A lokacin rani na 2012, masu rubutun ra'ayin yanar gizo na mata ashirin da ɗaya da masu fafutuka na kan layi sun taru a Kwalejin Barnard don taron da zai zama abin kunya. Wadanda masu fafutuka Courtney Martin da Vanessa Valenti suka kira, matan sun taru don tattaunawa kan hanyoyin yin amfani da tallafi na cibiyoyi da na agaji don kan layi. Feminism. Bayan haka, Martin da Valenti sun yi amfani da tattaunawar a matsayin tushen rahoton, “#Fitowar gaba: Juyin Juyin Juya Halin Yanar Gizo,” wanda ya yi kira ga masu ba da kuɗi da su tallafa wa ayyukan da ba a biya kuɗaɗen da mata ke yi a Intanet. "Ƙungiyar mata ta kan layi ba ta da kuɗi ba kawai barazana ce ga rayuwar waɗannan masu fafutuka ba, amma barazana ce ga babbar ƙungiyar mata da kanta," sun rubuta.
#Femfuture ya kasance mai gaskiya kuma mai hankali a siyasance. Wani muhimmin dalili na sanya albarkatu a cikin mata ta kan layi, Martin da Valenti sun rubuta, shine don ƙarfafa muryoyin marubuta daga al'ummomin da aka ware. "Mata masu launi da sauran kungiyoyi an riga an yi watsi da su don samun isassun kulawar kafofin watsa labaru kuma sun riga sun yi gwagwarmaya da rashin daidaituwa a cikin wannan al'ada na ƙarancin," in ji su. Ma'auratan sun tattauna yadda gwagwarmayar kan layi ta nuna rashin adalci na musamman da mata masu launin fata ke fama da su kuma sun yi farin ciki da ikon Intanet don ɗaukar nauyin fararen mata don nuna gata na launin fata. "Yawancin tattaunawa na mata a kan layi ya mayar da hankali kan gane hadaddun hanyoyin da gata ke tsara tsarin mu ga aiki da al'umma," sun rubuta.
Matan da ke da alaƙa da #Femfuture sun san cewa da yawa za su fafata aƙalla wasu abubuwan da suka yanke. Ba su shirya ba, ko da yake, don guguwar fushi da raini da ke gaishe da aikinsu. A kan layi, ƙungiyar Barnard - waɗanda tara daga cikinsu mata ne masu launi - an lalatar da su a matsayin farar fata masu son fata. Mutane sun ji haushin cewa taron ya cire wadanda ba sa zaune a New York (Martin da Valenti ba su da kasafin balaguro). An nuna fushi a madadin kowa-mata ƴan asalin ƙasar, uwayen mata, tsofaffin sojoji- waɗanda ba a bayyana damuwarsu ba. Wasu sun fusata cewa an yi takalmi a shafin twitter ba tare da iznin bayyanannen masu tweeters ba. Wasu sun fusata cewa rahoton game da mata a kan layi ya bar matan da ba su kan layi. "Ina sarari a cikin duk waɗannan ƙungiyoyin #femfuture na mutanen da ba su da hanyar intanet?" tweeted Mikki Kendall, marubucin mata wanda, bayan watanni, zai fito da hashtag mai tasiri. # hadin kai ga fararen mata.
Martin ya fashe. Ta dade da yi imani cewa ya wajaba a kan mata su kasance a buɗe don sukar - amma amsar ta kasance mai ban tsoro, cike da mugun imani da taurin kai, har ta ji kamar wani nau'i na Maoist hazing. Kendall, alal misali, ya kwatanta #Femfuture da Rebecca Latimer Felton, wata muguwar wariyar launin fata ta Kudu wacce ta goyi bayan cin zarafi saboda ta ce yana kare mata farare daga fyade. "Yana da matukar wahala a tsunduma cikin aiwatar da zargi na gaske saboda yawancin abin an kwantance da shi cikin rashin amincewa da niyyata da kuma mutumina," in ji Martin.
