Wkaza Alfred Kinsey ya buga Harkokin Jima'i a cikin Ɗan Mutum a cikin 1948, ya haɗa da kalmar taka tsantsan ga masu karatunsa: “Muddin an magance jima’i a cikin ruɗani na jahilci da ƙayatarwa, ƙin yarda da son rai, dannewa da kuzari, azabtarwa da cin zarafi, ɓoyewa da nunawa, zai kasance. hade da kwarjini da rashin mutunci da ba zai kai ga gaskiya ta hankali ko mutuncin dan Adam ba”. A cikin shekaru 60 da suka biyo bayan nazari mai zurfi na Kinsey, kafa Amurka ta yi watsi da tsawatarwar da ya yi, inda ta gwammace su bi manufofin cutarwa da ke cimma burinsu na mayar da martani.
Ɗaya daga cikin waɗannan manufofin ita ce ilimin jima'i-kawai kauracewa, wanda ya koyar da cewa ci gaba da kasancewa har sai aure shine kawai zaɓi mai aminci da karɓuwa ga matasa da matasa. Waɗannan kwasa-kwasan suna guje wa duk tattaunawa game da maganin hana haihuwa da amfani da su ko kuma kawai jaddada ƙimar gazawar na'urorin gama gari kamar kwaroron roba da kwayar hana haihuwa. Tun daga 1982, gwamnatin tarayya ta kashe sama da dala biliyan 1.5 don tallafawa shirye-shiryen kauracewa kawai wanda, a cewar Cibiyar Guttmacher, ana amfani da sama da kashi ɗaya bisa uku na gundumomin makarantun gwamnati a Amurka. Kudade na shekara-shekara don kauracewa-kawai yanzu ya kai kusan dala miliyan 175, wanda ya ninka adadin da aka kashe a farkon shugabancin Bush.
Yawaitar shirye-shirye-kawai a cikin tsarin ilimi yana nuna mummunar gibin dimokiradiyya a Amurka. Shekaru da yawa, yawan jama'ar Amirka sun yi tsayayya da kauracewa ilimin jima'i kawai, kuma saboda dalili mai kyau: shirye-shiryen ba su da kyau a likitance, suna ba da shaidar shaidar da suke da'awar kafa, kuma suna da tushe a cikin halayen jima'i da masu tsattsauran ra'ayi. To sai dai duk da rashin amincewar da aka samu, wadanda ke rike da madafun iko ciki har da shugaba Bush, ba wai kawai sun yarda da kauracewa tsarin karatu kawai ya bunkasa a makarantun Amurka ba, amma sun yi aiki tukuru don tabbatar da yaduwarsu a gida da waje tare da kashe cikakkiyar jima'i. ilimi.
Ra'ayoyin Jama'a
Ina bitar littafin don jarida Mahimman ilimin zamantakewa, Lesley Shore ya rubuta cewa kuri'un jin ra'ayin jama'a da aka yi tun farkon shekarun 1960 "sun bayyana goyon baya ga cikakkiyar ilimin jima'i" tsakanin Amurkawa. Kadan ya canza tun daga lokacin. Wani bincike na 2004, wanda Gidauniyar Kaiser Family Foundation (KFF) ta gudanar, ya gano cewa sama da kashi 90 cikin ɗari na iyaye suna jin yana da “mahimmanci ko kaɗan” a sami cikakkiyar ilimin jima’i a makarantun gwamnati. Bugu da ƙari, kashi biyu bisa uku na masu jefa ƙuri'a na Amirka sun nuna goyon baya ga cikakkiyar ilimin jima'i kuma kashi 67 cikin 20 na yawan mutanen da suka girma sun fi son "cikakken shirye-shiryen ilimin jima'i wanda ya haɗa da bayanai game da yadda ake samu da amfani da kwaroron roba da sauran magungunan hana haihuwa." An tabbatar da waɗannan binciken a farkon wannan shekara, a matakin jiha, lokacin da Jami'ar Minnesota ta buga wani rahoto da ke bayyana yadda kusan tara daga cikin goma iyayen Minnesota ke tallafawa shirye-shiryen ilimin jima'i wanda "[ya haɗa da] bayanai game da kauracewa da rigakafin ciki da kuma jima'i. cututtuka.” Har ila yau, binciken ya gano cewa goyon bayan "m" Minnesota don cikakkiyar ilimin jima'i ya yanke tsakanin jinsi, shekaru, launin fata, aji, da kuma layi na siyasa. Minnesota ba ta bambanta da wannan ba saboda adawa da kauracewa-kawai ya yadu sosai cewa kusan jihohi XNUMX, ciki har da Minnesota, sun yi watsi da tallafin ilimin jima'i na Title V saboda sharuɗɗan gwamnatin tarayya na kashe shi kan kauracewa-har zuwa shirye-shiryen aure.
