harcourt Brace & Kamfanin, 1994), shafi. 8.
[2] Misali Michael Messner, 'Yaro, shirya wasannin motsa jiki, da gina maza', Jaridar Zamani Ethnography, Janairu 1990, Vol. 18, Na 4, shafi-416-44.
[3] Michael Messner, Ya fita daga wasa. Mahimman kasidu akan jinsi da wasanni (Albany, Jami'ar Jihar New York Press, 2007), p. 92-3.
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