Bayan ɓacin rai, abin da ya faru ya sa ya yi wahala a yi amfani da takardar don samun tallafi don ƙoƙarin mata na kan layi. Rigimar ita ce mafi yawan mutane sun san aikin, kuma ya bar lalacewa. "Kusan duk wanda ya tambaye mu game da lamarin yana son sanin abin da ya faru, ciki har da masu gyara da na yi aiki da su," in ji Samhita Mukhopadhyay, wata 'yar gwagwarmaya kuma marubuci mai zaman kanta wacce a lokacin editan Feministing.com ce. "Kamar an mayar da ku zuwa wani kusurwa."
Ko da yake Mukhopadhyay ya ci gaba da yin imani da damar ƙarfafa mata ta kan layi, ta ga cewa yawancin abin yana zama mara aiki, har ma da rashin lafiya. "Kowa yana jin tsoron yin magana a yanzu," in ji ta.
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Bayan ƴan shekarun da suka gabata, blogosphere na mata ya zama kamar mara hankali, wurin motsa jiki, mai sake farfado da ƴancin mata don sabon tsara. "Yana jin kamar akwai nishadi da yuwuwar ... wani yanayi ko jin daɗi da ke ginawa," in ji Anna Holmes, wacce ta kafa Jezebel, gidan yanar gizon mata masu tasiri na Gawker Media, a cikin 2007. A cikin 2011, mai suka Emily Nussbaum ta yi bikin bikin blogosphere na mata a cikin XNUMX. New York mujallu: “An kuɓuta daga iyakoki na bugawa, marubuta za su iya ɓata layi tsakanin rubutu na yau da kullun da na yau da kullun; tsakanin kira zuwa makamai, ikirari, da tsayuwar al'ada - da kuma wannan sabon salo na salo ya ƙarfafa masu karatu su shiga ciki, don ɗaukar kasada cikin amincin hasken da aka raba."
Intanet kuma ya zama wuri mai mahimmanci don tsara mata. Lokacin da kungiyar cutar kansar nono Komen for the Cure ta yanke shawarar kashe Planned Parenthood a cikin 2012, babban koma baya na kan layi ya haifar da koma baya ga manufofin da ficewar zartarwa wanda ya tura shi. A bara, Mata, Action & Media da Ayyukan Jima'i na yau da kullun sun jagoranci yaƙin neman zaɓe na kan layi don samun Facebook don hana abubuwan da suka shafi fyade.
Duk da haka kamar yadda mata ta kan layi ta tabbatar da kanta a ainihin ƙarfin canji, yawancin mata masu sha'awar dijital za su gaya muku cewa ya zama mai guba. Tabbas, akwai nau'ikan kasidu masu tasowa daga mutanen da suke jin haushin shigarsu a ciki - ba saboda trolls na jima'i ba, amma saboda yankan adalci na sauran mata. A ranar 3 ga Janairu, alal misali, Katherine Cross, wata mace ta Puerto Rican da ke aiki a kan PhD a Cibiyar Graduate ta CUNY, rubuta game da sau nawa take shakkar buga labarai ko rubuce-rubucen yanar gizo saboda fargabar taka wata nakiyar akida ba da gangan ba tare da saukar da fushin masu tilastawa kan layi. "Ina jin tsoron a jefa ni ba zato ba tsammani a matsayin ɗaya daga cikin 'mugayen mutane' saboda rashin isashen tsatsauran ra'ayi, rashin fahimta ko gafartawa, ko kuma kawai rubuta wani abu wanda girmansa ba zai iya sani ba a gare ni a lokacin bugawa," ta rubuta.
A wasu hanyoyi, yadda mutane ke zaluntar juna a Twitter bai cancanci sharhi ba. Har yanzu, kamar yadda rahoton #Femfuture ya yi ƙoƙari ya nuna, Intanet ita ce inda yawancin gwagwarmayar mata na zamani ke faruwa. "Intanet ita ce agora ta zamani," in ji Cross, wanda ke nazarin yanayin zamantakewar kan layi a cikin aikinta na ilimi. "Yana ƙara zama wurin da mutane da yawa ke haɗuwa tare da yin abubuwa masu ma'ana, ainihin gaske, ta yadda tsarin zamantakewar da ke gudana akan Intanet ya zama abin sha'awa ga kowa."