Matasa da matasa, kamar iyayensu, suna tallafawa cikakkiyar ilimin jima'i kuma. Bisa ga wani bincike da Tina Hoff (KFF) ta yi, kashi 82 cikin 15 na matasa masu shekaru 17-18 da kashi uku cikin huɗu na matasa masu shekaru 24-XNUMX sun fi son tsarin koyar da jima’i wanda ya haɗa da bayani kan “yadda za a kare kanka daga cutar kanjamau da kuma STDs. ,” “nau’o’in kariyar haihuwa daban-daban da ake da su,” da kuma “yadda ake kawo al’amuran lafiyar jima’i irin su STDs da hana haihuwa tare da abokin tarayya.” Nuna dabi'un iyaye da matasa na Amurka, wasu ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun ƙwararrun sun kuma ba da sanarwar adawa da ilimin jima'i kawai, ciki har da Ƙungiyar Likitocin Amurka, Ƙungiyar Ƙwararrun Ƙwararru ta Amirka, Cibiyar Nazarin Ilimin Yara ta Amirka, Ƙungiyar Kiwon Lafiyar Jama'a ta Amirka, Ƙungiyar Ilimi ta Ƙasa, da Ƙungiyar Kiwon Lafiyar Makarantun Amirka.
Sabanin ra'ayi, goyon baya ga kaurace wa ilimin jima'i kawai yana da iyaka har ma tsakanin Kiristoci a Amurka, waɗanda a al'adance ake sa ran za su dauki matsayi mai mahimmanci a kan batutuwan jima'i. A cewar wani bincike da Susan Rose mujallar ta buga Ƙungiyoyin Soji, takwas cikin goma mutanen da aka gano a matsayin Kirista masu ra'ayin mazan jiya suna goyon bayan ilimin jima'i a makarantun sakandare, kuma bakwai cikin goma suna goyon bayansa a makarantun tsakiya. Wani binciken, wanda NPR da Makarantar Gwamnati ta Kennedy suka gudanar, sun sami sakamako iri ɗaya: kusan tara cikin mutane goma waɗanda suka bayyana kansu a matsayin "Masu Ikklisiya masu ra'ayin mazan jiya" ko "Kiristoci na sake haihuwa" sun yarda da koyarwar jima'i na ɗan adam a makarantu. (Babu wata hujja mai mahimmanci akan halayen Yahudawa da Musulmai na Amurka game da ilimin jima'i, ko da yake wasu daga cikinsu-kamar waɗanda ke cikin Ƙungiyar Ƙungiyoyin Gyaran Yahudanci-sun yi magana a fili game da shirye-shiryen kauracewa kawai.)
Jama'ar Amurka suna adawa da kauracewa ilimin jima'i kawai saboda wasu dalilai masu ma'ana. Na farko, shirye-shiryen suna da ban mamaki kuma ba su da inganci. Kwamitin Majalisar Wakilan Amurka ya gudanar da cikakken bincike game da daidaiton likita na kwasa-kwasan kamewa kawai, ba zato ba tsammani, kwamitin Majalisar Wakilai na Amurka ya yi a shekara ta 2004. Wannan bita da aka ambata a ko'ina, wanda aka fi sani da rahoton Waxman, ya gano cewa sama da kashi 80 cikin ɗari na tarayya guraben karatu abstinence-kawai manhajoji sun ƙunshi “ƙarya, ɓarna, ko kuma gurbatattun bayanai game da lafiyar haihuwa.” Kwasa-kwasan da aka gano sun koyar, a cikin wasu abubuwa, cewa ciki na faruwa sau ɗaya a cikin kowane sau bakwai ma'aurata suna saduwa da jima'i ta hanyar amfani da kwaroron roba, kashi 10 cikin 48 na zubar da ciki yana haifar da haihu, ana iya kamuwa da cutar kanjamau ta hanyar gumi da hawaye, da kuma cewa Dan Adam yana da chromosomes 43. An kuma san shirye-shiryen ƙauracewa kawai don koyar da cewa taɓa al'aurar wani na iya "sakamako cikin ciki," cewa tayin mai shekaru 2002 "mutum mai tunani ne," da kuma cewa rabin matasa maza na gay a Amurka suna kamuwa da cutar. Cutar AIDS. Wasu mambobin Majalisa, wato 'yan Republican wadanda suka amince da Dokar Hakki na Mutum, Aiki da Kariyar Iyali na XNUMX, sun yi ƙoƙari su kawar da irin wannan zargi, suna jayayya cewa "ba zai yiwu a amince da abin da bayanin ya dace ba a likitance."