Bugu da ari, kamar yadda Cross ya ce, "wannan yana zuwa ga zuciyar ingancin ƙungiyoyi masu tsattsauran ra'ayi." Bayan haka, wannan ba shi ne karo na farko da ƴancin mata-ba a ce komai ba game da sauran ƙungiyoyin hagu-ke tashe tashen hankula game da tsaftar akida. Yawancin ƙungiyoyin mata masu ra'ayin mazan jiya sun wargaza kansu ta hanyar yin Allah wadai da wariyar da membobin da suka nuna kishi fiye da kima ko kuma da ake zaton za su zama shugabanni. Kamar yadda Ti-Grace Atkinson mai tsattsauran ra'ayi na biyu ya yi fice ya ce: “Sisterhood yana da ƙarfi. Yana kashewa. Galibi ‘yan uwa mata.”
A cikin "Shara: The Dark Side of Sisterhood," a 1976 Ms. labarin mujallar, Jo Freeman ya kwatanta yadda ’yan mata na zamaninta suka halaka juna. Trashing, ta rubuta, "an cika ta ta hanyar sa ka ji cewa kasancewarka yana da nasaba da Harkar kuma babu abin da zai iya canza wannan gajeriyar daina wanzuwa. Wadannan ji suna ƙarfafawa ne lokacin da aka ware ka da abokanka yayin da suka gamsu cewa dangantakarsu da kai tana da alaƙa da Harka da kansu. Duk wani goyon bayan ku zai bata su…. An mayar da ku zuwa ga abin da kuke yi na baya.”
Kamar mawallafa na #Femfuture, Freeman an zubar da shi don ɗaukan cewa yana wakiltar mata ba tare da takamaiman takunkumi ba, a cikin wannan yanayin ƙungiyar da ta kafa tare da Shulamith Firestone. Ya fara, in ji ta, lokacin da mujallar hagu Ramparts ya buga hoton wata mata da damisa a rataye a wuyan nono daya. Kungiyar ta yanke shawarar rubuta wasika zuwa ga editan. Membobi hudu sun tsara ɗaya ba tare da sanin Freeman ba, kuma lokacin da suka gabatar da shi ga sauran ƙungiyar, ta gane ya yi tsayi da yawa kuma ba za a taɓa buga shi ba. Freeman yana da gogewar mujallar, kuma ta yanke shawarar rubuta wasiƙar pithier na kanta a ƙarƙashin sunan motsinta, Joreen. Yaushe Ramparts An buga shi amma ba ɗayan ba, matan da ke cikin ƙungiyar ta sun yi baƙin ciki, kuma Freeman ta yi farin ciki a taron su na gaba. "Wannan sharar jama'a ce," in ji ta. "Na kasance mai ban tsoro, marar aminci, maci amana." Ya wuce zargi kawai: “Akwai bambanci tsakanin zubar da wani da ƙalubalen su. Kuna iya kalubalantar ra'ayin wani. Lokacin da kuke sharar wani, da gaske kuna cewa su mugun mutum ne. "
Ga masu ra’ayin mata a yau, sanin cewa wasu sun sha irin wannan abubuwa ba lallai ba ne abin ta’aziyya. "Wasu daga cikin samfuran sabbin fasahohi ne da ke haifar da mafi ƙarancin alaƙa, wasu kuma suna jin kamar wannan tsohuwar rikice-rikice tsakanin mata," in ji Martin. "Ta yaya za mu warware wani bangare na kafofin watsa labarun kuma wane bangare ya shafi yadda mata suke hulɗa da juna? Idan akwai wani abu na asali game da yadda mata ke aiki a cikin ƙungiyoyin da ke sa mu zama masu lalata da juna, wannan abin bakin ciki ne mai matuƙar wahala. ”
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Akwai gajeriyar hanyar magana game da muhawarar mata ta kan layi wanda ke nuna mata farar fata masu matsakaicin matsayi a kan duk kungiyoyin da suke zalunta. A bayyane yake, akwai wata gaskiya a nan: ’yan farar fata masu gata sun mamaye mata, kamar yadda suke yi da sauran sassan rayuwar Amurkawa. Brittney Cooper, mataimakiyar farfesa a Rutgers kuma wanda ya kafa kungiyar Crunk Feminist Collective Blog, daya ce daga cikin bakar fata da suka shiga harkar #Femfuture, kuma ta yi magana kan mugunyar da ta mamaye shafin Twitter. Amma ta kuma jaddada cewa bacin da ake nunawa a yanar gizo ya samo asali ne daga wani abu na gaske.
"Ina so in bayyana: Ina tsammanin akwai ainihin rauni," in ji Cooper. Ƙwararren mata na kan layi a cikin 'yan shekarun baya ya haifar da kulla yarjejeniya da rubuce-rubucen rubuce-rubuce ga mata farar fata fiye da mata masu launi. "Ana shigo da mata baƙar fata a cikin waɗannan manyan gidajen yanar gizon mata don kawo ɗan ƙaramin launi ko ɗan bambanci, amma hakan ba ya haɗa da sauran damar ci gaban sana'a." A kan Twitter, da bambanci, mata masu launi, mata masu launin fata da sauran mutanen da suke jin shiru suna iya kara sautin juna, suna magana da mutanen da ke da iko ta hanyar da ba ta misaltuwa.
Wannan ba yana nufin, ko da yake, cewa yanayin zamantakewar zamantakewa na har abada fushi da kuma gashin gashi yana da kyau. "Akwai matsala tare da guba akan Twitter da kuma a cikin kafofin watsa labarun," in ji Cooper. “Ina ganin dole ne mu fadi haka. Ban tabbata cewa mata baƙar fata suna cin gajiyar guba ba. "
Bayan haka, ba kawai farare mata masu gata ba ne suka sami kansu a gefen da ba daidai ba na sharar yanar gizo. Haƙiƙa na iya zama bala'i musamman ga mutanen da aka ware waɗanda suka dogara da Intanet don al'umma. A matsayinta na jami'a, Cross ta yi nazarin mugun tsangwama da mata da yawa ke fuskanta daga tururuwa na jima'i, amma ta ce abokan gaba na iya zama kusan ban tsoro.
Da wasu masu fafutuka suka yi niyya, ta ce, "yana barin ku cikin barazana ta ma'anar cewa za ku fita daga gidan ku…. Wuri ɗaya da za ku iya nema don tsaro, inda ake kimar ku, inda akwai ƙarancin ƙiyayyar tsarin da ke sa ku ji a cikin sauran duniya-wanda yanzu an rufe muku. Cewa yanzu kuna da wannan mummunan suna… Na san abokai da yawa waɗanda ke rayuwa cikin tsoron hakan. ”
Idan rayuwar sana'ar ku ta haɗe da fafutuka, barazanar ta ninka ta. "Don ba zato ba tsammani mutanen da ya kamata na iya yin aiki tare da su, abokaina, sun kama ni a matsayin masu siyar da kaya ko kuma suna da sha'awar mulki ko kuma zama mai neman afuwa kan wannan, wancan da sauran gata-idan irin wannan gata. suna ya zagaya, yana da illa matuka,” in ji Cross.
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Ka'idar da ake aiwatar da ita a cikin wuraren mata na kan layi ana kiranta da "intersectionality", amma a aikace ya sha bamban da ka'idar Kimberlé Crenshaw, farfesa na shari'a na UCLA wanda ya kirkiro kalmar. A cikin labarin 1989 in The Dandalin Shari'a na Jami'ar Chicago, "Demarginalizing the Intersection of Race and Sex: A Black Feminist Critique of Anti-Discrimination Doctrine, Feminist Theory, and Antiracist Politics," Crenshaw ya bayyana yadda rashin yin la'akari da tsaka-tsakin wariyar launin fata da jima'i a cikin rayuwar mata masu launi ya bar wani abu. lacuna in Civil rights law. Ta yi nuni da rashin nasarar shari’ar da wasu gungun mata bakar fata suka yi wa kamfanin General Motors; kotun ta yanke hukuncin cewa yayin da wariyar launin fata da wariyar launin fata duka sune abubuwan da ke haifar da aiki, "haɗin duka" ba haka bane. Wani labarin na Crenshaw ya bayyana matsugunin mata da ke ɓarkewar karɓar wani Latina da aka yi mata fyade saboda ba ta ƙware a Turanci don haka ba za ta iya shiga cikin taron jiyya na rukuni ba. Ayyukanta na iya zama mai ma'ana, amma yana mai da hankali kan sharuɗɗan shari'a da kayan aiki fiye da tsarin magana.