Na biyu, ban da ƙunshi "ƙarya, ɓarna ko ɓarna" bayanan lafiyar jima'i, shirye-shiryen ƙauracewa kawai suna ba da bayanin shaidar da aka dogara da su. Ɗaya daga cikin misalan mafi kyawun koyarwa ana samun su a cikin Tsarin Wasan AC Green, shirin ƙauracewa-aure da gwamnatin tarayya ta ba da tallafi ta hanyar Gaskiyar Project na tushen Illinois. A farkon littafin aikin ɗalibi, ya yi ƙaulin wani bincike na shekara ta 2001 da Ƙungiyar Ƙarshen Ciki ta Ƙasa ta yi yana cewa matasan Amirka suna son “saƙo mai ƙarfi… cewa su guji jima’i” har sai sun yi aure. Wannan ba daidai ba ne. Maganar, wacce ke shafi na biyu na binciken, ta karanta a zahiri cewa matasa na Amurka suna son “saƙo mai ƙarfi… cewa su guji yin jima’i har sai sun daina zuwa makarantar sakandare,” ra’ayin da ke da bambanci da kamewa-kawai da'a. A gaskiya ma, wannan sakin layi ɗaya, da kuma sauran binciken, ya ci gaba da bayar da rahoton cewa duka iyaye da matasa suna sha'awar "mafi girma game da hana haihuwa" a cikin darussan ilimin jima'i, binciken da ya dace - kuma mai yiwuwa a hankali - an cire shi daga littafin aikin ɗalibi. . Irin wannan kuskuren ya zama ruwan dare gama gari a cikin shirye-shiryen kauracewa kawai, kuma yakamata ya damun wadanda suka yarda cewa matasa da matasa sun cancanci ilimin jima'i na gaskiya.
Na uku, Amurkawa da yawa suna adawa da ɗabi'ar jima'i da ɗabi'a na tsattsauran ra'ayi waɗanda shirye-shiryen ilimin jima'i kawai ke nunawa. A cewar rahoton Waxman da aka ambata a baya, darussa da yawa “suna gabatar da ra’ayoyin [jinsi] a matsayin gaskiyar kimiyya,” musamman waɗanda ke da alaƙa da mata da ‘yan mata. Wani mashahurin manhaja, Why kNOw, ya koyar da cewa “farin ciki da nasarar mazaje ya ta’allaka ne akan abubuwan da suka samu,” yayin da mata “suna auna farin cikin su kuma suna yin la’akari da nasararsu ta hanyar dangantakarsu.” Wani shirin, horon WAIT, ya lissafa "tallafin kudi" a matsayin daya daga cikin "manyan bukatu biyar" na mata, yayin da aka lissafa "tallafin cikin gida" a matsayin daya daga cikin manyan bukatun maza. Zaɓin Mafi Kyau, mafi mashahurin shirin ilimi na ƙauracewa tallafi na tarayya, yana mai da ɗalibai da tatsuniyar jarumi wanda ya ceci gimbiya daga dodo. Ba da daɗewa ba dodon ya dawo don neman ramuwar gayya, amma gimbiya ta shawarci jarumin da ya kashe dodon da hanci da guba. Dabarar tana aiki, amma jarumin ya yi imanin cewa ya yi yaƙi da rashin mutunci kuma yana jin "kunya." A ƙarshe, jarumi ba ya auri gimbiya, sai dai budurwar ƙauye - kuma "sai dai bayan ta tabbatar da cewa ba ta san kome ba game da noses ko guba." “Tsarin labarin,” ya kammala, shi ne cewa “shawarwari da taimako na lokaci-lokaci na iya zama daidai, amma da yawa daga cikinsa zai rage kwarin gwiwar mutum ko kuma yana iya juyar da shi daga gimbiyarsa.”