“Kokarin da na ke yi na samar da murya da hangen nesa kan wadannan gazawar ba da gaske ba ne game da azabtarwa, ko kuma wasu zato game da abin da ya kamata maganar da nake zargi ta kasance, ko kuma mene ne gazawar ta ke wakilta a cikin mutum," in ji Crenshaw, "amma a maimakon ƙoƙarin gina wani Feminism wanda ya fi yawan aikin da ya ce yana yi."
Kan layi, duk da haka, haɗin kai yana da yawa game da azabtarwa da kuma kawar da zunubin mutum ɗaya. A wani bangare, in ji Cooper, wannan ya fito ne daga ilimin mata na ilimi, wanda ke da zurfi kamar yadda yake a cikin al'adun zargi na zamani wanda ke jaddada dangantakar iko da ke cikin harshe. "A zahiri mun yarda cewa yadda muke magana game da abubuwa shine mafi kyawun nuni ga siyasarmu," in ji ta. Filayen ƙa'idodi da ƙa'idodi sun samo asali daga wannan aƙidar, waɗanda gabaɗaya ba su sani ba ga waɗanda ba su sani ba, waɗanda duk da haka ana tursasa su idan sun keta su ba da gangan ba. Sau da yawa, waɗannan ƙa'idodin sun fara ne a matsayin fahimi masu amfani game da yadda ikon iya magana ke aiki amma, in ji Cross, "sun daidaita zuwa wani abu mai tsauri da rashin sassauƙa." Ɗaya daga cikin irin wannan ƙa'idar ita ce hani akan abin da ake kira "yan sandan sauti." Fahimtar yadda ake azabtar da mutanen da aka keɓe don fushi ya rikide zuwa wani abu mai mahimmanci "cewa ba za ku taɓa yin tambaya game da ingancin fushi ba, musamman ma lokacin da mutum ya bayyana shi daga wurin da aka ware."
Hakazalika, akwai al'ada da niyya ba ta da mahimmanci-hakika, idan ka yi wa wani laifi sannan ka yi ƙoƙari ka bayyana cewa an yi maka kuskure, ana ganin wannan a matsayin ƙarawa na asali rauni. Har ila yau, akwai gagarumin fahimta a nan: sau da yawa mutane suna nuna hali a cikin manyan hanyoyi ba tare da ma'ana ba, kuma kyakkyawar niyya ba ta sa son zuciya ya zama mai zafi ga waɗanda aka yi musu ba. Duk da haka, “hakan ya zama doka inda ka ce niyya ba ta da wani abu; babu ƙarin darajar fahimtar manufar mai magana,” inji Cross.
Har ila yau, akwai ka'idoji, waɗanda fararen fata masu ra'ayin mata suka yi, game da yadda sauran fararen mata za su yi magana da mata masu launi. Misali, bayan Kendall's #solidarityisforwhitewomen hashtag ya barke a kaka na karshe, Sarah Milstein, mawallafin jagora ga Twitter, ta buga yanki on the Huffington Post mai taken "Hanyoyi 5 Fararen Mata Zasu Iya Magance Wariyar Wariyarmu." A wani lokaci, Milstein ya yi jayayya cewa idan mai launin fata ya faɗi wani abu da ke sa ka rashin jin daɗi, "ka ɗauka cewa rashin jin daɗinka yana gaya maka wani abu game da kai, ba game da wani ba." Bayan Dokar A'a. 3, "Nemi hanyoyin da kuke nuna wariyar launin fata, maimakon hanyoyin da za ku tabbatar da cewa ba ku ba," ta furta laifukan launin fata, ciki har da kasancewa "mummunan abokantaka" ga baƙar fata a wurin bukukuwa.
Yanzu, gaskiya ne cewa fararen fata suna buƙatar yin ƙoƙari don kada su kasance masu nuna wariyar launin fata. Kuma akwai misalai marasa adadi na fararen fata na mata na kasawa mata masu launi sannan kuma suna fakewa da kyakkyawar niyya. Ani DiFranco ya ba da misalin littafin rubutu na menene ba ta yi sa’ad da ta yi hayaniyar da ta yi game da shirinta na yin taron rera waƙa a wata gonar bauta ta dā, sai ta soke ta da furuci mai tausayi: “Na san zafin bautar gaskiya ne kuma yana da zurfi sosai. Duk da haka, a cikin wannan lamarin ina ganin [abin] abin takaici ne sosai abin da mutane da yawa suka zaɓa su yi da wannan zafin. " (DiFranco daga baya ya ba da ƙarin uzuri na gaske.)
Amma tsammanin cewa 'yan mata ya kamata su kasance a shirye su ci gaba da cin zarafi don ko da mafi ƙananan laifuffuka - kamar kasancewa da abokantaka a wurin biki - yana haifar da yanayi na psychodrama na dindindin, musamman ma lokacin da aka haɗe tare da ƙin yin tambaya game da bayyanar fushin mutumin da aka zalunta. .
"A zahiri ina tsammanin akwai wani yanki na mata baƙar fata da gaske suke tashi kan fararen mata suna yin sujada," in ji Cooper. "Yana da game da jin rashin ƙarfi da kuma jin daɗin jinƙan ikon hukuma, da kuma son jin daɗi da zarar abubuwan da kuke faɗa ana ba su gaskiya da iko. Kuma a sa fararen fata su yi hakan yana da ƙarfi, musamman a cikin duniyar da mata farar fata sukan tura iko akan mata baƙar fata ta hanyoyin da ke da matsala sosai. ”
Nunin nunin ƙin yarda na mata, duk da haka, ba iri ɗaya bane da girmamawa. "Abin banƙyama da damuwa a gare ni shi ne, na ga wasu daga cikin maganganun rashin gaskiya na hankali da mata masu launin fata ke gabatar da su suna halatta da kuma yin su daga fararen mata masu launin fata, waɗanda ke da alama suna cikin wani nau'i na gasar don nuna yadda suke tsakanin juna," in ji shi. Jezebel wanda ya kafa Holmes, wanda baƙar fata ne. "Akwai waɗannan yunƙurin 'yan wasan Olympics daga ɓangaren farar fata na mata don nuna alama da nuna ƙawancensu ta hanyar da za ta ji daɗi da rashin gaskiya kuma, a, ba da tallafi."
Wannan ya kai kololuwar rashin fahimta yayin guguwar #Femfuture. Jamia Wilson ta kasance daya daga cikin bakar fata mata da suka shiga taron Barnard, kuma tun daga lokacin ta kasance cikin rukunin mata hudu masu jagoranci na shirin #Femfuture, wanda ke ci gaba da aiki kan hanyoyin da za a samar da mata ta yanar gizo mai dorewa. Ta kalli abin mamaki yayin da mata farar fata suka shiga cikin tashin hankali game da zargin rashin jin daɗin launin fata na #Femfuture. Wata 'yar farar fata da ta bayyana kanta ta wallafa a shafinta na twitter don bayyana cewa babu wata mace mai launi da ta halarci taron Barnard "kuma ina bukatar a ilmantar da ni game da hakan," in ji Wilson. Ko ta yaya, masu fafutuka da suka yi girman kai da wayewarsu ta launin fata "suna bayyana mini game da wariyar launin fata," in ji ta, tana dariya.
A cikin juyin-juya-hali-ci-na-bacin rai, wasu mata na kan layi sun dauki kalmar "farji" matsala. A cikin Janairu, 'yar wasan kwaikwayo kuma mai fafutuka Martha Plimpton ta yi tweet game da fa'ida ga kudaden zubar da ciki na Texas da ake kira "Daren Farji Dubu," wanda A Is For, ƙungiyar kare haƙƙin haifuwa da ta shiga. Plimpton ya yi mamakin lokacin da wasu masu ra'ayin mata na Intanet suka bukaci mutane da su nisanta, suna jayayya cewa jaddada "farji" yana cutar da mazajen da ba sa son gabobin haihuwarsu a matsayin mace. "Idan aka ba da aikin 'yan sanda na yau da kullun, ba za ku iya tsammanin mutanen trans su ji an haɗa su da taken taron da aka mayar da hankali kan 'yan sanda, al'aurar binary," tweeted @DrJaneChi, mai ba da zubar da ciki da kuma mai ba da lafiya transgender. (Ta ambaci “al’aurar ciki” a matsayin madadin.) Lokacin da Plimpton ta nace cewa za ta ci gaba da cewa “farji,” abincinta ya cika da fushi. "Don haka da gaske kun himmatu don ninka kan yin amfani da kalmar da aka gaya muku sau da yawa keɓewa & cutarwa ce?" ya tambayi wani mai rubutun ra'ayin mazan jiya da ya bayyana kansa.