Ƙarin stereotypes suna da yawa. Yawancin shirye-shiryen ƙauracewa kawai suna koya wa ɗalibai cewa "maza suna shirye don jima'i," yayin da mata "sau da yawa suna buƙatar sa'o'i na shiri na tunani da tunani." A cikin wani jawabi da aka gabatar a harabar Google, mai koyar da ilimin jima'i Violet Blue ta yi ƙaulin tsarin karatun Me ya sa kNow ke cewa "'ya'ya mata ne ke da alhakin gazawar samari wajen shawo kan sha'awar jima'i," wata sanarwa da ke nuna cewa 'yan mata suna da laifi idan an tursasa su. cin zarafi, ko ma fyade. Glencoe Health, littafin kula da lafiya kawai-kawai wanda babban masanin ilimi McGraw-Hill ya samar, ya hana yin jima'i kafin aure ta hanyar koyar da cewa matasa masu yin jima'i, mai yiwuwa 'yan mata, "suna haɗarin haɓaka suna a tsakanin tsararraki a matsayin mai 'mai sauƙin jima'i'" - wanda aka sani. hanyar gaya wa matasa mata cewa idan sun yi jima'i, ana sa ran abokan karatun su za su kira su da "'yan iska" - kamar yadda suka yi wa wata daliba Harvard kuma marubuciyar jima'i Lena Chen a bainar jama'a a farkon wannan shekara bayan sun shiga wata muhawara a makarantarta.
Patricia Miller, 'yar jarida kuma mai nazarin manufofin haifuwa, ta bayyana cewa manufofin gwamnatin tarayya na farko na kauracewa kawai suna da dalilai na addini, wanda ya fara da Dokar Rayuwa da Iyali na Shugaba Reagan wanda "yakan inganta ƙayyadaddun dabi'un addini" har sai ACLU ta samu nasara a cikin 1993. biyo bayan fadan kotu na shekaru goma. Haƙƙin addini ya dawo ba da daɗewa ba, kodayake, lokacin da Democrat Bill Clinton ya goyi bayan tanadin kudade don shirye-shiryen kauracewa kawai a cikin lissafin sake fasalin jindadinsa na 1996. Matakin, wanda ya ba da tallafin dala miliyan 50 a kowace shekara don kaurace wa manhajojin ilimi, ba kwararrun likitoci ko malamai ne suka tsara ba, amma “wakilan Majalisar Binciken Iyali, Kungiyar Hadin Kan Kirista, da sauran kungiyoyin masu ra’ayin rikau,” wadanda su kuma suka ba da hadin kai. Manazarcin manufofin Gidauniyar Heritage kuma zakaran kauracewa kawai Robert Rector.
Ko da yake yawancin darussan ƙauracewa kawai ba sa bayyana tushen tushensu na Kirista a sarari, akwai adadin da ke yin hakan. A cikin wata jarida ta hukuma da ke rakiyar manhajar Me ya sa ake amfani da ita sosai, alal misali, marubucin ya koka da abubuwan da suka shafi zamantakewar yau da kullun, yana rubuta cewa “Ba a ƙara daraja mu a matsayin halittu na ruhaniya da Mahalicci mai ƙauna ya yi ba.” Marubucin ya rufe wasiƙar ta hanyar sanya hannu "A cikin Sabis ɗinsa." True Love Waits, sanannen shiri ne da LifeWay Ministries ya shirya, yana da nufin “koya wa ɗalibai ƙa’idodin Littafi Mai Tsarki don tsabta,” kuma yana marmarin ƙirƙirar tsarar matasa waɗanda za su “[rayuwa] domin ɗaukakar Allah tare da tasoshin jiragen ruwa don farfaɗowa. ” kuma ku “shirya don auren Littafi Mai Tsarki, na rayuwa.” Girmama Jima'i, wanda ke kai wa ɗalibai a cikin ƙasashe sama da 20 kuma ta ba da kanta a matsayin "shirin koyar da ƙauracewa shirin duniya," yana sanar da baƙi zuwa gidan yanar gizon su cewa darussan kauracewa su ya dace da koyarwar Katolika.
Dimokuradiyya Deficit
TGwamnatin tarayya ta tsara shirye-shiryen ba da tallafin ilimin jima'i, nada matsananciyar martani ga manyan mukamai na tsara manufofin jima'i, da rashin ƙarfi na adawa da kauracewa taron da 'yan jam'iyyar Democrats ke yi a fili suna nuna gaskiyar cewa Amurka ba ta wuce dimokiradiyya ta yau da kullun ba. inda damar shiga jama'a ke iyakance ga zaɓin shugabanni daga ɗimbin ƴan takarar da ba za a iya bambanta su ba, tare da masu goyon bayan kuɗi iri ɗaya kuma kawai sha'awa daban-daban.