Plimpton yana ɗaukar tsaka-tsaki da mahimmanci-A Is For yana ɗaukar jerin tattaunawa kan batun a wannan shekara-amma wannan sigar purist, arcane ta ruɗe ta. "Ba zan daina amfani da kalmar 'farji' ga kowa ba, ko Glenn Beck ko Mike Huckabee ko kuma wani a kan Twitter wanda ke jin yana haifar da amsa dysphoric," in ji ta. "Ba zan iya yin hakan ba kuma har yanzu ina ba da shawarar samun 'yancin haihuwa. Ba abu ne na gaske ba da za a yi tsammani."
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Mikki Kendall bai ji motsin korafe-korafe game da danniya da yanayin kan layi ba. Wani tsohon soja, dalibi mai karatun digiri kuma ya auri mahaifiyar biyu a Chicago, Kendall duka sananne ne kuma ana jin tsoro a cikin da'irar mata ta Intanet. Uwar Jones ta bayyana ta daya daga cikin "Matan Badass 13 na 2013" -tare da Wendy Davis da Malala Yousafzai - don ƙirƙirar hashtag na #solidarityisforwhitewomen. Amma kamar yadda Kendall ya sani, mutane da yawa suna ɗaukan ta a matsayin mai cin zarafi, kodayake kaɗan ne ke son faɗin haka da babbar murya. Ta ce: "Ina da wani suna don yin mugun nufi.
A kan wayar, Kendall ba ma'ana ba ne. Ta zama mai dumi da kuma nishadantarwa, amma kuma ta damu - ta yi magana mai tsawo game da slights da aka yi a cikin zaren sharhi na shafukan yanar gizo fiye da shekaru biyar da suka wuce. Kamar yadda ta ke gani, jiga-jigan mata sun shafe shekaru suna takurawa mata da karancin iko, kuma a yanzu da ake kalubalantar ikonsu, sai kukan ba su yi ba. Koke-koken nasu, in ji ta, har yanzu wani tabbaci ne na gata, tunda ba su damu da yadda Kendall da abokanta ke ɗauka ba.
"Idan ka kalli abubuwan da aka ambata a gare ni, don @BlackAmazon, na @FeministaJones, ga sauran baƙar fata da yawa, yana da wahala a gare mu mu ga sauran abubuwan a matsayin cin zarafi, zan faɗi gaskiya tare da ku," in ji ta. "Saboda muna samun fiye da 'Bana son labarinku.' Kuma muna samun shi duk rana. Ina da wanda ya shafe sa'o'i hudu a makon da ya gabata yana zubar da hotunan batsa a cikin ambatona. Na sa mutane sun aiko mini da hotunan lynching. Don haka lokacin da wani ya ce, 'Oh, wannan labarin yana da muni,' kuma gungun mutane suna magana game da munin labarin, kuma kun ce wannan zalunci ne - zan rufe ido kan ma'anar zalunci."
Matsalar, kamar yadda ta gani, ta ta'allaka ne a cikin tsammanin fararen fata na mata na yadda suka cancanci a bi da su. Kendall ya ce: "Yin mata yana da matsalar mammy, kuma mammy ba ta sake zama a nan." "Na sani Taimako ya gaya muku cewa kuna da hankali, kuna da mahimmanci, kun kasance na musamman. Taimako karya. Za ku fuskanci fushi, za ku yi fama da rauni. " Kuma idan duk ya zama yayi yawa? “Kula da kai ya shigo cikin wannan. Wani lokaci dole ne ku rufe Intanet.
Mutane kaɗan ne ke yin hakan, amma suna nisantar da mace ta kan layi. Holmes, wanda ya bar Jezebel a cikin 2010 kuma yanzu ya zama marubuci don The Binciken Littafin New York Times, ta ce ba za ta taba fara shafin yanar gizon mata a yau ba. "Jahannama, a'a," in ji ta. Blogosphere na mata "yana jin kamar yanayi mara kyau, kariya, gagarumi fiye da yadda yake a da. Yana da matukar damuwa, ”in ji ta. "Yana sa ni tunanin na fita a lokacin da ya dace."
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