Da farko, shirye-shiryen da ke ba da kuɗin ilimin jima'i a Amurka an tsara su ta hanyar da za su goyi bayan kaurace wa tsarin karatun aure kawai tare da kashe cikakkun darussan ilimin jima'i. Bisa ga Sashe na 510 na Dokar Tsaron Jama'a, wanda aka ba da izini a lokacin gwamnatin Clinton, shirye-shiryen ilimin jima'i a Amurka sun cancanci samun tallafin tarayya na Title V kawai idan "manufa ta musamman" ita ce "[koyar da] zamantakewa, tunani, da kuma nasarorin da za a samu na kiwon lafiya ta hanyar kauracewa yin jima'i." Kwasa-kwasan ilimin jima'i da ke samun tallafin tarayya dole ne kuma su yi wa'azi cewa "dangantakar aminci ta aure ɗaya cikin mahallin aure shine ma'aunin da ake sa ran jima'i na ɗan adam," kuma "aikin jima'i a waje da yanayin aure yana iya haifar da lahani na hankali da na jiki. .” Bugu da ƙari kuma, shirye-shiryen kauracewa kawai da ke karɓar kuɗin tarayya ba gwamnatin tarayya ba ta sake duba ta don gaskiyar gaskiya ko likita, wanda ya bayyana dalilin da ya sa rahoton Waxman ya gano "matsaloli masu tsanani da rikice-rikice tare da daidaito na kauracewa kawai manhaja" wanda ya mamaye tsarin ilimin Amurka.
Tare da ɗan bincike kaɗan, yana da sauƙi a koyi dalilin da yasa shirye-shiryen ba da tallafin ilimin jima'i, kamar sauran manufofin kiwon lafiyar jama'a a Amurka, suna da ɗabi'a sosai: manyan matsayi na yanke shawara game da manufofin jima'i suna gudanar da matsananciyar ra'ayin mazan jiya waɗanda aka zaɓa bisa tushen. akan daidaiton akida maimakon cancantar sana'a. Akwai misalai da yawa na waɗannan jami'ai waɗanda a halin yanzu suna kan manyan mukaman ikon jima'i ko kuma sun yi hakan a baya-bayan nan. Thomas A. Coburn, wanda yanzu dan majalisar dattijai ne daga Oklahoma, ya yi aiki a matsayin mataimakin shugaban majalisar ba da shawara kan cutar kanjamau, inda ya yi alkawarin "kalubalanci mayar da hankali kan kasa da kasa kan amfani da kwaroron roba don hana yaduwar cutar [HIV]" kuma ya koka. abin da ya kira "'yan luwadi" wanda ya "kutsa kai tsaye ga cibiyoyin iko a kowane yanki a fadin kasar nan" da kuma "mai karfin iko." Robert George, memba na fitaccen majalisar shugaban kasa kan bioethics, yana son a zartar da dokokin da za su haramta al'aura, kuma tsohon shugaban majalisar, Leon Kass, ya yi magana game da lalata da lalata kamar lasar ice cream a bainar jama'a, tunda "cin abinci. a titi na karnuka ne.” Susan Orr, wacce ba da jimawa ba ta yi murabus daga matsayinta na mataimakiyar mataimakiyar sakatare mai kula da al'amuran jama'a, babbar darekta ce a Majalisar Binciken Iyali mai ra'ayin mazan jiya kuma ta ba da shawarar "kaucewa kan samar da hanyoyin hana haihuwa." Ta kuma kira masu ba da kulawar haihuwa "masu haɗin gwiwa da al'adun mutuwa."
Har yanzu ba a bayyana sunan magajin Orr ba (a lokacin rubutawa), amma yanayin waɗanda Washington ta nada a baya ba ta da kyau ga nan gaba. Dokta Eric Keroack, magajin Orr nan da nan, fitaccen mai ba da shawara ne na ƙauracewa wanda ke zaune a Majalisar Ba da Shawarwari ta Likitoci don Kauracewa Clearinghouse. Shi babban abokin gaba ne na zubar da ciki wanda ya ce maganin hana haihuwa “suna wulakanta mata, suna wulakanta jima’i, kuma suna cutar da lafiyar ɗan adam da farin ciki.” Dokta Alma Golden, wacce ta rike Mataimakin Mataimakin Sakatare a gaban Keroack, ta bayyana ilimin hana haihuwa da shirye-shiryen rarraba kamar yadda kawai ke ba wa matasa "kwaroron roba kyauta don bikin karshen mako" kuma ta yi aiki don sanya "mafi mahimmanci ga 'kauracewa-kawai'" a cikin iyali. shirye-shirye ta taimaka wajen gudanarwa.
Ko da yake da yawa masu tsattsauran ra'ayi na ƙauracewa kawai suna da manyan mukamai a gwamnatin Amurka, akwai jami'an jihohi da ke adawa da irin waɗannan shirye-shiryen. Abin baƙin ciki shine, waɗannan masu adawa da juna sun yi ƙoƙari mai ban sha'awa na ƙoƙarin hana ƙauracewa-har zuwa karatun ilimin jima'i na aure kuma sun ba da gudummawar da gangan don fadada shi don samun ribar siyasa a wasu wurare. Rahoton Waxman, alal misali, wanda ke wakiltar gwamnatin tarayya mafi tsauri kuma mafi shaharar sukar cikin gida zuwa yau, bai ƙunshi shawarwari ko shawarwari ba. Wani rahoto, wanda Ofishin Ba da Lamuni na Gwamnati ya buga a cikin 2006, ya kasance mai rauni kamar haka - shawararsa mafi ƙarfi ita ce cewa ya kamata a yi shirye-shiryen kauracewa kuɗi na tarayya don "sa hannu a rubuce-rubucen tabbaci a cikin aikace-aikacen tallafi cewa kayan da suke amfani da su daidai ne." Babu ko daya daga cikin rahotannin gwamnati da ya yi kira da a soke shirye-shiryen ilimin kaurace wa.
'Yan jam'iyyar Democrat, wadanda galibi ke adawa da shirye-shiryen kauracewa kawai, sun rattaba hannu kan wani kudirin doka a watan Yunin da ya gabata wanda ya kara yawan kudade don kaurace wa dala miliyan 27, makonni kadan bayan fitar da wata alƙawarin yaudara na "kashe tallafi-kawai." Dalilin wannan yunkurin, a cewar jami'an dimokuradiyya, shine don samun "masu amfani - wato 'yan Republican a Congress - a cikin yakin da za su zo tare da Bush game da kashe kudi a cikin gida," yana nuna a fili adawarsu ga kaurace wa ilimin jima'i kawai yayin da suke yin sulhu yayin da ake yin sulhu. Majalisar dattijai na baya-bayan nan kan kauracewa-kawai inda tattaunawar "ba kasafai ta wuce daukaka darajar kauracewa aure kafin aure ba," a cewar Bob Roehr na Pride Source Media Group, kuma ya ƙare a cikin tsaka mai wuyar shawarar cewa za a samar da tallafi ga jihohi don kashewa. cikakken ilimin jima'i, idan sun zaɓa.
Ci gaba da fadada shirye-shiryen koyar da ilimin jima'i-kawai, haɗe tare da rashin gazawa na jam'iyyar adawa da ake zargi, yana kwatanta babban gibin dimokiradiyya a Amurka. Kamar yadda yake tare da sauran batutuwan manufofin jama'a - gami da kiwon lafiya, kashe kuɗi a cikin gida, da yaƙi a Iraki - ra'ayin jama'a ana ɗaukarsa da ƙarancin ƙima kuma galibi ana watsi da shi azaman "siyasa marar gaskiya." Wadanda ke adawa da kauracewa ilimin jima'i kawai ba za su iya ba kuma kada su dogara ga zaɓaɓɓun jami'an da za su yi canji mai kyau na zamantakewa. Bukatar mashahurin ayyuka na jama'a don tallafawa cikakkun shirye-shiryen koyar da jima'i, gaskiya, da kuma haɗa kai ba ta taɓa yin girma ba, kuma akwai damammaki da yawa don aiki. Dalibai da malamai za su iya shiga cikin rashin haɗin kai, ƙin shiga ko koyarwa daga cikin manhajojin da ke wa'azi kawai kauracewa-har zuwa aure. Membobin al'umma, gami da ƙwararrun kiwon lafiya, malamai, da iyalai masu damuwa za su iya shirya tarurrukan koyar da ilimin jima'i na unguwa wanda ke baiwa matasa bayanan lafiyar haifuwa waɗanda suke matuƙar so da buƙata. Muddin an ƙyale ilimin jima’i-kawai ya bunƙasa ba tare da ƙalubale ba, matasa a Amurka za su sha wani nau’i na koyaswar da ba za ta kai ga “fahimtar fahimi ko mutuncin ɗan adam ba.”